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šŸ”“ Dreams Unleashed In The East (Chapter 4) šŸŽŒšŸ—¾

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Fukuoka (Chapter 4 of 5)


Chapter 1Ā  (The Escape) Japan
Chapter 2Ā  Kyoto
Chapter 3 Hiroshima


I’ll confess:
when we first added Fukuoka to our itinerary, I had never heard of it and held exactly zero expectations. The only real reason it landed on the list was simple; it was home to the event we were chasing for my 92 year old mother. Fukuoka wasted no time proving how foolish my mindset was. Wow!


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What a gorgeous canal city this is; perched on the shores of Hakata Bay, threaded with rivers and waterways that break up the skyline and soften the bustle. Modern architecture and bridges mingle with lively shopping and restaurant districts; ancient temples and castle ruins sit just beyond sleek museums and picturesque beaches. It was the furthest south/east we traveled in Japan, close enough to South Korea that you could almost imagine skipping a stone across the ocean and hitting its shores.

But the true magnet pulling us here was Sumo Wrestling. My 92-year-old mother-in-law wanted to see her first live match; she’s been a quiet fan for decades. I only discovered her devotion about four years ago, and since then I’ve upgraded her phone plan so she can watch all the Sumo she wants on YouTube. She’s 92; she’s earned her ringside streaming privileges and boy does she watch! When she watches Sumo - she's sounds like me watching my SF 49ers - it's hilarious.

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Sumo — Match Day 3 of a 15-day tournament series: I attended my first live Sumo match with Ailina Nelson and her Mom in Fukuoka, and it was exhilarating. Tradition and ceremony ruled the arena; salt scattering, ritual stomps, the deliberate pacing of each face-off. But the energy was electric, too; by the later bouts we were all on our feet shouting as 350lb- to 400lb+ wrestlers collided with thunderous force. Someone often went flying off the raised clay ring, sometimes both - often landing on the ringside spectators! šŸ˜‚Ā 

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We chose Fukuoka because Sumo travels; while Tokyo hosts three Grand Sumo tournaments each year, the other three rotate through Osaka in March, Nagoya in July, and Fukuoka in November. And yes, Sumo even visits England for a short time, where there are devoted fans ready to cheer as wildly as anyone in Japan. Who knew?

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We stayed in a 5-star hotel here, saw gorgeous sites and ate some of the best food; but I'll remember Fukuoka most for seeing the joy in the eyes of my 92 year old mother achieving her life long goal of attending live Sumo!Ā 

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Proud to call her Mom:Ā  Masuko Tanabe, 92 - years young!

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In case you missed them...

Chapter 1Ā  (The Escape) Japan
Chapter 2 Kyoto
Chapter 3 Hiroshima


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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Thomas - travelling can more than broaden our perspectives and thoughts.Ā  Here's to ongoing adventures.Ā Ā 

Nov 30, 2025 06:49 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Fukuoka was certainly an adventure my friend. I love to travel and immerse into culture, language and cuisine - Japan is top of my list for all three! Happy Sunday!

Nov 30, 2025 06:53 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Thomas... like you, I'd not heard of Fukuoka (until I read your post). Thank you for letting me visit and see it through your eyes andĀ  words and pictures. Your mother-in-law looks amazing for 92, by the way.

Nov 30, 2025 07:20 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Domo Arigato Gozaimasu Ninasan! šŸŽŒ

Nov 30, 2025 07:35 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Thomas,

What a beautiful story! Fukuoka sounds absolutely enchanting; the kind of place that surprises you by being everything you didn’t know you were missing. I've had that experience a few times during my travels, too!Ā 

Your mother-in-law's passion for Sumo made me smile! I can picture this prim and proper woman her cheering like a true fan. How wonderful that she not only watched her dream come to life but shared that moment with you and Alina. That’s the kind of memory that will last forever.Ā 

Ā Sometimes the destinations we know the least about end up capturing the biggest piece of our hearts. Thanks for taking us along on this journey. Your MIL is a role model for living life with spirit, energy, and joy!

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Nov 30, 2025 08:26 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Thanks for being part of the adventure - your kind words land like spotting Mount Fuji on a clear day from the Shinkansen! Appreciate you stopping by my posts!

Dec 05, 2025 03:34 PM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

For their size, these guys are amazing athletes. Thanks for sharing, make it a great Sunday and enjoy your weekend! BillĀ Ā 

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Nov 30, 2025 09:24 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

What a fabulous trip Thomas!Ā  And how special for your mother-in-law to go with you two. As for sumo wrestling - I always have been fascinated by that sport.Ā  But to actually see one in person....holy smokes!

Nov 30, 2025 10:14 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Traveling this adventure felt a lot like navigating Shibuya Scramble Crossing—way more fun with good company like Mom - who indeed is an inspiration at 92! Thanks for the kind words and for popping into my posts - Sumo is definitely an exciting sport to watch!

Dec 05, 2025 03:32 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP - This vacation was long over-due, but you accomplished so much, including making yours and Ailina's mom happy to see a live Sumo Wrestling Match. I never heard of Fukuoka either, but that's the beauty of Japan - discovering the culture you wouldn't find in tourist places like Kyoto. By the way, for 92 years old, your mother-in-law looks so much younger!Ā 

As a mother myself, I can say, by looking at Masuko Tanabe in those pictures, seeing her daughter with you had to give her so much happiness that would be hard to describe. All a mother wants to know without a doubt, is the man she chose as her husband is good, caring, respectful, and loving to her daughter and mother!Ā 

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Nov 30, 2025 01:22 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Thanks for the kind words - I’m grateful you stop by my posts to share your insights and observations. Mom is pretty special!

Dec 05, 2025 03:30 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Reading this made me grin. How wonderful for Mom to be able to finally realize a lifelong dream (it sounds like everyone in the family realized some bucket list dreams). Kudos to you for planning and saving and prepaying for this amazing vacation.

Dec 01, 2025 05:15 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Thanks for hopping aboard for the ride. Your comment-kindness is the scenery that makes the miles traveled worthwhile, and I appreciate you stopping by my posts as we ramble along.

Dec 05, 2025 03:29 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTORĀ® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I always love seeing how much fun you and Ailina Nelson have in life together!Ā  I have never watched a sumo wrestling match, not even on tv, haha.

Dec 01, 2025 06:48 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Ah, thank you Brian England 
Sumo - It's quite exciting and a surprisingly fast match.

Dec 01, 2025 07:38 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

BananaTUDES! loves seeing dreams get fulfilled... You have been featured!

Dec 01, 2025 08:04 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Thanks for your generous feature and for swinging by my posts!

Dec 05, 2025 03:28 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Thomas,

I too never heard ofĀ Fukuoka and it sounds absolutely enchanting! What a wonderful trip and a wonderful thing to make sure your 92 year old grandmother got to see her wish! She looks amazing!

Dec 01, 2025 08:58 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Thanks Dorie Dillard Austin TX it was a mazing there! 

Oh and she's my mother, not my grandmother - which makes her even more amazing! šŸ˜‰

Dec 02, 2025 06:48 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

This was such a vivid and heartwarming read, Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP šŸŽŒ. The way you captured Fukuoka’s charm alongside the joy of fulfilling a lifelong dream made the story unforgettable. Thanks for sharing an experience that blends travel, tradition, and pure human connection!

Dec 01, 2025 02:04 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

The trip is sweeter when friends show up along the way to read my travel diary. Thanks for your thoughtful note and for popping into my posts -your presence is always welcome in my comment section!

Dec 05, 2025 03:27 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Thomas. Never heard of Fukuoka but have viewed Sumo matches on TV and am amazed at their power and agility. As for "Mom" she looks amazing for her age. A vacation truly deserved and well done. Enjoy your day.

Dec 02, 2025 04:42 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Grateful to share this fun journey with fellow travelers like you. Thanks for the love—and for dropping in on my posts - my Mom is pretty amazing at 92!.

Dec 05, 2025 03:18 PM
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HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSPĀ 

I’m impressed by how you included Mom in the family trip; you all look beautiful together! Here’s to making many more memories.

Dec 04, 2025 08:48 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

This was a very special, bittersweet trip for her. After 92 years of  being born and raised there, then later coming to America but visiting there regularly the last 60 years, this was her final trip to Kyoto. So we had to make it special! 

Dec 05, 2025 03:26 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

And you made it special!!

Dec 05, 2025 05:24 PM