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Thankful For This Professional and Total Gentleman

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Thankful For This Professional and Total Gentleman

 

When I began my home staging business and my journey at ActiveRain, I had no idea what I was doing. I joined local organizations such as the Women’s Council of Realtors, the Chamber of Commerce, and the local board of realtors. I began my daily journey on ActiveRain, reading, writing, and commenting. 

Because home stagers work primarily on their own (at least that’s what we did then). I had no mentors or office mates to provide a roadmap, support, or tips. 

 

 

Enter Lou Ludwig. 

 

I used to read Lou’s daily motivational posts on ActiveRain. His first entry was on June 21, 2008, and his final one on December 13, 2017. It’s still hard to believe he’s no longer with us. His legacy was so strong—and his reach so wide—that people continue to reblog his posts even today.

 

Lou always wore a suit or sport coat, even in the hot, humid South Florida weather. I finally got to meet him at a Board of Realtors meeting.  He encouraged me to continue blogging on ActiveRain. He also showed his support by commenting on my posts. 

 

Schedule permitting, he was there to support the ActiveRain Meetups that Eileen Burns 954.483.3912 , the late, Don Urschalitz and I held.  He was always there to answer questions and help agents, like Elyse Berman, PA .

 

When I first moved to Florida, I noticed how casually the agents were dressed. I saw agents in shorts, Tommy Bahama shirts, and deck shoes. Lou dressed with intention, presenting himself exactly as he wanted to be perceived.

 

It was a good reminder to me that even if it’s 90+ degrees out and my clients might be in shorts, I needed to dress like the professional they hired. 

 

Lou’s continued support of not just me but others inspired me to do the same.  Showing up, even if only figuratively, is something I’ve tried to continue thanks to his influence. 

 

 

I consider myself blessed to have known him. 

 

 

This is my third entry in the 2025 November Challenge.

 

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. I met Lou while attending a course offered through the National Association of Homebuilders. Somehow we became instant friends. He offered great advice and assisted me in the development of a plan I had been working on. Seemingly always available to converse, it was amazing. And, you are correct, even in a classroom that lost its AC, he was always professionally dressed. Enjoy your day.

Nov 17, 2025 05:26 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin I think Larry may have met him via the Homebuilders Assn and a Naples agent I know spoke highly of him as well. You were lucky to have met him. 

Nov 17, 2025 11:20 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Aww, I love this post. Lou really was a wonderful person. Thank you for your thank you!

Nov 17, 2025 05:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Kat Palmiotti he was. When he showed up at one of the Board of Realtors functions, people headed his way.

Nov 17, 2025 11:24 AM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Douglas Elliman Las Olas - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

Kathy Streib we created good memories meeting like minded professionals here in the Rain.  Both great guys

Nov 17, 2025 05:58 AM
Kathy Streib

Eileen Burns 954.483.3912 I miss those MeetUps.  We had fun, didn't we!

Nov 17, 2025 11:31 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Although I never got the chance to meet Lou Ludwig in person, I enjoyed reading his posts and he seemed like a very good man.

Nov 17, 2025 06:14 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England he was!   Wish you could have met him. 

Nov 17, 2025 11:32 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - a nice tribute. 

Nov 17, 2025 06:28 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Michael Jacobs 

Nov 17, 2025 11:33 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I (often) look back at his final post. It is hard to believe he did not know what was about to happen. Those words still scream out and say he was passing the torch. 

Nov 17, 2025 06:30 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks, Kathy, for sharing some of your fond memories. Lou commented on my posts every day and he will be remembered by many members.

Nov 17, 2025 06:59 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I remember reading Lou's posts, he always sounded so professional even in the way he wrote, so it does not surprise me he dressed professionally as well.

Nov 17, 2025 07:06 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Lou as a very special leader  and one that I admired from afar.  I would have so loved ot have met him in person. How wonderful that you had the opportunity to glean from words of wisdom and friendship.  So much to be grateful for within our Rain Family. Plus I am glad you mentioned Don....he was such a nice guy too.  And funny!

Nov 17, 2025 08:46 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kathy, you are lucky to have met Lou in person, I would have loved to.  He had so many wonderful messages for us.   You are right, and he was -- dress for success.  When our market was frenzied, agents would be lining up to enter homes, and so many times you couldn't tell who was the REALTOR, and who were the buyers.  Rather sad, I always want others to WHO is the REALTOR.

Nov 17, 2025 09:15 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Dress to impress was always what the business world wanted in the days before business casual dress started.

Lou was the consummate professional an all that knew him did benefit from the example

Nov 17, 2025 09:27 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy and I wish I got to meet Lou in person, I did talk to him on the phone once and miss him and go back and read his blogs lots and re blog him often.

 

Nov 17, 2025 10:09 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt share, Kathy Streib. Thank you for painting such a vivid picture of Lou's influence and professionalism 🙂. The way you captured his presence and the lasting impact he had really speaks volumes, and I’m grateful you passed along that reminder about showing up with intention.

Nov 17, 2025 11:33 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I was also old school like Lew when it came to how to dress for work.

Nov 17, 2025 12:41 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

What a great opportunity to have met Lou Kathy. Reading so many of his quotes are so inspiring!

Nov 17, 2025 02:01 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

This hit an emotional chord today, Kathy. Lou was as he presented every single day and I remember missing him in the Rain and calling his number. Lou's wife answered and delivered the news of his passing. So sad! 🙏

Nov 17, 2025 06:27 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

When I was consulting, the advice was to dress up one level from your audience. Out here if I did that, very few people would trust me.  However, I have been told even with my jeans, boots, I always look professional. 

Nov 18, 2025 05:35 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I never did meet Lou in person, but I certainly enjoyed his posts. So sad that he is no longer with us.

Nov 22, 2025 12:55 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Kathy Streib 
You were so lucky to have had a personal relationship with him. Lots of wisdom there...
Enjoy Thanksgiving - Lynn

Nov 25, 2025 06:41 PM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Kathy Streib I love this, and I remember Lou telling us why he dressed the way he did.  It's hard to believe he's been gone almost eight years, yet his teachings live on.  How lucky we were to know him!  I miss those meetups with Lou and Donald, you and Eileen and whoever was in town at the time.  

Nov 27, 2025 04:53 PM