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First time buyers appreciate being helped

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Real Estate Agent with Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 PA License - AB067198

This is my second entry for the November challenge, hosted by Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 

Last year I received a call from a young couple who had recently married and wanted to meet and talk about using my services to buy a home. This was in September and when we met at a Starbucks I came prepared. I have helped many young couples buy their first homes. It can be a stressful and heart wrenching process, especially in a market that leans strongly towards the seller and with so little inventory.

I asked several questions, about what their life style was like, what they enjoyed doing, how they lived life. Then we moved onto the nitty gritty of what sort of house they were hoping to find. What areas they were looking in and where they both worked. We covered mortgages and how much they had for a down-payment.

I explained the home buying process, the recent changes and how Realtors were now expected to work with buyers. Of course we went over the Consumer Notice explaining all the roles in the transaction.

They were not in a hurry, really just starting the process and hoping to find something by the following summer.  They worked in different directions, so we needed to find something in the middle hopefully. They had both grown up in older homes so were used to that and liked the style and feeling of solidness of an older home.

At the end of our meeting they said they wanted to work with me and what were the next steps. I explained I would set up a search in our MLS that would send them homes. Give me feedback so I could refine it and get it more accurate to what they were looking for. And if they saw anything they wanted to see, let me know and I would set up a tour.

Very quickly they said they had three homes they wanted to see. As I looked over these one it became obvious was not a good fit, they agreed so we scrubbed that home from our tour and they asked on the morning of the tour if they could add this one home that had just come on the market. They apologized profusely for leaving it so late but if we could fit it in they would appreciate it.

It was vacant, and so making an appointment was easy, we slipped it into the front of the tour and set off.

It was an older home, a twin, or semi-detached home as we say in England. It was solid, but it was not going to appeal to a lot of people, it had its quirks. We then visited the other two homes and at the end of the tour they said they really liked the first home and wanted to consider making an offer.

I discussed with the listing agent what the sellers wanted and if they would accept a longer settlement period. It turned out to be an estate, and they basically wanted to wrap it up. My buyers had been led to believe by their landlord that they would be able to break their lease. Now it became an option the landlord balked.

We held off making an offer. The house stayed on the market, time passed, they talked with lenders and worked out a way to move ahead and break their lease. We put together an offer, with inspections and as long a settlement date as we could.

Well, it all worked out, the inspections revealed some issues which we negotiated and got a very fair result. There were several times I had to be at the house as work was done on their behalf by the seller before settlement. Installing a Radon system we discovered just how solid the house was as it took all day and broke one of the drill bits used to dig through the walls. This was a house from the 19th century.

Settlement day came and everyone was happy. Afterwards I got the following testimonial from them. It was a joy working with them, the were very organized and their families loved their choice of home.

21 Nov 2024

A Superstar! Nick is 10/10!

Nick is knowledgeable, supportive, and always ready to take action. For our first home buying experience, Nick took the time to thoroughly explain the process before we even began to work together. His preparedness and willingness to help never faltered at any step of the way. He went above and beyond and was always available when we had a question! Would definitely recommend Nick if you are looking for an experienced, reliable, and friendly realtor! Thanks Nick for all of your help!

 

 

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Nick Vandekar
Nick is a Tredyffrin Easttown Residential and Commercial REALTOR selling The Main Line, Chester, Delaware and Montgomery Counties.

Giving you the confidence to make
the right decisions.

225 W Uwchlan Ave
Downingtown , PA 19335
Office 484-237-2055
SellingTheMainLine.com
Mobile: (610) 203-4543 [call or text me]
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Nick - what a nice testimonial.  You obviously connected well with your clients.   

Nov 13, 2025 04:00 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Such a nice testimonial they provided you and all of your clients should be grateful that they get to work with you!

Nov 13, 2025 05:22 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Nick. Kathy Streib posted this morning about "it takes a lot of thought to be thoughtful". You approach with these buyers is an example. So the testimonial was well deserved. Enjoy your day.

Nov 13, 2025 05:22 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin great minds....As I read this, I thought the same thing. The buyers were in excellent hands with Nick. 

Nov 13, 2025 06:42 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

How wonderful! Love the back story and the testimonial. When you get lots of explanation points, you know that's a winning review!

Nov 13, 2025 05:39 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Michael Jacobs there are times when you meet people and they feel distant and other times when you just click, it was the latter with these clients.

Brian England as much as we try not to be transactional, some clients just treat us as a necessary evil to the transaction however hard we try to connect. Then there are others who appreciate everything you do for them.

Wayne Martin thank you. I love helping first time buyers as they seem less jaded about life and full of hope.

Kat Palmiotti thank you, I agree lots of exclamation marks is a good sign.

Nov 13, 2025 06:47 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hi Nick... all's well that ends well! Great story and a well-deserved testimonial. That being said, I believe all our clients like our help... even if they are not first time buyers or sellers.

Nov 13, 2025 07:49 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Nina Hollander, Broker I agree but have also found over the years some who think and believe they know it all and only use us because they have to, especially attorneys.

Nov 13, 2025 07:51 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 I guess, I've been fortunate in that I've not found this to be the case with most of my clients... maybe that's because I try to identify those personalities early on and don't have a problem working with them if I feel it's more stress than I need in my life.

Nov 13, 2025 08:01 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Nick, It’s always great to read when a client’s experience was made smooth and positive by a knowledgeable and supportive agent like you!

Nov 13, 2025 08:18 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Great job Nick, and sometimes asking questions, and the RIGHT questions solidify whether buyers work with us.

Nov 13, 2025 03:03 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Nick,

Patience is the key and you were very patient, didn't rush them, you all did your due diligence and it all worked out! Love the testimonial!

Nov 13, 2025 05:40 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Nick- you had very lucky buyers because they chose you to help them.  "Above and Beyond" is exactly what you'd want in an agent. 

Nov 13, 2025 06:51 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 thank you for the compliment, much appreciated.

Joan Cox I have over the years been trying to be more curious, still a work in progress, but asking questions is always a challenge for me. I tend to take what people say rather than asking a follow up question. But, I am improving.

Dorie Dillard Austin TX they took me by surprise jumping at the very first house, but it worked out for them and they were very happy.

Kathy Streib thank you, you made my day.

Nov 14, 2025 08:02 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a thoughtful share. Thank you for walking us through the ups and downs of that journey, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 . The way you highlighted the care, patience, and practical steps really makes the process feel approachable, and I’m grateful you took the time to lay it out 🙂.

Nov 14, 2025 10:54 AM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 
What a wonderful story! Thanks for sharing it with us. Great feedback from them!
"His preparedness and willingness to help never faltered at any step of the way. He went above and beyond..." 
All the best - Lynn

Nov 15, 2025 05:19 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Thanks Lew Corcoran have a wonderful week.

Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 thank you, much appreciated.

Nov 17, 2025 06:52 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Hey, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - the Superstar! You wrote a wonderful blog post showing everyone how to grow your business by being respectful to new first-time buyers. In no rushed time at all, your clients were willing to work with you. I also prefer the no-pressure approach. I think clients, especially first time buyers appreciate it too,

Nov 17, 2025 06:55 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Patricia Feager you are so kind, thank you.

Nov 17, 2025 06:56 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Nick. Thanks for sharing this experience and the testimonial.

Have another productive week as you continue to assist home buyers and home sellers.

Nov 17, 2025 07:15 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Thanks Roy Kelley have a great week.

Nov 17, 2025 07:27 AM