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Someone Else May Live There, But It Will Always Be Your Home  

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Someone Else May Live There, But It Will Always Be Your Home  

 

They had built and lived in their home for 50 years.   It was now time to move closer to family.  

They contacted several agents; then I heard back.  

The home was built in 1975.  It was a typical Boca Raton home for the time - 3 bedrooms, 2 baths, 2-car garage on a large lot, on a cul-de-sac street.  

It had "nylon wall-to-wall carpeting" and "asbestos vinyl tile floor in kitchen, family room and foyer."   These were upgrades 50 years ago.

And they had the original floor plan from the builder.

 

floor plan of home in east boca raton florida

Schools are A-rated and in demand, especially the elementary.  It's minutes from downtown and the beach.   There was room to expand the house and add a pool.

The first thing I noticed when I went there was this house was filled with love.  You could just tell.

The house was original, but had been immaculately maintained.  I was given a list of when everything was replaced - the air conditioner, water heater, appliances, roof, etc.  The kitchen and baths were original, but in perfect condition.

They were set on moving, although it was clear she did not want to leave her home, her friends on the block, her life.   50 years is a long time, and her life was in Boca Raton.

I understood, because I had moved my mother from New York to Florida after my father passed.  She had lived in her apartment for almost the same amount of time.    

Since the house would likely be gutted, she asked me not to take any interior photos.  Of course, I complied and we just took a few exterior photos.

We priced it to sell and sell it did.  Quickly.

We had many showings and offers.   From those who wanted to steal it, to great offers and really good offers with better terms.

They were not real estate savvy having owned only one home and lived in it for 50 years, so they relied on my guidance.  In guiding them, I also had them use a very  kind attorney who I knew who be a good fit for them as a leaseback was involved.

It all happened very fast.  They closed and stayed another few weeks.

She was upset, but I would tell her:  Someone else may live here, but it will always be your home.  

I sent the photo of the exterior of their home to a company that blows it up and frames it.  I paid extra to have it delivered quickly.  Unfortunately, it never arrived. 

The company was wonderful and resent it.  In the end, they had two photographs.  They gave one to their daughter.  

Now the framed photo hangs in her new kitchen as a reminder, because it will always be her home.  

These are very special people

I am so grateful to have met and been able to help them, and they have become friends.  They are very special to me.  We still talk and plan to meet for lunch in the new year.

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This is the review they left on Google:

"Once it was known that we decided to investigate real estate agents, the email never ended. While all agent responses were encouraging, they were primarily based on the property value. One of the first agents to contact us was Elyse Berman. Of course she was interested in getting us the most for our property, yet was not willing to trade a peaceful transaction in order to obtain a higher selling price. As we were an older couple and previously had never sold any real estate we were lost when knowing the procedures that were required. We were very comfortable with all of the suggestions she and the lawyer she had previously worked with had made. As it turned out her years of experience yielded a sale that we were happy with as well as a friendship we intend maintain in the future!"

 

This is my first entry in Active Rain's November 2025 Challenge, hosted by Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375.

 

 

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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Aww, love it. When we leave a home, the memories stay with us. And in this instance, they had a nice wall photo to keep that home close to them.

Nov 28, 2025 04:49 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

That's very true, Kat.  I think the home and the memories live on in their hearts.  The picture is a reminder.

Dec 07, 2025 05:04 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Elyse. Sometimes the forming of a friendship is more important than the transaction. Seek first to understand comes into play and you were the miestro. Kudos to you. Enjoy your day.

Nov 28, 2025 04:59 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Good evening Wayne,  Thank you.  I agree.  You have to know who you're dealing with.  In this case, the transaction was most important.  Have a great week.

Dec 07, 2025 05:06 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Elyse... what a heart-warming story and it totally illustrates why we do what we do. Well done!

Nov 28, 2025 05:02 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Good evening Nina,  Thank you!  It was one of those special ones that are not easily forgotten.

Dec 07, 2025 05:07 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Elyse - this transaction was an experience that underscores something I have repeated often.  Each real estate agent is different.  Your thoughtful and kind yet very knowledgeable approach to the local market was helpful in achieving "success".  Good for you - it's important to choose your real estate representation wisely. 

Nov 28, 2025 05:52 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Hello Michael, You're right, we are all different.  People should choose their real estate representation wisely but all too often, they do not these days.  

Dec 07, 2025 05:10 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I think we never really own a home. We are simply caretakers. We pass it on to the next inhabitants. They have a job to make it better for the next family. 

Nov 28, 2025 06:16 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

I don't know, Jeffrey.  50 years is a long time in a person's life.

Dec 07, 2025 05:11 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I can tell that you have a lot of care and concern for all of your clients.  It's always difficult to move from a home that we have lived in for a very long time.

Nov 28, 2025 06:43 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

I have never anywhere quite that long, but have seen it with others that have, including my own mother.  It isn't easy.

Dec 07, 2025 05:12 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello, Elyse Berman, PA the framed photo of "their" home is a special gift they will treasure.  You took excellent care of them as well as the sale of their home. Of course, you have become friends.  💙🧡

Congratulations!!!!

Nov 28, 2025 10:08 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Hi Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist I think so.  Thank you  for your kind words.

Dec 07, 2025 05:13 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Elyse And thank you for sharing this story with us here in the Rain.  Friends and families are always important for all of us.

Nov 28, 2025 10:46 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Hi Will,  I'm glad you enjoyed it.  I know.  I remember the days when I wrote about my parents and how sick they were, the trips home and even the meetup in NY.

Dec 07, 2025 05:15 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Elyse, it is tough when you go on a listing where the homeowner has lived in the home for 40+ years.   You automatically know they have too much stuff, and good chance they haven't done the updates they probably should have.   We work with whatever they have.  You did a GREAT job, KUDOS.

Nov 28, 2025 10:53 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Joan,  This house was different.  It wasn't updated, but it was immaculate.  I can't explain how everything was perfectly taken care of.  They knew it wasn't updated, but it was kept up.  Even the garage was organized and immaculate.  

 

Thank you for your kind words!

Dec 07, 2025 05:19 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Elyse Berman, PA 
Yes, this story is exactly what this Challenge needed!
Great results for everyone.
"her years of experience yielded a sale that we were happy with as well as a friendship we intend maintain in the future!"
Enjoy your week, Lynn

Nov 29, 2025 12:02 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 After we spoke, it popped into my head and the words just flowed.   Thank you for encouraging me to enter the contest.

Dec 07, 2025 05:39 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Sand 'n Sea Properties - Galveston, TX
Galveston, TX 936-203-0279

A well-loved and well-maintained home is always a pleasure to tour. And yes, the love in each home is felt.

Nov 29, 2025 01:50 PM
Elyse Berman, PA

It really is and you could the feel the love in that home

Dec 07, 2025 05:40 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Good evening Elyse Berman, PA ,

I loved this story and so glad to see it featured. What you told her was so true: "Someone else may live here, but it will always be your home."  

Nov 29, 2025 03:22 PM
Elyse Berman, PA

Good evening Dorie Dillard Austin TX .

I'm so happy to hear that.  But it was true - after 50 years, it will always be her home.  Thank you!

Dec 07, 2025 05:41 PM
Steven Beam
RE/MAX Alliance - Parker Colorado Real Estate. - Parker, CO
Parker Colorado Real Estate

Solid! Some of the best transactions I've had in my career are the original owners of longtime family homes. One of the best was an immigrant family that moved here during the 40s and their daughter was selling the house she grew up in. She had lived in the home for all of her 83 years. 

Nov 30, 2025 06:53 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Wow, 83 years in one home!  That's amazing!  Florida tends to be more transient, so it's unusual to come across people who have lived in one home so long.  It was a joy to work with them.

Dec 07, 2025 05:43 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Elyse- I loved your post and so happy it got featured!!!   I'm sure many agents have sellers who experience what yours did. You showered them with kindness. 

Nov 30, 2025 12:28 PM
Elyse Berman, PA

Hi Kathy - Thank you!  I honestly don't know how many have sellers who have lived in a home in south Florida for 50 years.  Interesting question.

Dec 07, 2025 06:00 PM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

What a great story!  I always tell people that no one can ever take away your memories. It’s a house that is sold not the memories.

Dec 01, 2025 06:38 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Thank you!  That's a good one, Kelly.  I like it!  "It's a house that is sold, not the memories."

Dec 07, 2025 06:07 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Elyse Berman, PA  How could she not love you? You are such a loving and caring person, the only agent I refer to in your area. Have a great day, Elyse 

Dec 01, 2025 04:17 PM
Elyse Berman, PA

Hannah Williams You are too kind!  Have a great week, my friend!

Dec 07, 2025 06:12 PM
Steve Higgins
RE/MAX Kelowna - Kelowna, BC

Hi Elyse,

Your post was very heartwarming. I still consider my childhood home my home, even though I haven't lived there in over 60 years. Their home was well loved and cared for, which you sure don't see much of these days. What a nice review she left and well deserved.

 

Dec 03, 2025 05:28 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

I'm glad you enjoyed it, Steve.  I understand that.  It was your home.  And you're right, we don't see much of it these days.  It takes us back to a better time, in my opinion.   Thank you for your kind words.

Dec 07, 2025 06:15 PM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Very heart warming post . Thanks for doing this.

 

Dec 05, 2025 09:46 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Thank you, Ginger.  I appreciate your comment.

Dec 07, 2025 06:16 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Elyse. Thank you very much for sharing this story.

Gifting photographs is a great idea.

Dec 06, 2025 07:04 AM
Elyse Berman, PA

Good evening Roy,  I agree.  Photos are a memory.  I enjoy gifting them.

Mar 08, 2026 05:53 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

A home built in the mid-70s...check.

Lots of original features...check.

Excellent upkeep...check.

Some upgrades...check.

Repairs and replacements done when needed...check.

My home...check.

Dec 27, 2025 02:13 PM
Elyse Berman, PA

Thank you, John.

Mar 08, 2026 05:53 PM