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Questions When It Might Be The Right House

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Questions When It Might Be The Right House

 

One of my favorite moments in real estate is when a buyer walks through a home and, without even knowing it, begins to 'move in'.  You can see it in their faces. Their eyes soften, the conversation changes, and suddenly, they’re not “touring a property” anymore; they’re imagining their life there.

That’s the time to listen carefully. And that’s when the right questions make all the difference. You need to really know your buyers to ask many of these questions that help them picture their world in these new rooms they’re visiting.

I’ve been asking these questions for years, and buyers answer them without hesitation, because the answers are really about their dreams, not the house.

Here are a few examples that always open the door to possibility:

Where will the big-screen TV go?
Would your vegetable garden grow better on the side or in the back?
Which room will make the perfect office?
Is the 100-gallon aquarium happier in the family room or the lower level?
Kids, have you picked out your room yet?


Would you like the laundry upstairs or down?
Gas cooking or electric—what’s your preference?
How long is your commute from here to work, school, or the hospital?
Will you be using the light rail to get to BWI?
Wegmans, Trader Joe’s, Giant, Whole Foods—what’s your grocery stop?
Where will your mother’s antique desk look best?
Does the grand piano prefer that sunny corner?
Which side of the garage is yours?
Want me to check where the school bus picks up?
Shall we bring in a contractor to get quotes for granite countertops?
So you like that chandelier? Let me see if I can get it for you.
And when you have your Fourth of July cookout, patio, or poolside?

Buyers don’t always tell you when a house feels like home… but they show you. And when they naturally start thinking about how they’ll live in a space, your questions help them get clearer, more confident, and more excited.

By asking the right questions, you’re not just selling a house; you’re helping them envision their future.

So… when you show the right home, what are your buying questions?

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Margaret Rome
HomeRome Realty
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Baltimore, Maryland


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Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Margaret,

Asking the right questions is so important when a buyer is envisioning themselves in the house!

Nov 21, 2025 06:29 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good morning Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Always good to see you. And we have to ask those questions to see if it is the right house.

Nov 22, 2025 07:52 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Margaret - improved listening from practitioners can help buyers become or remain property owners in the location that is ideal for them.  

Nov 22, 2025 03:48 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Michael Jacobs

Ah yes! Improved listening skills !

Nov 22, 2025 07:53 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Margaret,
This is a little off topic, but one of the things I asked buyers after touring each home was "What did you like about it?" and "What did you not like about it?" This is how I learned to hone in on the perfect property when I found it.  I've written about some of those experiences.

Nov 22, 2025 05:29 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Carol Williams,

Not off topic at all. You and I are on the same page. Check out:

What Don't You Like About The House

Nov 22, 2025 07:50 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh yes, if we ever hear a buyer say, "wow, my (piece of furniture) would look great there!" or "I'd use this room for my craft room" or anything that puts them into that house, you probably have a winner!

Nov 22, 2025 05:36 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kat Palmiotti 

And those are "Buying Signals", learn to recognize them.

Nov 22, 2025 08:01 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Good post Margaret.  Very much confirms, we are only as good as the questions we ask.  m

Nov 22, 2025 06:14 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho 

I like that! "We are only as good as the questions we ask"!!!

Nov 22, 2025 08:03 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.
Margaret, this really captures the magic of helping buyers connect with a home. I love how you highlight that it’s not just about the features of a house, but about imagining life inside it. The questions you listed are thoughtful and specific—they help buyers visualize themselves living there, which is exactly what turns a showing into an emotional connection. It’s a reminder that real estate isn’t just transactions—it’s about guiding people toward the place where their daily life will unfold.
Nov 22, 2025 06:57 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Gwen Fowler, 

This highlights how important it is for buyers to imagine their life in a home, not just its features.

Nov 22, 2025 08:10 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I am on the same page as Miss Carol Williams.

And Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 regarding making an emotional connection when buyers visualize living in the home. 

Nov 22, 2025 09:22 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

Take a look. We are on the same page.

 What Don't You Like About The House

Nov 22, 2025 09:29 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret it has been a long time since I purchased a home, but I still remember walking in the home I have had for the last 44 years, and saying this is the one as soon as I walked in.

Nov 22, 2025 12:50 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

 George Souto

And that's where you want the buyers. Not 'selling' them the house but finding the right one!

Nov 22, 2025 01:01 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Margaret  this is one of the very first things I taught our agents - ask the right questions! And they knew that started at the very first buyer meeting.  From there it was so much easier to find the right fit for clients....by asking questions and fine tuning!

Nov 22, 2025 01:54 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Featured in BananaTUDES!

 

Nov 22, 2025 01:58 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Thank you, Anna "Banana" Kruchten 

Your agents were lucky to have you! 

Nov 22, 2025 02:05 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

And vice versa Margaret!  And I'm forever grateful to my very first broker who seriously taught me the business inside and out.

Nov 22, 2025 02:27 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

The way you described those moments when buyers start imagining their lives in a home is spot on, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 🏡. Thanks for sharing such thoughtful insight, it’s a great reminder that the right questions don’t just sell houses, they spark dreams!

Nov 22, 2025 03:07 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Lew Corcoran Well said: ''... the right questions don’t just sell houses, they spark dreams!''

Nov 22, 2025 03:21 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Margaret. You have been doing for longer than Jeff Shore has been training on your technique. Kudos to you. Enjoy your day.

Nov 25, 2025 04:13 AM