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Being Late Turned Into a Listing

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

When Being Late Turned into a Listing

 

There are moments in real estate that remind us why authenticity matters more than perfection. Years ago, I went on a listing appointment, and yes… I was late. Not intentionally, not carelessly, just humanly late. I pulled up at 2:30, right on time for what I thought was our appointment.

The owner was standing outside tapping his watch, and I smiled, thinking he was acknowledging my punctuality.

Once inside, we sat at the kitchen table along with his wife, adult son and daughter.  Before I even opened my folder, he looked straight at me and “scolded” me.

Our appointment, he reminded me, was at 2:00, not 2:30. I checked my calendar. He was absolutely right. The error was mine.

There was no excuse, no explanation, no dramatic apology. I simply acknowledged the truth, picked up my folder, stood, and said calmly, “I would not work with someone who was a half hour late.” And I headed toward the door.

That honesty stopped the entire room.

His family immediately called me back. They told me they liked the way I handled the situation. I didn’t grovel. I didn’t blame traffic or technology. I didn’t beg for their business. I accepted responsibility, and I was prepared to walk away. And then, right there at that same kitchen table, they signed the listing.

Showing up as your genuine self, matters more than flawless timing. People respond to integrity, to straightforward communication, and to someone who values their time as much as her own.

Being late that day wasn’t my finest moment. But the way I handled it is the reason they chose me. And it’s a reminder that the right clients appreciate honesty more than perfection.

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Margaret Rome
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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Margaret- I love this and how you responded. I'm sure if I were sitting across the table from you, and you said that...I would have been speechless. And I don't know how I would have responded had I been in your shoes. 

Nov 22, 2025 03:44 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Nov 22, 2025 06:08 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Thanks for the feature, Kathy Streib,

I meant those words. I would not work with someone who showed up a 1/2 hour late. They were ideal clients and a very smooth transaction.

Nov 23, 2025 07:06 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Not too late to get the listing. Way to go Margaret! Time to get another sale in the books.

Nov 22, 2025 07:58 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI 

 I guess it's never too late to get the right clients!

 

 

Nov 23, 2025 07:09 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Margaret - many sorts of things happen in real estate and in everyday life.  I believe your response to the situation was a genuine one and that it struck the property owners as well as the subsequent clients they became that way as well.  

Nov 23, 2025 02:25 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Michael Jacobs

I never had to use those words again!

Nov 23, 2025 07:11 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Margaret. Honesty in today's world of blaming others and excuses still counts for many. And, this seller recognized honesty over punctuality. Enjoy your day. 

Nov 23, 2025 04:32 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Wayne Martin,

I was actually surprised when this all happened. Found out the seller was a military man, and punctuality was of utmost importance!

Nov 23, 2025 07:14 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I love how you handled this. And so did they! Excellent.

Nov 23, 2025 05:14 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret a little honesty and taking responsibility goes a very lonnnnnnnng way.

Nov 23, 2025 05:40 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

George Souto,

In this appointment, honesty was all I had!

Nov 23, 2025 07:18 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Margaret,

I loved this post and so glad Kathy Streib featured it in her Sunday series. Honesty is always the best policy and you handled the situation beautifully!

Nov 23, 2025 08:20 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

It always annoys me that I turn up at my Doctor on time, often early and end up waiting 30-45 minutes. I once walked out of a Doctor's office after waiting an hour and never went back. Well handled.

Nov 23, 2025 09:22 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 

I'm finding the doctors on time lately, and the patients show up late!

Nov 23, 2025 06:20 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

This is such a great reminder that authenticity and integrity always stand out. Handling mistakes with calm honesty can turn a potential misstep into a strong connection—and clearly, it made all the difference here.

 

Nov 23, 2025 09:22 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a powerful reminder that honesty and grace carry more weight than flawless timing, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400. Your story shines a light on how authenticity builds trust, and I’m grateful you shared this thoughtful lesson 🙂.

Nov 23, 2025 09:53 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Margaret:

I love this story and the way that you responded which did not surprise me in the least. Most people would try to make excuses. A valuable life lesson for sure.

Jeff

Nov 23, 2025 10:13 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I like that Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 - appreciating honesty more than perfection ... and I will add perfection laced with lies and deception, which we know happens. 

Nov 23, 2025 12:05 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

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Nov 23, 2025 12:07 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400   when there is no excuse just acknowledge it maybe. That may not have been your finest moment, but it was a great moment.

Besides, the reality of them calling you was an indication that your reputation preceded you.

Nov 23, 2025 06:06 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
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Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
Typical of you to be honest!
Served you well. Lynn
"clients appreciate honesty"

Nov 29, 2025 05:36 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400  Great job on handling the situation as always. You are an inspiration 

Dec 01, 2025 04:53 PM