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Thankful for... helpful people

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with eXp Commercial, Referral Divison RRE-BRO-LIC-75443

This month, the ActiveRain challenge is about thankfulness as is typical with our November challenges. Our host, Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 has indicated we can share someone's thankfulness FOR us, or our thankfulness for someone else. Specifically, someone who may have been helpful in our real estate role. My first post focused on an attorney I met while taking real estate courses. The second post focused on my gratitude for people who were not so helpful. And this one is focusing on those in my real estate career who WERE helpful.

First, there is Lesley. I just can't start without her. She was the office assistant who sat at the front desk in my first office. Lesley handled all the administrative tasks for the entire office of about forty or fifty people. She always had a smile and lent a helping hand, but even more than that was something she saved just for me. When I would come in for a floor-time shift or anything else, as I passed her desk and we smiled at each other, she'd include the following, said with a smile and a fist bumping up to the sky. "Kat, Kat, Kat!" she'd chant, just like my personal cheerleader, giving me the encouragement I needed for my day. She was a treasure in the office, and turned into a friend. Thank you to Lesley for her personalized cheers.

And then there is John McCarthy right here from ActiveRain (ps, this is not really a photo of him, it's an AI photo). I wrote my first post in December 2010. The post was all about getting started in real estate. I started getting comments, and the post was featured, and I was clueless about what that all meant. What was a feature? What do I do with these comments? And John was the first person who reached out to me in person. He welcomed me to the platform, and shared the etiquette for posts, specifically mentioned that we needed to reply to the people who took the time to comment on our words. So a huge thank you to John who got me started on the right foot in ActiveRain!

Of course, there are all the clients who helped by being great teammates and some who turned into wonderful friends. Any kind of transaction is a million times better when all parties work together to make it a success. So thank you to all of you! You know who you are.

And in addition to all that, I am eternally grateful for all the people who make up ActiveRain. I learned more about real estate here than anywhere else. I was able to ask questions when I had them, and get real answers. My participation and involvement on the ActiveRain site has resulted in friendships, laughter, increased knowledge and more. So thank you to everyone I've come into contact with here.

And that wraps up my third gratitude post for this month. Thank you for reading!

 

 

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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

We won the lottery when we were born in the greatest country in the world. We should be thankful every day!

Nov 12, 2025 06:02 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Of course Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty 

Nov 12, 2025 06:06 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kat... so important not to ever forget the people who have helped us along our life's journey... be it our personal or professional journey. I'm impressed that you've submitted three posts already... I've only managed one.

Nov 12, 2025 07:17 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Nina Hollander, Broker - well, I think I broke the rules a llittle. We're supposed to do one a week Sunday-Saturday and the first day of the month was a Saturday so I did one then, and could do one the very next day! I'm a week ahead.

Nov 12, 2025 11:11 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

I am thankful for the reminder to get a post up for the challenge Kat Palmiotti 😄

Nov 12, 2025 08:43 AM
Kat Palmiotti

You are welcome Bob "RealMan" Timm !

Nov 12, 2025 11:11 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

YES to this Kat Palmiotti - thankful for helpful people.  Thankfully, the grand number of helpful people offset the smaller number of the opposite kind of people. 

Nov 12, 2025 08:56 AM
Kat Palmiotti

That is true Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist !

Nov 12, 2025 11:11 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kat! Kat! Kat!  I love this idea!  So many wonderful people on ActiveRain and we see it every single day and have for years and years.  Truly blessed!   Who knew this platform would turn into more of a 'family' that just a real estate thing.  I sure didn't way back when!  

Nov 12, 2025 10:34 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Anna "Banana" Kruchten - I had no expectations so was very pleasantly surprised!

Nov 12, 2025 11:12 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kat, We should never lose sight of the people who’ve supported and guided us throughout our lives. Great entry!

Nov 12, 2025 01:20 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Totally agree Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 - Thank you!

Nov 12, 2025 05:43 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt share, full of warmth and perspective, Kat Palmiotti. I really appreciate the way you highlighted the people who lifted you up and shaped your journey, it’s a reminder of how much community matters 🙂. Thanks for putting this out there and letting us feel that gratitude right along with you!

Nov 12, 2025 01:49 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you

Nov 12, 2025 05:43 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Kat Palmiotti - Two helpful people, Lesley and John and then it snowballed to you helping so many people over the many years on AR, NY, and Montana. I have a feeling just about everyone knows your name. 

Lesley sounded like she was the best at the Front Desk. I was in 4 different offices and never experienced a Front Desk Person who helped so many agents. You're a lucky lady! Subsequently, you made life easier and better for all. 

Nov 13, 2025 02:56 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Awww, thank you Patricia Feager ! I shared this post with Lesley and she made me grin when she texted me Kat Kat Kat!!!  Love that lady!

Nov 13, 2025 05:17 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Thursday morning, Kat. Thanks for sharing some of your personal experience.

Have a great day.

Nov 13, 2025 05:50 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you Roy

Nov 13, 2025 06:22 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

There are a lot of reasons to smile that people don’t even realize sometimes. That’s important to know.

Nov 16, 2025 09:35 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you Laura Cerrano !

Nov 17, 2025 04:55 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

You are a great part of Active Rain as well. Great post on this topic of gratitude.

Nov 17, 2025 05:11 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you very much for your kind words Dr. Paula McDonald !

Nov 17, 2025 05:12 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

You do so many good posts.  Thanks for sharing..

 

Nov 17, 2025 11:50 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you so much Ginger Harper 

Nov 17, 2025 01:59 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

The people who work behind the scenes can be the ones who make your day or can frustrate it. You were very lucky to have such a great cheerleader to encourage you.

Nov 17, 2025 12:07 PM
Kat Palmiotti

I sure was Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 !

Nov 17, 2025 01:58 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’m thankful to come back to this page today and see all the helpful people on this page alone. Love and light and all the best  blessing!!

Nov 17, 2025 06:36 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you very much Laura Cerrano !

Nov 18, 2025 05:04 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I just wanted to come back to this post to say thank you to all the people here that have all the individual expertise to really round out my experience here quite nicely in a very  kind and joyful way. Thank you so much, guys!

Nov 18, 2025 09:23 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Laura Cerrano - aww, I'm sure everyone appreciates that!

Nov 19, 2025 05:00 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Kat Palmiotti you are 100% very welcome and feel free to stop by anytime. We all can learn a lot from each other. :)

Nov 18, 2025 09:25 PM
Kat Palmiotti

If you were closer, absolutely! Laura Cerrano - I know I could learn a lot from you!

Nov 19, 2025 05:00 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Kat, Kat, Kat.
We're all your cheerleaders, as you are for us! 
None of us got where we are without special people who encouraged and supported us. I was thinking this morning about how can we get some of these newbies more active and truly understand the value they are missing by not engaging with the community. 

Nov 20, 2025 05:33 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Carol Williams - We've already tried some things that haven't worked (Zoom challenge, reaching out). Yes, we need to come up with more ideas!

Nov 20, 2025 06:23 AM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Kat Palmiotti 
So absolutely true! My participation and involvement on the ActiveRain site has resulted in friendships, laughter, increased knowledge and more.
Take care - Lynn

Nov 20, 2025 10:35 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you for the challenge Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 

Nov 21, 2025 04:36 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

This was a great subject to post on.  Thanks so much,

 

Nov 21, 2025 01:11 PM
Kat Palmiotti

And thank you for reading Ginger Harper !

Nov 21, 2025 02:03 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Kat- I read your post and bookmarked it to return to comment on it, and I forgot. I remember John McCarthy and it was very kind of him to reach out to you when you started here. Thank goodness for all of the members who've done that to new members.  It important to recognize the many people who help us get where we want to be. 

Nov 29, 2025 05:39 PM
Kat Palmiotti

It was very kind of him Kathy Streib 

Nov 29, 2025 06:32 PM