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The Market Said, "NO."

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

The Market Said, "NO."

 

After getting my real estate license to practice, uncertainty for how to navigate the industry in real life, outside the classroom became overwhelming. 

 

At first:

I asked the market to remove my fear.
  It said, “No. You must do that by pushing through.”


I asked for an easy-peasy, risk-free, first sales deal.
  It said, “No. Value comes from seeing what others might miss.”


I asked to avoid any financial losses or time-wasters.
  It said, “No. Setbacks teach due diligence and resilience.”


I asked for an instant pipeline of serious clients.
  It said, “No. They're earned by using proven systems.”


I asked for growth without receiving another lesson.
  It said, “No. Learn through cycles, it makes you stronger.”


I asked for patience in the slower months.
  It said, “No. It’s formed through discipline and good habits.”


I asked for confidence and success.
  It said, “No. They are earned, one smart move at a time.”


Finally:

I asked to build real prosperity and the freedom to choose.
  The market said, “Now you finally get it.”

I learned to follow the 4-corners of the contract, to be intentional in my methods, that markets are cyclical, constantly evolving and that change is inevitable. 

 

Then it said:

•  Keep showing up. 

•  Keep learning. 

•  Keep moving forward.

 

Tenacity rewards those of us who grow into professionals, capable of gaining success through personal/professional development. We persevere and build wealth through effort, learning and one good decision after another.

 

When the answer is NO, stop asking and start doing. Like I did.

 

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Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

BINGO! 

Jan 19, 2026 09:00 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Wanda, this is a strong and honest reflection on what real growth in this business actually looks like. I appreciate how you framed the market as a teacher rather than an obstacle. The progression from asking to doing is something every successful professional recognizes eventually. Your emphasis on discipline systems contracts and consistency rings true. Tenacity paired with intention is what separates those who stay from those who fade. Well said and earned the hard way.

Jan 19, 2026 09:00 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Happy Monday Wanda and I agree with your three things.  •  Keep showing up. 

•  Keep learning.   •  Keep moving forward.  works for me. Make it a great week.

 

Jan 19, 2026 09:03 AM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

Hard work and dedication are what make someone an excellent agent, not the advantages they’re handed over.  Very good!

Jan 19, 2026 09:26 AM
Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
Luxury service in Central Maryland

Love this, Wanda! 💛 Such a great reminder that growth and success come from showing up, learning, and pushing through—even when the market says “no.”

Jan 19, 2026 09:59 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! there are no guarantees in the market, but it is fair and treats everyone equally. 

Jan 19, 2026 10:34 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

 great information. Thanks for sharing it. Have a good week! Bill 

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

#AZVHV / Arizona Veterans Helping Veterans

Jan 19, 2026 12:28 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

HI Wanda- while reading your post, I was reminded of 2008 when I met agents who had been in the boom market. Then the market tanked. Those who did not follow what you wrote about, were soon out of the business. 

Jan 19, 2026 05:48 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thank you, Carol Williams!

Jan 19, 2026 06:47 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Have enjoyed the journey, though I could have learned fewer lessons that were caused by other people in the industry, Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518!

Jan 19, 2026 06:48 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Long-term success depends on those things, Will Hamm.

Jan 19, 2026 07:03 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

An agent receiving the book of business from a successful parent does not equate to instant success, Kelly McGovern. The motivation and work ethic might be lacking!

Jan 19, 2026 07:05 PM
Kelly McGovern

So true Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! 

Jan 20, 2026 06:58 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

No means, not now, Ellie McIntire. It's up to us to stay the course toward success!

Jan 19, 2026 07:06 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Exactly, George Souto! The market is an equal opportunity when everyone follows the rules and laws of the industry.

Jan 19, 2026 07:07 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thank you, Bill.

Jan 19, 2026 07:08 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Starting out when the market was free-falling helped me learn the industry through and through, Kathy Streib.

Not everyone was so lucky!

Jan 19, 2026 07:10 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Tenacity and perseverance are winning attributes!

Jan 20, 2026 05:19 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Actions speak louder than words!  We can ask all we want, but until we start doing, we won't have success, haha.

Jan 20, 2026 05:45 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Both can serve a professional well, Kat Palmiotti!

Jan 22, 2026 12:55 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

A dream is just that, until set in motion with sincere follow through, Brian England

Jan 22, 2026 12:56 PM