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Motivational Monday - Prevent House Fires

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Real Estate Agent with Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

Journal Entry for Monday 1/12/2026

I woke up very early this morning. The first thought that came to my mind was that 2026 means I am not the only one who will be one year older. My house will also be one year older! So, I jumped out of bed and got to work asking Gemini ai to create an image for me to remind homeowners to take action to prevent house fires.

Never Assume It Can't Happen to You

I survived several house fires, including a hotel fire. Each fire was tragic and traumatizing. May you never have to experience a building fire. Never put off doing something today, until tomorrow - for tomorrow may be too late. 

Action Items You Can Take the Sooner the Better

The Action items in the image are a good start to take action. Heating and Air Conditioning systems should always be checked on an annual basis. I get my HVAC inspected in both Spring and Fall

You don't have to wait until you're ready to list your home for sale. As long as you have home ownership, take responsibility to have your home inspected by a licensed Home Inspector. If you purchased your home in recent years, you may contact the same Inspector you hired previously and ask if there are any new safety codes that didn't exist at the time you purchased your home. Or ask your Real Estate Agent if they have any contacts. 

Do your children know what to do in case of a fire if you're not there? My house caught fire in January 1994 on the day my son was home from school on Martin Luther King's National Holiday. He saved the dog and my canary and got out of the house immediately. Then he went to our neighbor's house to use their phone to call the Fire Department, the electric company and gas company to shut the power off, giving them the reason why, before calling me at work. We were living in Illinois at the time. The weather was freezing cold below zero. The roads I drove on were icy and dangerous. 

Do You Know If You Paid Your Insurance Premium

I called my mine, and luckily, my policy did not lapse. But at that time, I did not know what type of coverage I had in case of a fire. My wish for everyone is to read your policy before you're in an emergency. 

How The Last Fire Occurred

The house I had was built in 1972. It had aluminum wiring, which isn't used in construction today. My son and I were displaced, our pets were too. At that time, it was very difficult to find a hotel that accepted pets. Beggers can't be choosy. 

The Hardest Part For Me

My daughter was away at school, and my son still had to attend our local high school. It was the policy for the Fire Marshall to determine the cause of fire. No payments would be issued until the claims were paid and my house was rebuilt. That took a long time. We had no clothes, shoes, or any winter clothing.

Trying to remember what I had and prove its value at a time when I did not have a video camera and had no access to my property while it was boarded up was very stressful. When you lose everything, you also lose things you don't remember you had. We take so many things for granted.

Life & Expenses Goes On

I still had to pay my insurance premiums even when I didn't live there. The utility companies switched my services to a Vacation plan to reduce the cost and keep my services from being shut off. I still had to pay for my daughter's out of state school tuition and for school expenses for my son. I did not make much money. My employer did not gift me any money or increase my wages. Therefore, I took a second job working for an Italian Pizza Place after working full time at night. I had to pay for a uniform and special shoes, so I didn't slip and fall. 

If you're lucky, only you can prevent house fires and train your children too. 

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. As we age the need for a minimum of an annual checkup is necessary. As your house ages it has things that wear out also. What's good for you sis good for your home. Enjoy your day.

Jan 12, 2026 04:36 AM
Patricia Feager

Wayne Martin - Absolutely! As our homes age, parts wear out. We should plan ahead before something like the Water Heater goes out in the middle of winter. 

I already had my annual physical on January 5th. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:08 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Preventative maintenance is the best way to go, and it more often than not saves homeowners a lot of money, haha.

Jan 12, 2026 04:38 AM
Patricia Feager

Brian England - True! When the homeowner calls out for an emergency repair, it's already too late and more costly too. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:08 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Patricia... I've know people who have survived fires of all sorts. But I've never known any who has survived as many fires as you have. Your stories underscore why (a) it's important to know about electrical and fire risks in a home before you buy and (b) how critical preventative maintenance could be.

Jan 12, 2026 04:45 AM
Patricia Feager

Nina Hollander, Broker - thanks for remembering I am an advocate for preventing fires. Homeowners need to have plenty of funds for home emergency repairs. In TX, the last time I had hail damage, the roofer came out, and the adjuster came to inspect on the same day. Once the hail damage was documented, and before the roofer could start, I had to pay my deductible beforehand. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:12 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I had clients whose house went up in a fire - they lost everything including their cats. It was so sad. Luckily their insurance company was able to cover a home rental for a period of time (I don't remember how long it was), and a local charity gave the entire family tons of clothes and other items. 

Making sure our homes are as fireproof as possible is so important!

Jan 12, 2026 05:43 AM
Patricia Feager

Kat Palmiotti - Losing pets is very stressful on homeowners. I was very glad my son handled everything. By the time I got home (by then the streets & weather was worse), the Firefighters had finished putting out the fire and waited until I got home. Of course, I did not have a cell phone in January 1994. 

The chief let me enter with him, for just a few minutes - just a peak. I didn't even recognize my house. It was such a devasting and haunting experience. The next day, it literally made me sick. The house was boarded up, there was tape around my house with do not enter or trespass signs, and there was a giant dumpster on my front lawn. 

I can't stress enough; how important it is to prevent fires. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:18 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This blog post is a good reminder for all of  us.

This week in Maryland:

The Montgomery County fire.

Jan 12, 2026 05:46 AM
Patricia Feager

Roy Kelley - Seeing your home burned down is a devastating experience for you, your family, and the neighbors. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:19 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Patricia, 
Wow, you've survived several fires?  

Your experience is sobering. While I have never personally experienced a house fire, a close friend of mine did several years ago, and I am convinced she still carries PTSD from it. Even now, certain smells, alarms, or unexpected sounds can take her right back to that moment. Reading your story made me think of her immediately.

What you describe goes far beyond the fire itself. It is the disruption, the waiting, the uncertainty, and the financial and emotional strain that linger long after the flames are gone. Losing your sense of safety, especially in your own home, changes you. The way your son handled that day speaks volumes about his strength and your parenting, but it also underscores how much responsibility and fear can be placed on children in moments like that.

Your reminders about prevention, preparation, insurance, and inspections are not just practical advice, they are hard-earned wisdom. People often think of fires as a single event, but you have shown how life and expenses continue regardless, and how exhausting it is to rebuild while trying to keep a family functioning. It is a long process financially and emotionally. 

 

 

Jan 12, 2026 06:24 AM
Patricia Feager

Carol Williams - Amen. 

Going through difficult times was a challenge for sure and what I didn't know at the time, was both of my kids were observing how I handled though times. And they weren't the only ones. 

During more recent years, my kids shared how strong and capable I was going through tense times. I am thankful they shared the lessons they learned from watching me. Hearing my kids tell me, how proud they were of me, as they grew up and how it helped them to problem-solve continues to be the greatest feedback I ever receive from my daughter and son.  

Jan 12, 2026 09:01 AM
Patricia Feager

Carol Williams - thank you for having a better grasp of what I went through. At that time, I was widowed and had to make really, really tough decisions. Being left with nothing but the clothes on my back and the same dress shoes I wore to work that morning was bone chilling. My son's friends mother gave him temporary clothes because her son and mine were friends, about the same age and size.  The weather was mild when I left home. When I arrived at the scene the weather changed significantly. I was shaking from cold, fear, and shock. The Fire Captain knew me. If he didn't put his arms around me, and held me up on my feet, I probably would have collapsed on the street. There was no place to park. my street was blocked off. My son stayed at his friend's house. I didn't have anywhere to go. It was the loneliest feeling I ever felt. I thought my head was going to pop off my neck. All that kept me going, was knowing, I can't let my children be without two parents. I had no choice but to pull myself together for their sake.  

This is the month of January. The same month that terrible fire occurred. I think of it every year. I am reminded. And I thank God we survived, and I did my duty to keep things together without falling apart. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:30 AM
Carol Williams

Patricia Feager 
When we look back on some of the things we survived and dealt with, it's amazing. The saying is so true, thatwe don't know how strong we are until we're in the fight for survival. 

Jan 12, 2026 08:52 AM
Carol Williams

Patricia Feager 
I think kids are more observant than we give them credit for. It must be very heartwarming to know they were aware of and appreciate what you went through to protect and provide for your family. 

Jan 12, 2026 09:21 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Patricia and fires are so bad and wish them on no one.  I had a friend that lost his house and we let them move in with us till they purchase another one.

 

Jan 12, 2026 10:47 AM
Patricia Feager

Will Hamm - Your friend must have really appreciated your kindness. Having house fire is very hard to cope with. 

Jan 12, 2026 12:44 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a powerful reminder to stay alert and take care of the things we often overlook, Patricia Feager. Your story brings that message home in a way that sticks with you. The insight you shared about preparation, family awareness, and the real weight of recovery adds so much heart to the lesson, and I’m grateful you put it out there for all of us to think about. Thanks for sharing something that matters so much and could help someone stay safe 🙂

Jan 12, 2026 01:43 PM
Patricia Feager

Lew Corcoran - People need to know, a home insurance policy does not provide 100% protection. Home ownership is the owner's responsibility. When the aftermath of the destruction is over, the recovery process is a long and winding road. Some never recover. 

The premise here is to share information that hopefully others can benefit by. At the time of my tragedy, I did not have Salvation Army, Catholic Charities, Consoling, or community help. Everyone's experience is different. 

Jan 12, 2026 03:28 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia I have never been involved in a house fire, and hope I never am.

Jan 12, 2026 02:11 PM
Patricia Feager

George Souto - may you be protected from fires and tragedy living a long and healthy life. 

Jan 12, 2026 03:23 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Patricia, cannot imagine having ONE house fire, let alone several, and live to talk about it!

Jan 12, 2026 03:30 PM
Patricia Feager

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner - I was very young when the house I grew up in was struck by lightning during an electrical storm. When it happened, my parents did not panic. They made sure my siblings and I were okay and got us to safety. Don't panic. That was my first important lesson followed by getting to safety. 

Jan 12, 2026 03:41 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Patricia- I've been through countless hurricanes and tornadoes and what I fear more than that is a house fire. Our friends house burned when we were in Delray Beach. Thankfully everyone got out safely. They rented a home while theirs was being rebuilt. They thought it might have been due to an older fluorescent light fixture. 

It's good to have important information backed up to the clouds and even an off-site place like a good friend or relative's. 

Jan 16, 2026 06:26 PM