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It's Not So Easy

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

Quite a few years ago, I had a client sitting at the settlement table, thrilled to be buying her dream house. Throughout the entire process, I handled every detail behind the scenes, shielding her from the complexities of real estate transactions. To her, it seemed like I had found her a home and collected at closing, without any of the daily efforts involved.  As she reviewed the settlement sheet and signed the multitude of documents, there was no thank you; instead, she confidently proclaimed, “This business is easy! I’m going to get my real estate license!”

I offered to mentor her through the process, but she flatly rejected my offer. 

Fast forward to the following year...her dream house was on the market. Seems like it wasn’t quite as simple as it appeared! While checking inventory, I noticed her home was listed, yet there was no record of any other listings, much less sales, in her MLS history. This was after she had been in business for one year.

Real estate might look easy from the outside, but it’s a team effort involving a whole cast of folks: the buyer, the seller, agents, lenders, appraisers, inspectors, and so many others. Each of them plays a role in getting to that final closing.

And let’s not forget the hiccups: appraisal issues, unexpected repairs, changing schedules, and even weather delays.

It’s a rollercoaster of emotions, too; frustrations can run high, and moving dates can shift at a moment’s notice!

If you're considering exploring real estate or selling your home, it's good to remember that it involves much more than simply showing a house and collecting a check.

You don't have to go through it alone! If you have questions or need guidance, let's navigate this journey together!

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Margaret Rome
HomeRome Realty
Broker/Owner/Realtor®

Baltimore, Maryland


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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Margaret - oh, well.  Sad but there are those who learn many sorts of lessons relatively quickly.  Others discover "it" over time as light bulb moments seem to appear.  And then there are those who experience it as reality "hits".   

Dec 05, 2025 03:07 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Michael Jacobs.

This young woman learned a difficult lesson and lost her dream home.

Dec 05, 2025 09:10 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

There are so many things that need to be handled with any real estate sale. An amazing agent will make the client believe it's easy. This person not only didn't take you up on your offer of help but probably didn't take anyone up on their offers to assist. Oh well!

Dec 05, 2025 04:56 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kat Palmiotti

The lesson I learned: keeping clients updated and more informed is important. We tend to make things appear too easy.

Dec 05, 2025 09:20 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Some people just have to find out the hard way how difficult a real estate transaction can be if they don't have the right professional on their side, haha.

Dec 05, 2025 04:57 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brian England 

Some people learn the hard way how tough real estate deals can be without a good professional to help them.

Dec 05, 2025 09:23 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Friday morning, Margaret. Thanks for sharing some of your observations. 

There are many challenges to overcome in the business.

Dec 05, 2025 05:33 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

And Roy Kelley, we have experienced many!

Dec 05, 2025 09:24 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400  when the agent is qualified and the buyer or seller think that you dd next to thing to collect a large check, the delusions start.

That person failed to take advantage of the help and didn't recognize how they came to call you in the first place.

Dec 05, 2025 06:15 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

It’s important for agents to recognize the support available to them.

Dec 05, 2025 09:29 AM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

You know what they say! If it were easy, everyone would do it. This business is not easy and is not for the faint of heart. Most people learn quickly and quit. The rest are dedicated and hard-working.

Dec 05, 2025 07:14 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kelly McGovern

The easier we make anything look, the more proficient we are!

Dec 05, 2025 09:30 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

That is because a true professional makes real estate appear EASY - yet when done well, and clients are well served, it is WORK.  So much goes on behind the "easy curtain". 

 

Dec 05, 2025 08:41 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

FEATURED IN CRAP-TACULAR

 

Mr. Crappy Says

FLUSH the Thought that

Real Estate is

EASY!

💩💩

💩

 

 

Dec 05, 2025 08:43 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist 

Absolutely! It's like magic...looks very easy, but it takes a lot of hard work behind the scenes!  I love being featured by Mr. Crappy

Dec 05, 2025 09:33 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret I am surprised she did not ask you to split the commission check with her, since you did very little to earn it.  🤣

Dec 05, 2025 01:20 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

George Souto

She may have...it was a long time ago!

Dec 05, 2025 05:26 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Your post shines a light on the unseen work that makes real estate happen, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400. It’s a reminder of how much dedication goes into every closing 🙂. Thanks for sharing such an honest perspective that captures both the challenges and the heart of the business!

Dec 06, 2025 12:51 AM