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Sometimes helping a friend can be challenging!

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Real Estate Agent with Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 PA License - AB067198

When I met Annie, I was introduced to a whole host of people, friends, acquaintances people she had known for years. When we got married, it seemed as if I had joined this enormous family of loving people. One of these was funnily enough a lady who the person who introduced Annie and I was going to also introduce me to as an option for my love life. However, that never happened as Annie and I hit it off from the start. But she did become a good friend.

Due to different life circumstances she was renting, having recently sold a home which she had shared with a cousin. We talked often about her desire to purchase a home and as she lived on the other side of Philadelphia from us, we wanted her to move closer. Things might never have changed if her landlord had not decided to sell the house she was living in. We made a strong offer which he rejected, preferring as he put it to test the market. Disappointing as this was, a neighbor who lived two doors away mentioned they would be selling in the summer and they were willing to make a deal if our friend could wait to settle till the summer.

Although this was inconvenient, meaning she had to move twice, the price agreed and inspections completed we had a deal. But, no great story happens without a challenge. Out of the blue our Friend was laid off. She had never been out of work before and suddenly the mortgage company was not going to fund the deal without a job. She got to work applying for jobs, having interviews but nothing came together. The sellers were patient, but getting antsy, was this deal going to fall apart, did they need to relist the home for sale.

What had initially seemed like an easy deal, to stay put in the rental hose had turned into a very challenging opportunity. But, my mortgage provider found a product that might work, but the mortgage company was slow, terrible customer service and although we got a mortgage commitment, we needed up having to push the settlement date back several days. Needless to say, there was a lot of talking both buyer and seller down from cliff edges as the stress was enormous for everyone. But, we all worked together and the deal eventually settled.

Afterward, my client wrote the following review:

Exceptional service, expert guidance, and unwavering support from start to finish.

I had the absolute pleasure of working with Nick Vandekar during my home buying journey, and I cannot recommend him highly enough. From start to finish, Nick demonstrated exceptional professionalism, clear and timely communication, and an outstanding attention to detail. His deep knowledge of the market and the mortgage process gave me complete confidence every step of the way. Nick was always responsive, providing thoughtful and accurate answers to every question I had. Even when an unexpected challenge arose, his calm problem-solving and proactive approach ensured everything stayed on track. His dedication and genuine care for his clients truly set him apart. If you're looking for a reliable, knowledgeable, and committed real estate agent, I wholeheartedly recommend Nick Vandekar. He made what could have been a stressful experience into a smooth and successful one.

This is my first entry in to the AR November challenge hosted by Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 

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Nick Vandekar
Nick is a Tredyffrin Easttown Residential and Commercial REALTOR selling The Main Line, Chester, Delaware and Montgomery Counties.

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Kathy Schowe
California Lifestyle Realty - La Quinta, CA
La Quinta, California 760-333-8886

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543   What a wonderful story and a meaningful sale!  We care for our friends and clients and that makes all the difference!  Have a great week!  Kathy

Nov 04, 2025 08:30 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

What a heartfelt story, Nick — this perfectly captures the real side of real estate! 🏡 Deals involving friends can be the toughest because the emotions run deeper, but your persistence, patience, and professionalism truly shine through here. That review says it all — exceptional service and genuine care make all the difference.

Nov 04, 2025 10:02 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Kathy Schowe she is like a sister, we do so many things together.

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 I could not believe it when she called to tell us that she had been laid off. She was so panicked, but we took it step by step and found an answer. She now has an even better job she is enjoying tremendously.

Nov 04, 2025 10:42 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

If I can be honest, I hate working with friends. Thanks for sharing and enjoy your Taco Tuesday and have a productive week! Bill

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

 

Nov 04, 2025 10:52 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

A wonderful story, Nick, and a wonderful testimonial... and just goes to show how much can be accomplished when all the parties involved are motivated and committed to the end goal.

Nov 04, 2025 11:04 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Nick,

I always feel things happen for a reason! Even though this lady got laid off at a very inopportune time she landed an even better job!

Nov 04, 2025 06:08 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

I love this, Nick. First- what a coincidence that Annie's friend could have been a possible future Mrs. V!!!  And how lucky she was to have you working on her behalf. I'm sure it must have been frustrating for all of you but thankfully it worked out. 

Nov 04, 2025 07:19 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 
Sounds like it took all the ins-and-outs you learned over the years! Whatan amazing set of comments! Take care - Lynn
Nick was always responsive, providing thoughtful and accurate answers to every question I had. Even when an unexpected challenge arose, his calm problem-solving and proactive approach ensured everything stayed on track. 

Nov 04, 2025 07:45 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Nick - life in real estate can be akin to a roller-coaster ride at times for multiple reasons.  

Nov 05, 2025 03:48 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

That is an excellent review, and I'm glad it all worked out!

Nov 05, 2025 05:33 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt rollercoaster, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543! Thanks for sharing such a real, behind-the-scenes look at the grit and grace it takes to get a deal done. Your story’s packed with wisdom and warmth, and I really appreciate the insight 😊.

Nov 05, 2025 12:11 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore I have had some friends who did not treat me as a friend.

Nina Hollander, Broker it was hair raising to say the least.

Dorie Dillard Austin TX she did, and is much happier.

Kathy Streib it is funny, but I do not think I am her type.

Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 it definitely did.

Nov 05, 2025 01:09 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Michael Jacobs this one really was for everyone.

Kat Palmiotti I felt awful for her, it was ultra stressful. But it all ended well.

Lew Corcoran thanks, appreciate that.

Nov 05, 2025 01:10 PM