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Thankful for the Strength and Grace of a Young Probate Client

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with KD Realty - 408.972.1822 CA DRE#01366594

What follows is a review written by one of my probate real estate clients.  Her father, who was the sole provider for the family, died suddenly, and they had to sell the home.  My client and her 2-year-old daughter lived with her parents and brother. Her mother and brother did not speak English, yet they appeared to understand some.

My client, the Administrator of the Estate, spoke impeccable English. I guestimate she was maybe 25 years young.  

What touched me so much was that she was so young, tasked with an incredible job, managed everything exceptionally well, was always so strong, on task, and so kind and gracious while mourning the loss of her father, the Patriarch of the Family. 

She also wrote the longest review I've ever received.  The review, in quotes, is below. 

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"The house selling experience my family and I had with Ms. Kathleen is so extensive, I’m not even sure where to begin. It would take a novel or extremely lengthy review to grasp our experience, but I will do the best I can to encapsulate the gist of it in this review. This is seriously just the abridged, cliff notes version of our experience.

Even though the home selling process was overall not a great experience for us, Ms. Kathleen was a ray of sunshine and made the experience 1000x better. Please don’t misunderstand this to mean that the experience was bad because of Ms. Kathleen. It was actually quite the opposite. Ms. Kathleen was wonderful throughout and was probably one of the main reasons I did not completely suffer from a mental breakdown. She always stayed positive, on the mark, and uplifted us in ways I didn’t think possible.

The not positive experience we had was mainly due to the village of idiots we had to work with in regards to buyers and their agents. From buyers showing up super late to showings, to buyers showing up several times unnecessarily on different occasions and wasting everyone’s time, to rudeness and overall lack of basic human respect, Ms, Kathleen was an utmost professional throughout the entire process. I’m not sure how she kept her cool, but my family and I were at our wit’s ends. She definitely went above and beyond her job duties in this transaction, and I truly cannot state how much my family and I appreciate her compassionate nature and sincere dedication to her job. It is clear she loves helping people, and this was very evident in how gracefully she handled all the roadblocks in this transaction.

In terms of work ethic, Ms Kathleen is top notch. If lack of communication is your thing, Ms. Kathleen is not your person as she communicates perfectly and will always keep you in the loop. Rest assured that you will ALWAYS be updated of any news or information related to the transaction. This communication style alone is what makes Ms. Kathleen extraordinary and truly rare in this industry. Her abundance of real estate and probate knowledge was pivotal in this transaction. This is one of Ms. Kathleen’s exceptional qualities as she is always up to date on what is going on in the industry to better guide her clients.

Throughout the process, we experienced tears, hard work, and struggles. Again, this was due to the village of idiots and NOT Ms. Kathleen. At one point, Ms. Kathleen and I joked that we might need discounted group therapy after this is all said and done (hahaha). But what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, and this experience really epitomizes that sentiment. This experience certainly made me swear off agents forever. Except for Ms. Kathleen, of course, as I feel she’s the only agent in California we would ever want to work with. Hopefully we won’t be back in Cali (we moved out-of-state) but if we had to *knocks on wood,* there’s no other agent I would work with besides Ms. Kathleen. I’m so sad Ms. Kathleen only works in California!

I think it’s also important to note that aside from being our agent, we see Ms. Kathleen as a family friend who works tirelessly for her clients. We eventually sold the house for the price we wanted to an all cash buyer, and Ms. Kathleen was excellent in carrying out this transaction on a rapid timeline. Always punctual and always working day and night for her clients, her role in facilitating the close was undoubtedly legendary. We were not familiar with the process of such a fast closing, but with her awesome guidance, the closing was super quick and smooth.

If you are on the fence about hiring Ms. Kathleen, please don’t hesitate and hire her now! I wish I can give Ms. Kathleen more than 5 stars because she deserves infinite stars. She is truly one in a million, and my family cannot thank her enough for helping us during such a difficult and rapidly changing time in our lives. Thank you for always being wonderful, Ms Kathleen :)"

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The day of closing, the family hit the road to travel to their out-of-state destination.  Waiting inside on the kitchen counter was a beautiful handwritten thank-you note card and a gift basket.  

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All of my clients (okay, maybe not all) imprint on my heart in a very special way.  Probate real estate may have a dark side, but I remain thankful to work with so many incredibly wonderful people who bless me with the honor of knowing them and working with them. 

This is week three's entry to the Active Rain November 2025 Challenge hosted by Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 

 

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“From the moment we met Kathleen, we were impressed with her professionalism, knowledge, patience, respect, humor, attention to detail, and compassion.  She's the Whole Package ~ excellent agent and wonderful human being!  In a potentially stressful experience, we have felt in good hands all along.  We are so grateful and recommend her without hesitation!”

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Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist 
What a truly wonderful result you achieved for the family. A sale - OK. However, the result was that they survived the process BECAUSE OF YOU! 
She always stayed positive, on the mark, and uplifted us
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, Lynn

Nov 22, 2025 10:02 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

The family was put through the opposite side of heaven by the bad behavior and lack of professionalism when scheduling showings. Thank you, Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 

Nov 23, 2025 09:31 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathleen - your clients acknowledged a reality in real estate.  Situations, circumstances and other things that may occur in a transaction may be indicative of outside influences that can run amiss.  Thank you for sharing the testimonial which captures the experience so genuinely.  

Nov 23, 2025 02:34 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

It is rare for me to list a probate home that is occupied Michael Jacobs, which exposes the family to those things that may occur, mainly agents behaving badly. 

Nov 23, 2025 09:33 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Your experience in probate cases and your natural ability to analyze the situation so you can adapt to be of utmost service with a truly personal touch wa swell documented by this young lady. Kudos to yo for being you. Enjoy your day.

Nov 23, 2025 04:20 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

Hello, Wayne Martin probate certainly takes real estate to a new level - we spent a lot of time on the phone as she explained what the last real estate agent did, including the theft of one of her daughter's stuffed animals. We cannot make this stuff up! 

Nov 23, 2025 09:36 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Wow, that is a very detailed review, and she seems like such a wonderful young woman!

Nov 23, 2025 04:42 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

She truly is Brian England and her command of the English language is impressive - especially given her mother did not speak the language. 

Nov 23, 2025 09:37 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathleen... if I received a letter like that I would have cried all the way through reading it. And then I would have read it again and cried again. No doubt you are a rock star!

Nov 23, 2025 04:43 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

Miss Nina Hollander, Broker - I did cry. I can be tough as nails, yet I do have a soft side. 

Nov 23, 2025 09:39 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist I can relate to that totally, my friend!

Nov 23, 2025 11:40 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

That was a beautiful review from a beautiful person. That's one to be treasured forever.

Nov 23, 2025 05:12 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

Hello Kat Palmiotti - I save all the cards and letters I receive from my clients.  This one is in my treasure chest. 

Nov 23, 2025 09:40 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist it speaks volumes when a client takes the time to not only thank us, but to do it with a hand written note makes it even more special.

Nov 23, 2025 05:44 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

Hello George Souto - I agree with you.

There are a number of my clients that express how happy they are with my service throughout the process, yet when it comes time to write a review, they do not. That is not something I press.  

Happy Sunday - Happy Thanksgiving! 

Nov 23, 2025 09:42 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

This story carries so much heart, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist, and it’s a gift to read how strength and kindness can shine even in the hardest moments. Thank you for sharing such a moving glimpse into the human side of probate work 🙂.

Nov 23, 2025 09:54 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Well said Lew Corcoran this young woman took on the task. It reminds me of the concept that God does not give us anything that we cannot handle. 

Nov 23, 2025 10:20 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Kathleen,

That had to be such a heartfelt moment for you! With absolute sincerity that testimonial and Thank you letter was written! What a wonderful review from a wonderful client!

Nov 23, 2025 01:44 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

WOW!

You made a friend for life through the transaction. I absolutely loved the note and the amazing review.

Dec 19, 2025 05:22 PM