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Remembering John F Kennedy: Reflections On November 22, 1963

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John F Kennedy Assassination

Do you remember where you were when you first heard that President Kennedy had been shot and killed on November 22, 1963—now 62 years ago?

 

I remember hearing that news as if it were yesterday and not 62 years ago.

 

"From Dallas, Texas, the flash apparently official, President Kennedy died at 1 p.m. Central Standard Time, 2 o'clock Eastern Standard Time, some 38 minutes ago."

... Walter Cronkite, CBS News Anchor

 

On November 22, 1963, I was 15 years old, a high-school sophomore, sitting in a biology lab when someone rushed in to announce the news. Because I attended a parochial school, my classmates and I quietly filed into the chapel to pray for the President before being dismissed early.

 

I don’t think any of us who were old enough in 1963 have ever forgotten where we were or how we felt at that moment. To this day, I believe our nation’s innocence was shattered on November 22nd.

 

 "It was a death that touched everyone instantly and directly; rare was the person who did not cry that long weekend."

... Roger Mudd, CBS Washington Correspondent

 

My impressions of that day—and of the days that followed—remain vivid:

  • I remember the silence on the bus ride home. New York City buses were never quiet, but that afternoon, the hush was overwhelming.

  • I remember how a city known for its constant motion fell still for the next four days. From our living-room windows, I saw streets that were almost eerily empty.

  • In a home where television time was rationed, our set stayed on continuously for days. Most people had black-and-white televisions then, and the grey tones of the broadcasts seemed to mirror the somber mood that settled over the country. It felt as if the entire world had gone grey, regardless of one’s politics.

  • I remember the funeral procession. I remember young John Kennedy’s salute. I remember the lighting of the eternal flame. I remember Jacqueline Kennedy’s remarkable dignity.

  • Through all of it, I moved as if in a dream, half expecting to wake up and find everything unchanged.

 

Even now, 62 years later, I’m amazed at the clarity of those memories—and at how deeply I still feel the quiet, the sadness, and the sense of greyness that settled over those days. As I look back on my life, I realize there are only a handful of public events, aside from personal milestones, that remain so sharply etched in my memory. This was the first: followed by Robert Kennedy’s and Martin Luther King's assassinations, the Challenger explosion, the first moon landing, 9/11, and now more recently the assassination of Charlie Kirk.

 

"We were working in one of the worst moments of the nation's life back then and we didn't know what to make of it, much like what happened on 9/11."

... Bob Schieffer, CBS Broadcaster

 

Regardless of political beliefs, President John F. Kennedy’s voice was uniquely inspirational for its time—and in many ways, it still is. JFK's inauguration speech remains the only one I can recite pieces of or vividly recall. Listening to it again recently, I was struck by how timeless its message remains.

 

Remembering those days now, six decades later, I wonder how this event will be remembered in another 20 years. By then, those who lived through it will be much fewer in number. For many, it will be distant history. It’s astonishing to think how many people from that era are no longer with us—because it hardly feels possible that more than half a century has passed.

 

Even today, I still feel a deep sadness, a sense of loss, and no small amount of “what if.” And even today, there seems to be much less mention of this event in the media than there used to be. It's as if people have forgotten.

 

Do you remember where you were, 62 years ago, when you heard that President Kennedy had died?

 
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 Nina Hollander, RE/MAX Broker, Realtor

 

 

 

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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

This is one of the saddest days I modern American history. The Democratic Party would be very different had he lived.

Nov 22, 2025 06:40 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty hi Jeff... 62 years later, I feel that sadness as if it happened just the other day.

Nov 22, 2025 06:54 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.
This is such a thoughtful reflection, Nina. Your recollections capture not just the historical moment, but the emotional weight it carried for everyone alive then. It’s remarkable how vividly events like this stay with us—how a single day can imprint itself on an entire generation. Reading this makes me pause and remember my own “where I was” moment for other historic events. Thank you for sharing such a personal and moving perspective on a day that truly changed the nation.
Nov 22, 2025 06:51 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 thank you, Gwen, for your lovely comments. That awful day did imprint itself on an entire generation (like mine). One can't help but wonder how different the rest of the 1960's and the subsequent decades might have been had JFK not been assassinated.

Nov 22, 2025 06:56 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Nina Hollander, Broker - I was in grade school when the news broke lose. It was one of our country's saddest days in history. A few years ago I took a course from UNT to revisit everything that happened before, during, and after the Kennedy assassination. I visited the site at Dealy Plaza, the theater where Oswald was appended, the jail cell where Oswald and Ruby were locked up, the Book Depository, and re-enactments at the Court House, plus we had police, sniper experts, and other witnesses still alive come in for personal interviews about what they knew and witnessed. And we saw a movie about JFK that was never released to the public. 

 

Nov 22, 2025 07:03 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Patricia Feager hi Patricia... the events of 9/11 will be imprinted in my mind's eye for the rest of my life like it happened yesterday. I feel the same about November 23, 1963. I'm afraid that in not all that many more years, this will feel like ancient history to many Americans.

Nov 22, 2025 07:29 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Thank you for the reminder Nina Hollander, Broker For those of us alive on that day, we will never forget it. There was much hope and optimism, and it was taken from the American people. If there was a turning point in the country, it was that fateful day

Nov 22, 2025 07:18 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Doug Dawes good morning, Doug. I totally believe that. November 22, 1963 changed us, changed our country, and was totally a turning point for the USA.

Nov 22, 2025 07:26 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Nina Hollander, Broker   

It was a day that we will never forget not unlike the previous events that caused world events to spiral.

It was so somber in Waterbury as just months previous JFK, as a newly elected president came back to Waterbury CT.

As Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty   mentions, political parties in general would be different today and our society, had they took to heart the words of JFK's speech snippet, Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country',   would not have a mindset of what else can you give me?

Nov 22, 2025 07:24 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 hi Ed... November 22, 1963 was a truly consequential day for Americans and America. Those of us who clearly remember that day can't help but wonder what might have been...

Nov 22, 2025 07:28 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Nina. Thanks for this historical reminder. I was in my second year of real estate in my office in Portsmouth, Virginia.

Bobby Kennedy, Ted Kennedy and I attended the same law school, UVA. I shared a mail box with Ted Kennedy.

Nov 22, 2025 08:39 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Hi Roy... hard to imagine how they are all gone now. 

Nov 22, 2025 12:04 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

I was in grade school and I so remember hearing over the loudspeaker that the President had been shot.  We prayed together that he would survive.  I will never forget that time. Nor will I forget the days and weeks of 9/11.

Ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country.

Nov 22, 2025 09:15 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Anna "Banana" Kruchten hi Anna... JFK was truly inspirational for a generation of Americans. He's been gone for so long now that most Americans probably have no recollection of those times.

Nov 22, 2025 12:05 PM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
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I was in third grade in Hough's Neck, a section of Quincy Massachusetts. We were told early afternoon on a Thursday, Sent home from School early, no school that Friday.  It was a big deal there as JFK was a Massachusetts Senator. Bill 

Nov 22, 2025 09:23 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore hi Bill... Massachusetts was the Kennedy Family's home... I'm sure it hit hard there.

Nov 22, 2025 12:06 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Nina - I remember the day but not much of the details.  

Nov 22, 2025 09:35 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Michael Jacobs hi Michael... as you can see, I remember the day, the details, and that weekend. Lots of things I don't remember from 62 years ago, but this I do.

Nov 22, 2025 12:07 PM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

I wasn't around during that time, so I'm unable to answer that question. However, I have read extensively about the Kennedy legacy. That era in history must have been amazing! Camelot. America was united. Family values were prioritized. I truly missed out.

Nov 22, 2025 09:37 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kelly McGovern you missed out, Kelly, and I miss it. The older I get the more I appreciate growing up in the 1950's and coming of age in the 1960's.

Nov 22, 2025 12:07 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Nina, that was such a sad day in our history.  I remember I was in 7th grade in a history class and the school put it on the loud speaker.

Nov 22, 2025 10:07 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Will Hamm hi Will... it was an unbearably sad day, November 22, 1963.

Nov 22, 2025 12:08 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Nina I remember exactly where I was when I first heard of JFK being shot.  It is so clear in my mind, that it is like it was yesterday.

Nov 22, 2025 01:21 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

George Souto amazing isn't it, George, how we can carry that memory for so long without it dimming.

Nov 22, 2025 02:02 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Nina- I was in middle school, although it was called junior high back then. and yes, I remember it well. My mother picked me up from school and I remember discussing what happened. 

Nov 22, 2025 01:32 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib hi Kathy... I very much believe we as Americans lost our innocence that terrible day. 

Nov 22, 2025 02:02 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Nina, I "kind of" remember, but was only 6, so probably knew more as I aged.  Was a sad day.

Nov 22, 2025 06:04 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Joan Cox good morning, Joan... I wouldn't expect anyone under the age of 10 or 11 to have any "real" memories of that day.

Nov 23, 2025 04:23 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I have always heard good things about JKF, although I never personally knew much about what he did or what he stood for.  I do like what RFK is trying to do for our country!

Nov 23, 2025 04:48 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Brian England good morning, Brian. John F Kennedy ushered in a new decade when he was elected. Sadly he never saw his dreams come true.

Nov 23, 2025 04:50 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Thank you for sharing your memories of that time. You are right that it was one of those times that had a huge impact and won't ever be forgotten by those who were old enough to experience it. As for me, I was three so was probably at home jumping on things and not paying attention to the world. 😄

Nov 23, 2025 05:23 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kat Palmiotti hi Kat... as time goes on, this piece of history becomes "ancient" history for most people. For those of my generation it doesn't feel old yet.

Nov 23, 2025 06:16 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
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Your reflections capture the weight of that day with such clarity, Nina Hollander, Broker, and they remind us how certain moments never fade from memory. Thanks for sharing this heartfelt perspective, it’s a powerful reminder of history’s lasting impact 🙏.

Nov 23, 2025 09:48 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Lew Corcoran in some ways, Lew, it feels strange that what is to many people today almost ancient history is just part of my life experiences.

Nov 23, 2025 11:38 AM