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Motivational Monday…Your “Second” Life

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Motivational Monday…Your “Second” Life

 

Many posts talk about living in the moment…being present. Through their posts, Ron and Alexandra Seigel spoke often about this. With 2026 a few days away, our thoughts naturally focus on the coming year.  Business plans and goals for 2026 have been made.

This is a new-to-me quote that might strike a chord for you. 

 

Live as if you were living for the second time and as though you had acted wrongly the first time. 

Viktor E. Frankl

 

Life isn’t a dress rehearsal. What we do matters, because every action carries consequences—good and bad—so staying aware of our choices is important.

 

Learning from our previous actions and choices helps us make better choices. Don’t live your life on autopilot. 

 

And finally, grab every opportunity you can so that regret doesn’t become part of your vocabulary. 

 

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy. I agree that life is not a dress rehearsal. That being said I don't want to live as if my "first" life was somehow wrong. It was right for me. 

Dec 29, 2025 04:26 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker I understand what you're saying. There are many things I would change however all in all, it's been my life.

Dec 29, 2025 11:53 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib I don't know that I would change all that many things about my life... and certainly nothing major... otherwise my life today would not be what it is.

Dec 29, 2025 01:21 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Everyone has experienced some regrets in the past. Life is always in continuous change both based on external and internal elements. The ones with experience can make better choices. Not just a new year resolution but a conscious decision made as needed. Enjoy your day.

Dec 29, 2025 04:49 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin  life continues to change and hopefully, so do we.  

Dec 29, 2025 12:01 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Kathy, this is a thoughtful and grounding reminder as we stand at the edge of a new year. That quote encourages reflection without regret and invites intention into both our personal and professional choices. Your message about staying off autopilot and learning from past actions is especially timely as plans turn into practice. A strong way to frame motivation with purpose and awareness as we move into 2026.

Dec 29, 2025 05:03 AM
Kathy Streib

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 Sometimes we need to put our lives on autopilot to help us get through things. However not a way to live your life. 

Dec 29, 2025 12:03 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Kathy.  This is good advice to share.

Have an outstanding week.

Dec 29, 2025 05:05 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Roy Kelley I hope that you and Chef Dolores are having a nice and warm day.

Dec 29, 2025 12:05 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Life is so interesting! Once a moment is gone, it's gone and there is no redo! The only thing we can do is make future moments even better. 

Dec 29, 2025 05:24 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti Perfectly said!!!   We have to choose wisely. 

Dec 29, 2025 12:07 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It's always wise to make good choices since the choices we make will determine our future, and we often know where the choice is most likely to lead us, haha.

Dec 29, 2025 05:29 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England our actins have consequences. Unfortunately we may not realize the seriousness of those consequences until it's too late.

Dec 29, 2025 12:08 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

This reminds me of Lou Ludwig and that very last post he made. It was simply AMAZING. 

Dec 29, 2025 06:10 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I was thinking of him around the holidays. One of a kind.

Dec 29, 2025 12:09 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Hi Kathy Streib - we can all make better choices. Staying focused on good acts and behavior will surely bring happiness. 

Dec 29, 2025 07:31 AM
Kathy Streib

Patricia Feager I agree. Don't live your life on auto-pilot. 

Dec 29, 2025 12:10 PM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

ohhh, I like that!  

Live as if you were living for the second time and as though you had acted wrongly the first time. 

Viktor E. Frankl

Dec 29, 2025 08:29 AM
Kathy Streib

Kelly McGovern Thank you!!! Hope you had a good birthday celebration. 

Dec 29, 2025 12:10 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy we need to balance living in the moment with planning for the future.  What we do today has an impact on our future.

Dec 29, 2025 10:19 AM
Kathy Streib

George Souto that's not an easy thing to do, is it!!!  

Dec 29, 2025 12:11 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, not sure I want to live a second life, just get through this first life and have a great time while doing it!

Dec 29, 2025 11:59 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Kathy Streib  my motivation is a date on the golf courses in early February in South Carolina. When it comes time to say goodbye, my wish would be to think so what not I wish.

Dec 29, 2025 06:32 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

This reflection hits with a quiet truth that lingers, Kathy Streib, and it’s a good nudge to stay awake to the choices that shape our days 🙂. The reminder to treat each moment like a second chance feels grounding as we step into a new year, and I’m glad you shared it.

Dec 30, 2025 02:22 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Oh learning through our mistakes is so important! It makes all the difference!

Jan 01, 2026 09:54 AM