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Choosing Hope in the Space Between

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899

Viktor E. Frankl once wrote, “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

These words feel especially meaningful to me right now.

Radiation and chemotherapy are not choices I would have ever made, but how I meet each day is. In the space between appointments, side effects, uncertainty, and waiting, I am learning to pause. To breathe. To choose hope and faith over fear, gratitude over frustration, and trust over worry.

Some days that space is small. Other days it feels wide enough to hold courage, faith, and even moments of peace. I am discovering that while cancer has changed my routine, it has not taken away my ability to choose how I show up, to stay focused, to remain optimistic, and to believe deeply in healing and brighter days ahead.

As I venture into the new year, I carry this truth with me: growth doesn’t always come from ease, and freedom doesn’t mean the absence of hardship. Sometimes freedom is found in choosing hope anyway.

Thank you to everyone who continues to lift me with prayers, kindness, and encouragement. I feel them all, and they make that space between stimulus and response a little lighter, and a lot more powerful.

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Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

This is beautifully written and deeply moving. The way you describe choosing hope in the midst of uncertainty reflects real strength and grace. Holding space for faith, gratitude, and trust during such a challenging season is inspiring. Please know your words matter and your courage is felt. Continued prayers for healing, peace, and brighter days ahead.

Jan 05, 2026 05:15 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Viktor E. Frankl should know about hope and resolution.  He was resolved to stay alive during his horrendous treatment. A very appropriate quote by the way.  Prayers continue to go with you.  

Jan 05, 2026 05:16 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Dorie. Between stimulus and response man has the power to choose. Few choose wisely. You are truly one of the few. Believing in hope is more powerful than many ever experience. You are on that journey. My crystal ball, not used often, sees positive results.

Jan 05, 2026 05:21 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Dorie, I see strength, hope, and positive vibes on the horizon for you. Thinking of you and sending peaceful thoughts your way!

Jan 05, 2026 06:03 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

You will fight through it. I truly believe your prayers will be answered. You have more work to do.

Jan 05, 2026 06:10 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Dorie- I can't remember reading a more beautiful post.  You may not realize it but you have been a guiding light for many of us...showing your strength and sharing your journey with us. 

Jan 05, 2026 11:18 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dorie our growth in life often depends on the challenges and tests we face along the way.  There are times when I would exchange less growth for few challenges and tests.  I am confident that God is with you, and will see you through this latest challenge in your life.

Jan 05, 2026 02:06 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Dorie, sounds like you have a great attitude despite this awful disease.   Keep up the strength, you will get through this!

Jan 06, 2026 06:43 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I know that you will get through this, and you are constantly in my prayers!  I read a book by Viktor E. Frankl earlier this year, and it was quite powerful.

Jan 06, 2026 03:34 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Your words carry such calm strength, Dorie Dillard Austin TX, and the way you describe choosing hope in that quiet space between the hard moments feels both brave and deeply grounding 🙂 Thank you for sharing this perspective with such honesty, as it brings a gentle light to anyone walking through their own uncertain days.

Jan 06, 2026 05:41 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Jan 10, 2026 06:45 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Thinking of you and sending healing thoughts your way.

Jan 11, 2026 04:59 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Keep breathing. With each deep breath, may you exhale the cancer so that it no longer lives inside your body. Never give up hope. Keep fighting! The triumph will be worth it. 

Hugs,
Patricia

Jan 11, 2026 11:35 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Praying that you get to better health, Dorie. (((Virtual HUGS)))

Jan 11, 2026 05:22 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
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Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Facing each day, even when it’s challenging, takes real strength. I’m thinking of you and cheering you on. Your strength shines through in everything you say. Keep it up! You are very special to so many. With love and admiration.

Jan 11, 2026 09:54 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Holding you tightly, Dorie. I will be in Houston this week and will be thinking of you and your continued journey.

Jan 12, 2026 09:31 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

There isa lot of doom and gloomto go around, but I think sentence is too easy. I think a lot of the time we give up before the end and before we realize we can do a lot of good. :)

Jan 12, 2026 03:24 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Breathe, know you are going to get to the other side of this mountain Dorie Dillard Austin TX. Serving up a bowl of hot goodness.

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Jan 16, 2026 08:45 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I have a friend where that is resonating with this s Sentiment As well and there’s something about it in fine joy in the space between that brings you a little bit more to life I think..

Jan 31, 2026 10:12 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Thank you for giving so much of yourself in that post and being so honest the meaning is not lost on me and I truly appreciate you , Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Jan 31, 2026 10:56 PM