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Just because you are right,  doesn’t mean the other person is wrong.

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Real Estate Agent with Sandpoint Realty rain@lakeandhomes.com AB36782

Just because you are right,  doesn’t mean the other person is wrong.

In a world where everyone is talking, few people are truly listening.

Two people stand on opposite sides of a number. One sees a six. The other sees a nine. And both are absolutely convinced they are right.

And the truth is…
They are.

From their perspective.

So often in life — whether in family, friendships, business, or even everyday conversations — disagreements don’t come from bad intentions. They come from different angles, different experiences, and different truths.

We See Through the Lens of Our Story

Every person you meet has walked a path you haven’t.

Their beliefs, fears, reactions, and decisions are shaped by:
• Childhood experiences
• Culture and environment
• Successes and mistakes
• Wounds and healing
• What life has demanded they learn

So while you may see something clearly from where you stand…
Someone else may be standing in a completely different place.

And from there, the view changes.

Being Right Isn’t the Goal

So many conflicts escalate not because the issue is big — but because the need to be right becomes bigger than the need to understand.

But what if the goal was not to win?

What if the goal was:
✔ Respect
✔ Curiosity
✔ Understanding
✔ Connection

What if we could say…

“I still see it differently —
but now I understand how you got there.”

Perspective Doesn’t Cancel Truth

Recognizing different perspectives doesn’t mean truth doesn’t exist.

It simply means:
• There’s more than one layer
• More than one angle
• More than one experience shaping reality

 

 

Just because you are right

doesn’t mean the other person is wrong.

Sometimes…

You just haven’t seen life from their angle.

Posted by

Rain Silverhawk

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rain@lakeandhomes.com
Rain Silverhawk Realtor
Sandpoint Realty LLC
1205 Hwy 2 STE 203 B |  Sandpoint, ID. 83864
Phone (208)  610-0011  

 

Comments(18)

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Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

Rain Silverhawk I love this post!  I often say that just because it's the way you do something doesn't mean it's the only way to do it.  Your post dives deeper into this perspective, and it’s absolutely spot on!

Jan 12, 2026 08:16 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Rain Silverhawk - I wish this one post of yours was FEATURED. There is someone who could really benefit by it. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:36 AM

Hello Rain and what a great blog and good points to share with us again in the Rain.  Keep the great blogs coming!  Can I reblog it later this week?

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GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

good post with great information. Thanks for sharing it. Bill

Have a fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Jan 12, 2026 10:54 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Rain - so true and it's an ongoing discussion.  

Carol Williams - a SCS Second Chance Saturday suggestion.  

Jan 12, 2026 11:06 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Rain Silverhawk   people get so fixed in their ways that it's like have on blinders. When they remove the blinders, the view shows options that they had closed to their mind. Good post.

Jan 12, 2026 04:52 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Well said Rain, "Meet me in the Middle" or "Your Big Reason is NOT my  Big Reason" or "Can't we all just get along"?

Jan 12, 2026 05:03 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

There are always two sides to a story, and it's often the case where it is difficult to see things from someone else's perspective.

Jan 13, 2026 04:38 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I totally agree with you! Both people can be right, based on their viewpoints and experiences. Listening to understand is critical.

Carol Williams - suggestion for Second Chance Saturday.

Jan 13, 2026 05:02 AM
Rain Silverhawk
Sandpoint Realty rain@lakeandhomes.com - Sandpoint, ID
208-610-0011 Sandpoint Idaho Real Estate Realtor

Listening is becoming a lost art

Jan 14, 2026 10:37 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Rain a long time ago I realized I always viewed every conversation as a competition to be won. When i saw this and changed, it made a big difference. I could listen without interrupting and actually understand what people were saying. I am still working on my active listening skills but I think that will be a lifelong study.

Jan 16, 2026 10:02 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Rain Silverhawk when two people cannot come to a meeting of the minds, there is nothing wrong with walking away agreeing to disagree.  However, many times they don't and arguments escalate and friendship are ended. 

Jan 16, 2026 02:52 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Jan 17, 2026 06:27 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Rain. You nailed it. Seek first to understand then to be understood while agreeing to disagree without being disagreeable. Many should attempt to learn the lesson. Enjoy your day.

Jan 18, 2026 05:20 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

I do like your post Rain Silverhawk although I am not in total agreement as it gives the impression that everybody is right just because they think they are right. I am glad that Kathy Streib featured your post today.

Jan 18, 2026 10:13 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I know someone who says that the only way to be right is to be  willing to be wrong and I like that one..

Jan 18, 2026 09:06 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

This is a fantastic post. I’ve spent the weekend with family whom I love dearly, but boy did I need a break last night! I will hold onto this post in my mind and I thank you.

Jan 19, 2026 04:55 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Rain Silverhawk  Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and it is really not a good idea to argue over these issues.. They bear no fruit - 

Jan 19, 2026 07:24 AM