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Early Lessons of Life

The December Challenge theme for ActiveRain blogger members is “Who Are You & Your ‘Aha’ Moment - Self-discovery and Personal Growth” This is my fourth entry.

When you are young, you often learn about things that will become more important than you realize during the coming years. My first three blog posts of this series related to my youth while growing up in the Cradock community in Portsmouth, Virginia. This is a continuation of those memories.

When I was young, I was a weight lifter and was very strong for my age. The high school coach recruited me to play football during my freshman year. Those plans lasted a very short time. A severe knee injury ended my football career. I did not know it at the time but the injury would lead to a lifetime of problems with my right knee, including two operations after another fall and injury. 

My mother has what was called a "lazy eye" and I have the same condition in my right eye. I have worn eyeglasses since I was a kid but the condition was never corrected and has been a lifetime limitation. As I have mentioned in previous posts, I was a competitive rifle marksman when I was young but always had to shoot left handed because of my vision issues. I was lucky that my optometrist was also a competitive shooter and adjusted my eyeglasses to provide excellent vision in my left eye. I did not know it at the time, but my limited vision would exclude me from military service. 

When I was young, my father and some of his friends owned a beach home in Duck, North Carolina. The 16 acres property ran from the sound to the ocean. It was a regular destination for family vacations. The love of the area led to years of enjoyment of visiting places and fishing on the outer banks of the state. I remember a time when we were fishing from the Nags Head pier and could see the Northern Lights. An unusual experience and a positive memory. I surf fished at Cape Hatteras when most of the beach area were still vacant, before the time of the developments since then.

One of the most memorable days of my young life took place on October 4, 1954. I was a senior at the Cradock High School and we had a fire drill. While lined up outdoors, one of my teachers advised me that my mother had given birth to twin girls. Having those younger sisters lead to many new chapters of lifetime experiences over the years.

Thanks for taking time to read about some of my memories.

Happy Holidays!

Thanks to the December Challenge hosts: Lew Corcoran and Patricia Feager

 

Chrysanthemum, Brookside Gardens, Wheaton, Maryland USA IMG_2554
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Roy Kelley, Retired, Former Associate Broker, RE/MAX Realty Group

Gaithersburg, Maryland  

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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Roy - thank you for sharing more memories.   This edition showed me some additional insights.  

Dec 12, 2025 08:05 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Thank you for sharing this peek into your journey. No fun having a bum knee. I had a terrible ankle injury in college, and it is rearing its ugly head all of these years later. Roy, Merry Christmas to you and to Delores.

Dec 12, 2025 08:06 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Roy Kelley 

Thank you for completing four rich stories about your life for the December 2025 Challenge. I am grateful for sharing all your wonderful memories with me and members of ActiveRain. It was fascinating to read about your youth, especially the stories about the weight lifting, your time in Cradock, surf fishing at Cape Hatteras on one of the most beautiful beach areas before modern development, and the incredible memory of seeing the Northern Lights. I really enjoyed the glimpse into your past! 

Most of all, I share in your joy as being told during a school fire drill that your mother gave birth to twin girls! I have goose bumps and a smile. 

Thank you!

Dec 12, 2025 08:17 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Roy and thank you for your great blog to share with us.  To bad about your football career being cut short because of your knee.  Nice beach house and sounds like fun and lots of fishing and to see the Northern Lights is cool.

Dec 12, 2025 08:33 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Thanks for sharing, make it a great Friday and enjoy your upcoming weekend! Bill

 

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Dec 12, 2025 10:03 AM
Vickie Teel
RE/MAX PALM REALTY - Port Charlotte, FL
Sharing Florida sunshine one homeowner at a time!

Merry Christmas Roy!  Thanks for sharing these memories with us.  I'm sorry your football career was cut short and the problems with the knee later.  I loved hearing about your fun times fishing and WOW seeing the northern lights.  Have a wonderful holiday season!

Dec 12, 2025 10:15 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt share, Roy Kelley. This post is full of vivid moments that carry both challenge and joy 🙂. The way you’ve woven personal history into lessons of growth makes the story feel alive, and I’m grateful you took the time to put it out there.

Dec 12, 2025 11:42 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Roy, my brother was born with lazy eye and was operated on as a baby to correct it, but always wore glasses. Getting notice of twin sisters at a fire drill was unusual.

Dec 12, 2025 06:37 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Thank you for sharing more memories of early life. I enjoyed reading this.

Dec 13, 2025 05:16 AM