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Thanksgiving Special for ActiveRain

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Real Estate Agent with Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

A Repeat & Revised of Journal Writing from 11/16/2025

 

 

THANKSGING SPECIAL FOR ACTIVERAIN

 

By this time, tomorrow, it will be Thanksgiving Day. In the original post I wrote ten days ago, I am grateful for the people who read it and commented. My goal is to reach a wider audience about our experience on AR. I understand many people will be busy celebrating Thanksgiving Day with loved ones. Some will be cooking. Others made reservations. And to those who travel, I wish you a safe trip. 

What started out as an ActiveRain Blog for people in the real estate industry became a tapestry of paid up members across the nation stitched together to be a unique and prosperous community of bloggers, not by roads or fences, or who was the best, or better, but by the stories of inspiration, motivation, education, and increased awareness of what’s going on in your own personal local community.

Every blog post written and read holds a memory. Over the years we were offered meet-up gatherings, that sparked interest and a longing to belong on the cutting edge of real estate knowledge and expertise. Through it all, we built relationships. The stories we wrote lingered long after the sun dipped below the horizon.

Stories That Bind

When bloggers shared tales of success, failure, triumphs, and struggles, we discovered echoes that triggered similar stories to others --- we became united.

When people got personal, we were reminded, we are all only human --- nobody is perfect. “Judge not lest ye be judged,” for it has been written.

Housing markets go up; they go down --- we shared our stories of growth, opportunities, setbacks and how we resolved to stay focused and not give up a fight. Those who quit are sorely missed.  

We learned that dreams AR members believed in did come true --- we celebrated!

Through each other, we passed down hope, advice, encouragement, and even passed down family recipes.

As our stories began to flow and the more, we began to know about each other, we knew through faith, instinct, hope, and/or compassion anything is possible.

Stories became bridges—crossing divides of age, background, and belief. Burning bridges is unprofessional. It destroys reputations and closes door. 

This is the Tapestry We Created!!!

 

Through Good Times and Bad We Remained Vigilant – We Persevered

There was AR Meet-ups, NAR Conferences, CRS Sell-a-bration, local round-ups, State Conferences, Reunions, Monthly AR Challenges, and Zoom Meetings. If we did not show up, or participate, we heard or read about it in blog posts written by the people for the people. We are a membership of many talents. 


There were many people we lost through sickness and or health problems – We mourned the loss of some of the greatest people that ever lived. Coming up soon, it will be one year we lost Myrl Jeffcoat.

Life changes and brings all people times of uncertainty. The best thing to do is be compassionate and supportive - live without regrets.

Bringing joy and good will we celebrate small victories, achievements, milestones, perseverance, and good fortune --- Together we stay united; divided we fall.

Each member is a gift – not an enemy of the people. Together we formed a tapestry – woven from threads of joy, sorrow, strength, and vulnerability.

In each story posted, each person found not just themselves, but each other. There is strength in unity! Stitched together and tightly weaved we become a beautiful tapestry. Every day, every new post is a celebration of membership that stays stronger. There is power in ActiveRain. Let us be thankful.

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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good morning!! Yes, I give thanks for ActiveRain and its special group of people!! Thank you for your tribute!

Nov 26, 2025 05:25 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Good morning, Patricia.
What a lovely reflection on what ActiveRain truly represents... a tapestry of friendship, knowledge, and shared experience. For all these reasons, I am deeply grateful I stumbled upon AR 19 years ago. (My 20 year anniversary is next year).

Through the years, I’ve met people here who have become lifelong friends, proof that stories really do have the power to connect us across miles. Thank you for expressing what so many of us feel.

Wishing you a Thanksgiving filled with gratitude, warmth, and the joy of knowing how much stronger we are together. 

Nov 26, 2025 05:34 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

This captures exactly why ActiveRain has lasted as long as it has. The stories, the honesty, the connections, and the willingness to show up for one another have built something no algorithm could ever recreate. It is easy to forget how rare it is to find a space where people from different markets, backgrounds, and paths can share openly and still feel understood.

The tapestry image fits. Every blog post really does become another thread. Some bright, some heavy, some full of lessons, some full of heart. Together they create a history of who we are as a community and how much we have walked through side by side.

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to stop and acknowledge the friendships, the memories, and the voices that shaped this place. Some members are no longer with us, but their impact lingers in the stories they shared and the lives they touched.

 

ActiveRain has always been more than a platform. It has been a place to learn, to grow, to grieve, to celebrate, and to belong. That is worth being thankful for.

Nov 26, 2025 05:49 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I love your post, the analogy of the tapestry being weaved together is so fitting. Thank you for the images you created with your words and your images posted, they are all something I can be grateful for in participation.

Nov 26, 2025 07:10 AM
Patricia Feager

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - Thank you! I really appreciate your comments. Each blogger takes on their own individual journey. When it comes to the business of real estate, there is always something to learn and to share. To be honest, I always received more support from members of ActiveRain than in my own community.

Thanks, again. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your loved ones

Nov 26, 2025 08:41 AM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home again, home again...

Happy thanksgiving Patricia.  I hope you have a great one.

Nov 26, 2025 08:20 AM
Patricia Feager

Alan May - Thank you for being a big part of ActiveRain since it first began. The support you gave others and the information you share are like golden nuggets to be remembered.

Happy Thanksgiving to you!

Nov 26, 2025 08:43 AM
Alan May

awwww shucks...  I haven't really been here since the beginning, but I certainly have enjoyed the time I've spent here.

Nov 26, 2025 09:05 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Wednesday afternoon, Patricia. Have a great day and an outstanding Thanksgiving.

I am also very thankful for the many ActiveRain relationships.

Nov 26, 2025 10:04 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Roy Kelley -

Thank you for all the years you have been in the real estate business and on ActiveRAIN. We all owe you a debt of gratitude!

Happy Thanksgiving!

 

Nov 26, 2025 12:02 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Patricia,

I love this tribute to relationships here in the Rain! So glad to see it featured!! Happy Thanksgiving!🦃🦃🦃

Nov 26, 2025 02:53 PM
Lisa Friedman
Great American Dream Realty - Manchester Center, VT
37 Years of Real Estate Experience!

What a beautiful post. So many friendships made throughout the years. Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 26, 2025 03:01 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - I'm always so happy to hear from you and read your comments. You always bring out the best in others and you're a great support.

I wish you and your family a very happy Thanksgiving Day.

Nov 26, 2025 04:16 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Lisa Friedman - It's such a nice surprise to hear from you! We need to stay in communication. Building friendships in the RAIN strengthens our ActiveRAIN tapestry!

I wish you a very Happy Thanksgiving Day!

Nov 26, 2025 04:19 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia over the 19 plus years I have been on AR I have learned a lot from the personal experiences other members have blogged about.

Nov 26, 2025 05:47 PM
Patricia Feager

George Souto - 19 years is a long time to consider bloggers friends. Many you met in person, spoke to on the telephone, and maybe even did business with them. Although we never met, I think of you as a legend who continues to touch the lives of others.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. 

Nov 27, 2025 06:00 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Patricia- what a beautiful post. You've woven a tapestry that befits our ActiveRain family.

Nov 26, 2025 08:00 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Patricia Feager 
Lovely tribute! Happy Thanksgiving to you my AR friend!!! Lynn

Nov 26, 2025 09:39 PM
Patricia Feager

Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 - Thank you for the work you did for all of us to share our gratitude for the November Challenge. Reading each and everyone's contributions takes a lot of time. For your time, patience, and all that you do, thank you. You always were and always will be a dear AR friend.

Happy Thanksgiving.

Nov 27, 2025 06:09 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Wayne Martin, Kat Palmiotti, and Carol Williams 

I don't know how it happened. I was sure I replied to each of you on the day you wrote comments. I see now, my comments are not there. Perhaps, I got off without logging off.... who knows?

Wayne, you have mentioned your close friendship with Lou Ludwig many times. Both of you, always have been good and memorable members of AR. As for me, I always enjoy our Chicago connection. Chicago blood is thicker than alcoholic beverages. Let us toast libations to Lou today - after all, the original meaning of libations has religious meaning: pouring of a liquid as an offering to a spirit. 

I want you to know how much you are appreciated and how thankful I am because of our connections to shared friends on ActiveRain.  Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.  

Kat - Happy Thanksgiving to you for all that you are and all that you do. You're always happy and willing to give and share all that is good within yourself. May you live a full life of continuous dreams that do come true.

Carol - 
It is very clear to me that you are blessed to have many, many friends on ActiveRain and they are blessed to know you too! The first person I think of in your circle of friends is Anna "Banana" Kruchten - I do believe she would put you in the category of true angels. I just want to thank you for your kindness and for being wonderful and amazing and for weaving yourself into the lives of everyone you can on ActiveRain. Happy Thanksgiving 

Nov 27, 2025 05:56 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you!

Nov 27, 2025 11:05 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt reminder of how stories knit us together into something lasting, Patricia Feager. Your words capture the spirit of gratitude and community so well, and I’m thankful you shared this tapestry with us 🙂. Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 27, 2025 09:46 AM
Patricia Feager

Lew Corcoran - We have many great members on ActiveRain and even if we don't live in the same states, we all know how to talk Real Estate language that never gets boring. Our tapestry is weaved together with strong and colorful threads that keeps us united. I'm so glad you're part of this community!

Nov 27, 2025 01:54 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Where is Carol King when we need her! Tapestry  can be our theme song!  I so appreciate Active Rain and all the people here! it is a special place and as Said before and I will say again... It's a Wonderful life in the Rain!

I hope you had an extra wonderful and beautiful Thanksgiving Day Patricia Feager 

Nov 28, 2025 01:04 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Patricia as I read your lovely post the day after Thanksgiving I imagined a beautiful tapestry of incredible colors and shapes on the wall in front of me.  And it so represents what AR has been over the last 19 years!  A beautiful tapestry of amazing people that share openly with each other.  I have been so blessed to meet thousands of rainers in person over the years and each time is very special.  It's like we've been friends for life!

Nov 28, 2025 11:26 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Debra Leisek - I like your idea of having a "theme song!" That would be fun if we had a Carol King song just for ActiveRain!

We appreciate you too, Debra! I hope your Thanksgiving Day was exactly what you wanted it to be. A long time ago, I decided everyday can be a day of thanksgiving. We really do have more things to be thankful for than complaints. 

Thank you for being such an amazing member of ActiveRain. I greatly appreciate you. 

Nov 28, 2025 12:27 PM
Debra Leisek

I appreciate you Patricia Feager ! Thank you for being You!

Nov 29, 2025 12:56 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Anna "Banana" Kruchten 

Thank you for the heartwarming comment. The tapestry I created with that image is a metaphor for our AR interconnected membership, where our experiences shape us into who we are. The emotions we experienced, the highs and lows, all the work, attention to details, preparation, success, determination, and learning experience is a single thread woven together to form a complete and unique whole. 

It's a pleasure and an honor to be a part of ActiveRain.

Nov 29, 2025 01:28 AM