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Integrity - something to ponder!

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'Integrity is when your thoughts, words, and actions are in harmony.'

—Mahatma Gandhi

'What you are speaks so loudly, I can’t hear what you’re saying.'

—Ralph Waldo Emerson

We all have that moment when we can live up to our values or bend. When we turn away hoping others will not see. But, if we don't, if we stand strong and do the right thing, we slowly over time build a life of integrity.

Integrity is not something you are born with. It is something you build over time. And it can be destroyed in a blink of an eye.

Think about that CEO caught at a game on the camera with another woman.

There are times when it is hard to do what is right because no one else is doing what is right, they are bending, turning a blind eye rather than confront what is wrong or even illegal. As i write this I think of Jose Garces and World Central Kitchen.

A chef who could have just enjoyed his life, but he chose to live to his values, realizing how important food is to those who are suffering. He created a charity to go anywhere in the world and serve food to those who are suffering. He does it without judgement, be they Muslims, Christians, Hindu's etc. If disaster strikes a team is on the ground in hours often serving food. He could have sat back and said governments should take the lead but his integrity did not allow that and he is changing the world.

So, let me ask you, what legacy are you leaving behind? Is it one of integrity where your values and life align. You can still build it by taking the steps each time you have a choice. Live proud my friends of your integrity.

 

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Nick Vandekar
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Nick - while not new, legacy is a more than a question - I believe it is a multi-part discussion still being explored as well as experienced.  

Nov 12, 2025 04:04 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks Nick for sharing great thoughts on integrity!!! Its what you do when no one is watching you!!!

'Integrity is when your thoughts, words, and actions are in harmony.'

—Mahatma Gandhi

Nov 12, 2025 04:22 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Nick. I have been a fan of Ralph Waldo Emerson's  since high school. His words have stood the test of time, no exception with the quote you featured. Enjoy your day. 

Nov 12, 2025 04:43 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

About a decade ago someone did something towards a family member that I felt was wrong and then they lied about it. So I took a stand. Knowing full well that meant I was going to be written out of that person's will. Which I was. And I'm fine with that, because for me, it wasn't about the stuff. It was about the values that I have, and that person had. So I'm good with it!

Nov 12, 2025 04:43 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Wednesday morning, Nick. The question of legacy will require some pondering for some of us.

Nov 12, 2025 05:26 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Integrity is such an important thing, and I want to be around people who have solid integrity, but don't really want those without it around me, haha.

Nov 12, 2025 05:28 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Nick,
This is a well-written reminder to live in a way that makes us proud of the legacy we’re leaving behind. What is more valuable than that? 

Nov 12, 2025 05:58 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Nick... integrity is something I've never had problems with. Maybe it's my almost 20 years on corporate finance where I quickly learned all I had "to sell" was my integrity and honesty and that once I comprised them I was "done."

Nov 12, 2025 07:00 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Michael Jacobs until we cross to the other side our legacy is always a work in progress.

Sham Reddy CRS that is very true, in fact we see ourselves, so we need to confront ourselves to live a life of integrity.

Wayne Martin I like that quote very much.

Kat Palmiotti we need to take a stand when we see things that are wrong. Whatever the cost, it is the right thing to do.

Nov 12, 2025 07:14 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Roy Kelley many need to consider what legacy they are leaving behind.

Brian England people can make mistakes, but it then takes time to rebuild trust and integrity.

Carol Williams I think your writing is leaving a legacy you can be proud of. Sharing your truths and wisdom for those who are younger.

Nina Hollander, Broker frankly we have nothing else, it has always been one of my core values.

Nov 12, 2025 07:16 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Nick,

I agree you are not born with integrity its developed over time and is precious to hold on to. 

Nov 12, 2025 07:41 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Dorie Dillard Austin TX we build it as we live, and may due to mistakes have to rebuild it over time till we pass away.

Nov 12, 2025 07:45 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 Beautiful reflection! Integrity truly is built moment by moment, in the choices we make especially when no one’s watching. Jose Garces’ example shows how living your values can impact the world in profound ways. Every small act of honesty and courage adds up, what legacy will you leave?

Nov 12, 2025 12:18 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

For me Nick, integrity is non-negotiable. Larry and I both strive to surround ourselves with people who are trustworthy and genuine!

Nov 12, 2025 01:26 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

HI Nick- what an inspiring post.  We build our character through the years, often through inspiration and guidance we receive from our parents or mentors. If we can aspire to be a person with integrity, who values others and stands by their beliefs...well, that's pretty darn good. 

Nov 12, 2025 07:48 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Lise Howe your last question is something I think about often. 

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 agreed.

Kathy Streib I agree with that.

Nov 13, 2025 06:33 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

That was a powerful reminder of how integrity shapes not just choices, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543, but the legacy we leave. I really appreciate the way you tied everyday decisions to larger acts of service, it makes the message hit home 🙂. Thanks for sharing such thoughtful insight, it’s the kind of perspective that lingers long after reading!

Nov 13, 2025 08:34 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Lew Corcoran Thanks very much, appreciate the comment.

Nov 14, 2025 07:58 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’m to the point where I kind of just have to be myself in that way it doesn’t come off right. :)

Nov 18, 2025 10:58 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Laura Cerrano it is always better to be oneself, everyone else is taken.

Nov 19, 2025 06:48 AM