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The Christmas Tree Tells the Story

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The Christmas Tree Tells the Story

The Christmas tree has been so common in our society and its evolution dates back many years and to Europe or the Middle East depending on which story one chooses to believe, presuming one even cares.

Our trees have become the memories of the experiences together like mementoes from vacations and the photo gifts that were made into decorations from the young children in our life over the years. 

The nieces and nephews, my wife's children and the grandchildren as well.

Our tree is a testimonial to all the years together. To look at an ornament while putting them on the tree, while they are on the tree or when we take them down in January.

Each year brings new memories to add, and this year was no different.

 

 

I recently received a new gift. While it was sent as a reminder of a Zoom call, it carried a far deeper message when one looks at it.

Since 2017, I have engaged with people on ActiveRain. I have had the great opportunity to meet people that, were it not for the blog platform, I would possibly not know and some of these are as close as 20 miles, like George Souto .

When on vacations, I would reach out to members as well, so I do have special thoughts when I see the ornament that shows the Grand Canyon, as I also got to visit with Anna "Banana" Kruchten.

I have an ornament from Noth Carolina, yes, I had coffee with Debe Maxwell, CRS  and Nina Hollander, Broker

Can't even begin to enumerate the faces I laughed with when attending the Rain Camps., and the list goes on.

The Chicken, represents the Zoom call offered by Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! where she shared that the rubber chicken is one of Utah's greatest gifts to the world. I can squeeze it, and it will make a sound. Probably far different than one Wanda might make if I were to greet her in a hug of recognition.

Our tree has a lot of fond memories, and the chicken, although somewhat easy to ignore, represents almost 20 years of interaction with some of the finest real estate professionals in the country and by name recognition a smile to my face as well.

This is an 'Aha' moment that will stay with me as long as I can put up our tree, and even after as well. It is also, a post for the December Challenge hosted by Lew Corcoran  and Patricia Feager .

The Christmas Tree Tells the Story

 

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Edward (Ed) Silva

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Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Ed,

Love your Christmas tree story! I always love decorating my tree at the holidays..it's full of so many wonderful memories! I always have an aha moment when its finished! 🎄

Dec 15, 2025 10:12 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Dorie Dillard Austin TX   As we get older, items like this get more relevant

Dec 16, 2025 09:03 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Ed nice touch.  I had not thought about putting the one I received on my Christmas Tree.

Dec 15, 2025 10:28 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

See that George Souto  I can still come up with something clever

Dec 16, 2025 09:03 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt share, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 🙂. The way those ornaments carry stories of connection and laughter makes the tree feel alive, and I’m grateful you let us glimpse the meaning behind it. Thanks for reminding us how memories can shine brighter than the lights themselves!

Dec 15, 2025 10:32 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Lew Corcoran each year it takes longer to put the tree up as well as take it down for the thoughts that go around each ornament

Dec 16, 2025 09:05 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - As I was reading your story, "The Christmas Tree Tells the Story," I had tears of joy running down my cheeks. I wish I could have been more a part of ActiveRain and had memories like you have had. Clearly, you are a special Member here on ActiveRain who has seen, heard, and experienced more than I ever could. I really am proud to be able to read this entry for the December Challenge. 

Thank you, Ed. 

Dec 15, 2025 10:45 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Patricia Feager  You have always been here. I do recall some years back trying to reach out to you by phone, but you must have thought it was a crank call

Dec 16, 2025 09:07 AM
Patricia Feager

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - I finally returned your phone call! It was fun talking to you and I'm soooooooooooo happy I gave your wife some good ideas! Tell her, I like her too!

Merry Christmas to you and your family!

Dec 16, 2025 10:24 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

great information. Thanks for sharing it. Have a good week! Bill

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

#AZVHV / Arizona Veterans Helping Veterans

Dec 15, 2025 10:53 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Ed, I like how you capture the way a Christmas tree becomes a living scrapbook of family memories, each ornament telling its own story through the years.

Dec 15, 2025 11:54 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400  and for that reason it does take a while to put up as each ornament box as is own story

Dec 16, 2025 09:08 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754  I have always been grateful to have had the opportunity to meet you in person and on the blogging platform - Have a wonderful week ,Ed 

Dec 15, 2025 12:16 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Hannah Williams   as do I. Philadelphia Rain Camp and Dagny came down with me and then again at Atlantic City

Dec 16, 2025 09:09 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Ed, would be fun to meet up with you, and have stopped and met many along my travels.

Dec 15, 2025 01:22 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Joan Cox   Most likely. When Carol Williams  was doing here drive, I asked her to maybe come down a little further than she was thinking an arranged a luncheon with her and a few of the Rainers in CT

Dec 16, 2025 09:10 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, Ed!! I love this so much - and not just because you mentioned my name either!! This platform has been such a blessing to so many of us and I am so very thankful for our friendship. As Nina mentioned, it's time for you to head back to Charlotte! We need our CT hugs from you!!

Dec 15, 2025 03:17 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

And I agree whole heartedly, Debe Maxwell, CRS  and will try to do it in 2026 when we head south

Dec 16, 2025 09:12 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Ed, an excellent post.  I rarely fall on, visually, the same ornament twice, but never do I not sit and see a memory represented by an ornament.  m

Dec 15, 2025 03:30 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho   as we get older and the family matures, the memories seem to be stronger with the push of the ornaments

Dec 16, 2025 09:13 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Ed- I smiled the whole time while reading your post. You're absolutely right about the ornaments we have on our trees, and the stories they tell. Beautiful memories and reminders of friendships made. 

My chicken is in the arms of one of my big Santa on my dining room table. I hope he isn't worried that he'll be our main dish at Christmas!

Dec 15, 2025 06:48 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kathy Streib   Maybe the chicken will protect Santa?

Dec 16, 2025 09:14 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I always enjoy seeing people's Christmas trees and all of the memories that are displayed on it.

Dec 16, 2025 05:01 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Brian England  our tree is now downsized from the 10-footer we used to have

Dec 16, 2025 09:14 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I love the idea of putting the chicken on the tree! I'm going to have to do that also!

Dec 16, 2025 05:35 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kat Palmiotti   Just another share from ActiveRain

Dec 16, 2025 09:15 AM
L. Scott Ferguson
Ask4Ferguson - Your House-SOLD Name in Real Estate - West Palm Beach, FL
Sunny Florida Real Estate Professional

So true Ed, The Christmas tree gives houses great character and always tells a story. Since relocating to South Florida 11 years ago, I've gotten 'real' trees, at first because storage for an artificial is at a premium. And not I will ALWAYS get a real tree!

 

Happy Holidays!

 

Level 🆙 and Stay Uncommon

 

Coach Fergie

Dec 17, 2025 03:51 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

L. Scott Ferguson  In our current house, with a vaulted ceiling in the Great Room, we once had real trees and always better than a 10 Ft tree.

When the clean up started it took a while, and the tree had to be cut indoors to get out. (It always came in netted.

We now have a pre-lit 8' tree and with so many spare ornaments it only gets the biggest memories.

Dec 21, 2025 05:10 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

What a fun post! I love that your tree holds so many precious memories. Mine does too. So many old ornaments that have special meaning to me.

Dec 18, 2025 12:11 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Sharon Tara  The ornaments that show the youngsters through their various grades always take time to put up and away, and at times I catch a tear as well.

The vacation ornaments are similar.

Dec 21, 2025 05:11 AM
Sharon Tara

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754  Oh yes, I get very emotional over the memories those ornaments represent.

Dec 24, 2025 08:13 AM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Douglas Elliman Las Olas - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 what a nice touch to add the chicken to the tree.  I remember purging Christmas tree ornaments are my Mom passed away keeping only the ones that meant a great deal to me.  I knew with this passage there would no longer be family gathering together to celebrate.  

I agree with you about our Active Rain community.  Our weekly visits are special moments in time.

Dec 20, 2025 07:19 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Eileen Burns 954.483.3912  If the tree is full of special memories by family and fun events, then the chicken has a perfect spot as well.

Dec 21, 2025 05:13 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Dec 20, 2025 06:43 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kathy Streib  I am starting to see a pattern. Tease you at a Zoom call and then to get back you feature one of our posts

Dec 21, 2025 05:14 AM
Kathy Streib

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 so not true!!!!! LOL

Dec 21, 2025 06:58 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Ed - ActiveRain has provided you with more than another social media platform experience.    

Dec 21, 2025 06:23 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Michael Jacobs  with the waning of the job, it has been the only one that carries constant participation and smiles.

Dec 21, 2025 06:35 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I feel the same way about the AR Community and the friendships I have formed here. It's been a great place to learn and play. 

Your Christmas tree is beautiful - as are all the memories it holds in the ornaments that adorn it Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 

The chicken is a hoot!  What a great addition to the tree. 

Dec 21, 2025 10:04 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

How fun to include it in your tree, mine is lying next to my desk and when I need some light relief I give it a squeeze.

Dec 22, 2025 09:41 AM