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Gratitude & Thankfulness: A Tribute to Debe Maxwell

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Real Estate Agent with Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

February 2026 - AR Member Appreciation Month

Just as we cannot see our own faces without looking in a mirror, we cannot truly understand how others perceive us unless we receive appreciation. Debe Maxwell, CRS, your actions and the energy you bring to our space on ActiveRain generate good karma and positivity that ripple outward, touching others in ways you may not always realize. This is why I am taking this moment to express my heartfelt gratitude and to proclaim – THANK YOU! This is a tribute to you for your inspiring leadership. It is and entry for the February Challenge.

From the instant we met in person when you flew to Dallas for the CRS Conference, I sensed an aura of peace and understanding surrounding you. Your genuine smile and the way you treat everyone are truly infectious. Whether or not an angel resides within you is irrelevant; what matters is the unmistakable air of kindness and goodness you exude, which goes far beyond simple politeness.

Being part of ActiveRain has been a privilege, and your positive influence has been a significant reason for my gratitude. I had always suspected you were attuned to the inner workings of ActiveRain, but it was only after reading Alan May's formal appreciation and gratitude blog post about you that I realized the full extent of your impact. Balancing so many responsibilities is no easy task, but your father's military background's influence on you, your Team Spirit from playing sports as a young teenager, and your personal business skills makes it appear effortless to those on the outside. Reading Alan’s words was a moment of clarity - it revealed just how dedicated you are to improving ActiveRain, not for personal gain, but for the collective benefit of the entire organization. For you, it’s not about topping the leaderboard; it’s about valuing people above all else.

Thank you for providing the framework that supports ActiveRain, and for your tireless work behind the scenes to help each of us develop both professionally and personally. Creating Zoom meetings during the worst years of Covid helped lift many in their darkest days. Your core values are contagious and set you apart, spreading positivity both in person and throughout the ActiveRain community. There is something truly special about your presence, which leads me to believe that angels do indeed walk among us.


 

One of the qualities I most admire in you is your ability to facilitate communication and the sharing of best practices. You champion positivity and foster an environment where kindness prevails over criticism or rudeness. You exemplify the belief that no one has the right to judge others; instead, we are here to help one another, not to cause harm.

Your approach reminds me of a lesson I learned as a freshman in high school, while reading “Black Like Me” by John Howard Griffin. The book taught me that regardless of our backgrounds—whether black or white, wealthy or poor, able-bodied or disabled—we can never fully understand someone else’s experience unless we metaphorically walk in their shoes. True empathy arises from seeing the world through another’s eyes, and this understanding is at the heart of your leadership.

Our core values are the bedrock upon which positive results are built. They are the embedded behaviors that drive high performance and foster a sense of belonging and growth within our community. Debe, through your example, you have shown that these values are not just words. They are actions, lived every day for the benefit of all. 

Debe, thank you for being a guiding light, for your unwavering commitment, and for the positive influence you bring to the lives of so many. Your kindness, empathy, and leadership are deeply appreciated, and your impact will continue to inspire those around you for years to come.

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Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home again, home again...

Hear, Hear!!  [cue: thunderous applause!!]

Feb 06, 2026 04:04 AM
Patricia Feager

Alan May - out of the coldest winter and quietest days thunderous applause are just a small way to appreciate the beauty and strength of a true leader. 

Feb 06, 2026 04:14 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Thank you both, so very much, Patricia Feager & Alan May! I love you both!

Feb 06, 2026 09:16 PM
Patricia Feager

Love you too Debe Maxwell, CRS - you're definitely a class act with the best heart and soul!

Feb 07, 2026 11:23 AM
Alan May

I don't know how I deserve a thank you, here, but I graciously accept.

Feb 15, 2026 04:40 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I have met Debe Maxwell, CRS in person as well, and all that you say about her in this post is certainly true!  She is such a wonderful woman!

Feb 06, 2026 04:36 AM
Patricia Feager

Brian England - Debe is a role model who actively participates for the greater good of all on ActiveRain. Thank you for the endorsement. 

Feb 06, 2026 04:46 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Thank you so much, Brian England! I have loved seeing you when I go to Vegas! Can’t wait for the next ‘meet-up!'

Feb 06, 2026 09:17 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

How wonderful! Debe deserves tons of accolades - she truly has made quite an impact here, hasn't she?

Feb 06, 2026 05:09 AM
Patricia Feager

Some names become household names that you never forget, like Debe Maxwell, CRS and Kat Palmiotti!  Debe deserves "tons of accolades," and more blessings for all the work she does or has done for patients, Ray, agents in her Brokerage, her volunteer work, and all the things she does behind the scenes for ActiveRain. I'm convinced, she lives her life with passion. 

Thanks, Kat!

Feb 06, 2026 10:06 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Thank you both, Kat Palmiotti and Patricia Feager! Have I told you I love you lately?!!

Feb 06, 2026 09:17 PM
Patricia Feager

Debe Maxwell, CRS - love you more than counting pennies, eating ice cream, and making wishes! You're the BEST!

Feb 07, 2026 11:25 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Friday morning, Patricia. Thank you very much for this well deserved tribute. Debe is a very special lady.

Feb 06, 2026 06:38 AM
Patricia Feager

Roy Kelley - your acknowledgement is greatly appreciated. 

Debe sure is a "very special lady!"

Feb 06, 2026 10:08 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

WOW! Thank you again, Roy Kelley! 😘

Feb 06, 2026 09:18 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Patricia,
You know I agree with you 100% !

Feb 06, 2026 06:44 AM
Patricia Feager

Carol Williams - Yes! We agree and so do the majority of members on ActiveRain!

I appreciate your comment!!!

Feb 06, 2026 10:08 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Okay, so I know you know, I love and adore you, Miss Carol Williams! Thank you so much for your kind words!

Feb 06, 2026 09:19 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia I have been fortunate to have met Debe several years ago at a MeetUp in Boston.  So, I know first-hand that Debe is as genuine and welcoming in person as she is in the Rain.

Feb 06, 2026 02:51 PM
Patricia Feager

George Souto - Debe Maxwell, CRS, is a mover and a shaker! She has traveled extensively for business and pleasure. To meet her in person is better than taking one of those tourists' tours. I had the good fortune to meet her when she came to Dallas a few years ago. She consistently demonstrates leadership in performance and her circle of friends continues to grow wider. We are so fortunate she stayed on AR and continues to support us too. 

Feb 06, 2026 03:48 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

And, you are exactly who you appear to be here too, George Souto. Isn’t it nice to meet others from the Rain and realize they are genuine? It was such a pleasure meeting you and I hope to see you on the west coast at some point in the future too!! 😉

Feb 06, 2026 09:20 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Patricia, Oh my gosh, I hardly know where to begin. Your words left me deeply moved and incredibly grateful. It’s not easy to see ourselves through someone else’s eyes and your generosity in sharing how you perceive me is both humbling and heart-warming.

Meeting you in Dallas was SUCH a joy and getting to know you through ActiveRain has been an even greater gift. This community means so much to me because of people like YOU—professionals who show up every day, with open minds, kind hearts and a genuine desire to lift one another up.

If I’ve helped create space for connection, encouragement and collaboration, it’s only because so many others, including you, bring that same spirit. ActiveRain has always felt less like a platform and more like a community of colleagues and friends who choose support over competition and kindness over criticism.

The Zoom calls, the conversations, the sharing of ideas and experiences - those moments carried many of us through challenging times, including me. The truth is, I receive far more than I give and friendships like yours are a HUGE part of that.

Thank you for your beautiful words, your friendship and the incredible positivity you share, ever so freely. I am so very grateful to walk this journey alongside you and so many others who make this community what it is and believe me, I’m enjoying this journey immensely.

 

With sincere, heartfelt appreciation, Patricia. 😘

Feb 06, 2026 09:15 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt tribute, Patricia Feager. The way you wove those moments and insights together made the whole piece feel warm and true, and it’s clear how much thought went into every line. Thanks for sharing something that lifts the spirit and reminds us why this community matters so much.

Feb 14, 2026 04:33 PM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Douglas Elliman Las Olas - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

The leader of the pack often times sees herself as just a community member who participates.  Others see differently my friend

Feb 15, 2026 07:36 AM
Patricia Feager

Thanks for our comment, Eileen Burns 954.483.3912 - the best leaders are humble, community-minded, and never boast about their leadership. They focus on the work, and not the title or the role. 

Debe Maxwell, CRS has a very cohesive Team on Zoom.  You all work very well together, including the Team Members behind the scenes. I am very grateful for all of you! For me, it's an honor to sit in on a Zoom session to listen and learn. 

Feb 15, 2026 08:36 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Aww thank you, Eileen and thank you for all you do for our Zoom community. You are amazing!  😻 

We love having you on our calls, Patricia.  You always bring a very valuable tidbit of information too. 

Love you ladies— Patricia Feager and Eileen Burns 954.483.3912

Feb 15, 2026 08:56 AM