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Beyond the Price: The Heart of Selling Homes

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

 

 Beyond The Price

 

People often assume that every seller wants the same thing: the highest possible price. But after decades of meeting homeowners and walking through some of the most interesting properties in Baltimore, I can tell you that is not always about the money. Homes have personalities, and so do the people who own them. Every seller has a story, a motivation, a timeline, and a personal definition of success.

That’s why my first job is not pricing the home or reviewing comps. My first job is listening and really listening. And once you listen, you discover what the seller truly wants.

Here are a few examples:

 

One gentleman was retiring due to illness. It was July, and his only wish was to be fishing in upstate New York by August. He gave me his bottom line, priced below the comps, and said, “Just make it quick.” We made it quick.

 

Another couple lived for more than 50 years on 34 beautiful acres in a home built in 1812. Their priority was not speed or price. They wanted buyers who would protect the land and treat the house with the same love they had for it. They patiently waited until the right family arrived.

 

There was the widower who could not bear to step inside the house he once shared with his wife. When I gently suggested waiting, he said, “Lady, if you don’t want to sell my house, I’ll find someone who does.” What he wanted was love returned to that home. We found blissfully happy newlyweds, and the seller even gave them a price break.

 

 

A world-traveling seller threatened to find another agent unless I sold the house fast. I told him I could do it in two weeks but needed a fifty-thousand-dollar price drop. He didn’t hesitate. We had competing offers in one week. His priority was momentum and freedom, not money.

 

Another older couple lived for decades in a home that had become overwhelming. Deferred maintenance, clutter, and exhaustion kept them stuck. When we learned their bottom line, we found an investor who bought it AS IS, allowed them to take what they wanted, leave the rest, and move on their own schedule. They had no repairs, no showings, and no stress. We exceeded their bottom line.

 

Some sellers want privacy and no sign in the yard. Sellers with fragile health who need only a few showings. Families selling an estate who need more time than pressure. Couples who are divorcing and want fairness above everything else. Sellers who need a specific settlement date because of a job transfer. Pet lovers want reassurance that a buyer will keep the gate closed.

 

Some want speed. Some want comfort. Some want safety. Some want kindness. Some want certainty. Some want the right buyer, not the highest offer. And some want the peace of mind that comes from handing their home to someone who will love it as much as they did.

 

 

Every seller has their own motivation. Every situation is different. And when you truly listen, you deliver the outcome that matters most to them.

Because, in real estate, as in life, it's beyond the price and it is not always about the money.

 

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Margaret Rome
HomeRome Realty
Broker/Owner/Realtor®

Baltimore, Maryland


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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Margaret - practicing real estate has many similarities but enough differences to make each transaction unique.  Careful listening combines with local real estate knowledge to create a better experience for the client.   

Dec 09, 2025 03:30 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Michael Jacobs 

Every real estate transaction is unique, and we need to be  good listeners!

Dec 09, 2025 08:44 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent post and examples of the differences in seller desires and motivations. 

Carol Williams - suggestion for Second Chance Saturday

Dec 09, 2025 05:03 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Thank you so much!  Kat Palmiotti 

Dec 09, 2025 08:45 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

This is so true, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 
Sellers have all kinds of motivations for selling, not all of which involve getting the best price. 

Dec 09, 2025 05:32 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Carol Williams

This is learned over time, and I don't remember being taught it in any classroom.

Dec 09, 2025 08:48 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Tuesday morning, Margaret. These are good stories to share. 

Have an outstanding week and enjoy the holiday season.

Dec 09, 2025 06:11 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Always a pleasure to see you Roy Kelley 

Dec 09, 2025 08:48 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Margaret, there is always more to a story and the motivations of a seller. If we listen with care and empathy, we get what we need and then can discuss with them how to make it happen.

Dec 09, 2025 10:37 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 

There are times when there is more to the story, especially when the owners disagree. Had a couple, and she wanted to sell and be in her Florida home. He loved the house and wanted to stay where all his kids were. 

Dec 09, 2025 02:07 PM
Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
Luxury service in Central Maryland

Beautifully said, Margaret! 💛 Selling a home is about people and stories, not just price. Love how you highlight truly listening to what sellers want. 🏡✨

Dec 09, 2025 01:55 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Hi Ellie McIntire. It is about asking the right questions and then truly listening!

Dec 09, 2025 02:09 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a thoughtful share, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400, reminding us that selling a home is about listening, care, and honoring each story 🙂. Your words highlight the heart behind every transaction, and I’m grateful for the insight!

Dec 10, 2025 01:52 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Thank you, Lew Corcoran 

Dec 10, 2025 02:19 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

This is beautifully said and deeply true. Price matters, but it’s rarely the only thing that matters. What really drives a successful sale is understanding the human story behind the house—the timelines, the emotions, the fears, and the hopes that don’t show up on a spreadsheet.

Listening first changes everything. When you take the time to understand what “success” actually looks like for a seller, the strategy becomes clear, and the outcome is better for everyone involved. These examples are a powerful reminder that real estate is as much about people as it is about property.

This is the kind of perspective that comes only with experience, empathy, and respect for the lives lived inside these homes.

Dec 13, 2025 05:57 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Thanks for taking my call today. I enjoyed the conversation.

Dec 13, 2025 01:21 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Thank you.  I did the numbers and added them to Henry's birthday card.  He got his present but has to wait for the cheesecake--tonight after dinner.

Dec 14, 2025 05:42 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Margaret,

You are right sellers don't always need the highest price for their home. Sometimes they want someone to buy and move in and love the home as much as they did. No price tag for that!

Dec 13, 2025 06:45 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

 There is no price tag for turning your home over to buyers who will love your house!

Dec 13, 2025 01:24 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

My sense in reading your posting, "The property must speak to the buyer." 

Dec 13, 2025 08:49 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good way to put it, Leanne Smith 

Dec 13, 2025 01:25 PM