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How Floyd Wickman Sparked the Way I Practice Real Estate

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899

For my fourth entry in Active Rain's November 2025 Challenge, hosted by Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375, I’m taking a little stroll down memory lane, back to the late ’90s, big shoulder pads, and even bigger real estate dreams. And right at the center of it all? One unforgettable mentor: Floyd Wickman.

In 1998 and 1999, our Northwest Coldwell Banker office rolled out a 6-week Floyd Wickman training course, touted as one of the most dynamic, results-driven group programs in the industry. Trust me… it lived up to every word. Geno and I didn’t just sign up once, we took it both years because the transformation was that powerful.

Picture this: a sharply dressed, quick-witted coach with a heart of gold, teaching us to build a business not on scripts or slick tactics, but on genuine connection. Floyd reminded us, again and again, that real estate isn’t just about houses. It’s about people. Relationships. Service. Purpose.

Week after week, he taught us how to overcome objections with grace, communicate our value with confidence, create meaningful client moments, and above all else… listen. Those lessons weren’t just business skills, they became life skills. They shaped the way Geno and I worked as a team and how I continue to serve my clients today.

And then came the quote, the one that still sits front and center in my heart:

“It’s what you do when you do not have to, that will determine who you become when you can no longer help it.”

That line has followed me through decades of real estate decisions, tough moments, and opportunities to go the extra mile. It spoke to character. To quiet discipline. To the kind of integrity that builds a career, not for a season, but for a lifetime.

We even earned little pins that read “We get by Giving,” a philosophy Geno and I embraced wholeheartedly. Those words became more than a slogan… they became the compass for our business, our service, and the relationships we built along the way.

Floyd Wickman devoted his life to helping others dream big and take action, even when it felt uncomfortable. His belief in the power inside each of us still inspires me, years later.

So here’s to Floyd, thank you for lighting the spark, shaping the path, and helping me become the best agent I could be… and the one I’m still striving to grow into every day.

 

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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Dorie - following Floyd (Wickman, of course) has helped many practitioners on the road to a successful practice.  

Nov 23, 2025 05:23 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Yes he has Michael Jacobs and I'm thrilled to say I was one of them.

Nov 23, 2025 08:03 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Dorie. I was very interested to read this, as I was kicked out of Floyd Wickman... they decided I was too independent. I discovered Brian Buffini's Work By Referral system shortly thereafter and it worked like a charm for me. Nonetheless, I know any number of agents who swear by Floyd Wickman.

Nov 23, 2025 05:42 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Dorie Dillard Austin TX it is very personal, Dorie. I know people who swear by Tom Ferry, but his style doesn't do much for me. Richard Robbins, on the other hand, I found great.

Nov 23, 2025 11:43 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Everyone has their own mentors that work for them Nina Hollander, Broker . I've talked to Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 who took Floyd Wickman classes and we've compared notes on why he worked well for us.

Nov 23, 2025 08:05 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Really such a great lesson for us all. I wish I would have had the opportunity to take one of his classes (or more). 

Nov 23, 2025 06:56 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

The premise of his teachings Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty set a foundation for me and many others.

Nov 23, 2025 08:06 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Dorie and You get by giving, I love it and it is so true.  I like to think I get business from giving to other, whether it the hard work I do for people or even by baking a cake for them.

 

Nov 23, 2025 08:44 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

It is true Will Hamm ..thank you for stopping by!

Nov 23, 2025 02:02 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

A powerful tribute. Training like that stays with you because it reshapes how you serve, not just how you sell. Floyd’s focus on relationships and character is the kind of foundation that carries a career through every market cycle. His impact is clear in the way you still practice today.

Nov 23, 2025 08:52 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

He was a great mentor Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 and his teachings shaped the way I conduct business.

Nov 23, 2025 02:01 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Sunday morning, Dorie. We used Floyd at our Charlotte office many years ago.

Nov 23, 2025 09:08 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

He was the best mentor for sure Roy!

Nov 23, 2025 02:01 PM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

I went to one of his seminars live in Las Vegas, 15 years ago.  Loved his teaching. Thanks for sharing, enjoy your weekend, and here's a GOOD LUCK to your favorite Football Team 🏈! Bill

Bill Salvatore / Arizona Elite Properties

Nov 23, 2025 09:23 AM
Adam Feinberg
Howard Hanna Elegran - Manhattan, NY
NYC Condo, Co-op, and Townhouse Advisor

I am far too young in this business to have heard of Floyd Wickman- March will be 10 years in the business for me. That said- I believe in the philosophy that you laid out in this post. I once had a situation that I didn't need to disclose- but it would have rubbed me the wrong way had I stayed quiet. 

I have now sold a couple of apartments at 68 Bradhurst Ave and I get a lot of inquires about the building today, but a few weeks prior to submitting an offer for that second sale that I ultimately closed- something happened just outside the building. Because the incident was outside of the building, on the sidewalk- I wasn't required to say anything...but that's not the way I do business. Turns out there was a situation that would have fit well in an episode of the Soprano's that took place  a few weeks prior to my clients viewing an apartment in the building. What happened was- apparently someone was killed in another location- rolled up into a rug and put into a Home Depot shopping cart- where an unidentified person pushed the cart multiple blocks (caught on video by a few different buildings) until they stopped at the corner of 68 Bradhurst Ave. The unidentified person then saw the trash waiting for pickup from the Starbucks located within the building in the early morning hours and dumped the body in the rug with the trash from Starbucks. Before the sanitation department arrived for pickup- an early morning jogger saw feet sticking out from the rug within the trash pile and called 911. All of this took place on the sidewalk- so I had no obligation to tell my clients about this- but I did because I felt it was the right thing to do. The clients understood- and then submitted an offer- and we closed a couple of months later. The husband taught at City College, which is just a few blocks from this building- so this couple already knew the neighborhood and weren't deterred from buying because of this random event- but who knows, another buyer might not have been as comfortable hearing about this. This scenario easily ties back to your quote- what you do when you do not have to.

Nov 23, 2025 09:44 AM
Kathy Streib

Adam Feinberg What a story!!! I love that you did what you felt was the right thing to do, regardless of any obligation.  I appreciate it even more in this era of people being overly cautious about getting involved. Thank you. 

Nov 23, 2025 10:41 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Quite a story! Ding the right thing is always the best policy!

Nov 23, 2025 02:00 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Adam Feinberg

I'd like to see your comment as a blog. More people need to read it!

Nov 23, 2025 06:33 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Your story beautifully captures how one mentor’s wisdom can ripple through a lifetime, Dorie Dillard Austin TX 🙂. Thanks for sharing these lessons with such heart, it’s a powerful reminder that real estate at its best is all about people and purpose!

Nov 23, 2025 10:05 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Floyd always preached that Lew Corcoran . Real Estate should always be about people and being of service to them.

Nov 23, 2025 01:59 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Dorie- I've heard of Floyd Wickman from the posts here. I like the attitude that underlies his teachings. 

Nov 23, 2025 10:42 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

He was the best Kathy Streib 

Nov 23, 2025 01:58 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 
You made me laugh. I have to-- no, I am CHOOSING - to go to a meeting today in 20 minutes.
It took me a long time to find a jacket because of "big shoulder pads!"
Happy Thanksgiving - Lynn

Nov 23, 2025 12:39 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Thank you Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 ..glad you got a chuckle and hope you had a successful meeting.

Nov 23, 2025 01:58 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Dorie, don't think I ever took a Floyd Wickman class or seminar, but think the bottom line would be -- treat your clients as you would want to be treated.

Nov 23, 2025 02:46 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dorie I had not seen that quote before, but it is one well worth committing to memory.

Nov 23, 2025 02:48 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

You couldn't have chosen a better subject to be thankful for! Thank you for including the video. I never tire of hearing Floyd speak and reinforcing his philosophy, which has mentored so many of us. I feel so lucky to know Floyd, Mike, Mary, and many others in the Wickman family. I was fortunate to have Floyd as a guest on my radio show; what an honor!

This would be perfect for the Floyd Wickman group on AR.

Nov 23, 2025 06:40 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Hi Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 ,

I didn't know there was a Floyd Wickman Group! I found it and joined!

Nov 24, 2025 04:06 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome
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Nov 24, 2025 05:26 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It seems that Floyd Wickman was a very good man and I am glad that you had him as a mentor!

Nov 24, 2025 05:29 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Though I am not familiar with Floyd Wickman, I did read Zig Ziglar's books and remembered this quote that has guided my sales skills: Sales is the transference of feelings. 

Nov 24, 2025 06:22 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Listen !  Not enough can be said about that seemingly simple word.  M

Nov 24, 2025 10:41 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Floyd Wickman!

Wow! There is a name from the past! He was a true legend.

Dec 20, 2025 08:32 PM