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The Guys Who Show UP- February Challenge

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The Guys Who Show Up

One of the things I love most about the ActiveRain community is the interaction.

We write.
We share.
And when we’re lucky, someone takes the time to read and respond.

For this month’s challenge, hosted by Patricia and Lew, I'm sharing appreciation for a member (or members) in good standing. I decided to look back not at one post, but at the last 2 dozen of my recent daily blog posts. I wasn’t looking for perfection or “every single day” participation. I was looking for consistency.

What I noticed made me smile.

The same group of names kept appearing, not on every post, but frequently enough that their presence stood out. These are the people who quietly, reliably show up.

So today, I want to say thank you to this group of guys! 

 

George Souto, Ed Silva, Lew, Brian, Roy, Wayne Martin, Will, Jeff M, Nick, Michael J, John Pusa, and Sham. Note: links in comments.

Thanks, guys!

 

Many others comment on my posts, and I deeply appreciate them. But I realized that lately, many of the appreciation posts I’ve read have highlighted women, and I thought this might be a different, and equally important, way to spin the contest.

Here’s the thing:

When I write a post in the evening and start my day by reading comments the next morning, it sets the tone for my day. It tells me someone was there. Someone read. Someone cared enough to respond.

And for anyone who may not realize it, your comments truly matter to the blogger. They encourage us. They connect us. They remind us that this community is more than just posts on a screen.

Commenting may seem like a small thing, but to the person who took the time to write the post, it’s not small at all.

So, to the guys who consistently show up, engage, and contribute to the conversation, thank you. Your presence makes a difference.

“A comment may take a minute to write, but it can brighten someone’s entire day.”

Posted by

Margaret Rome
HomeRome Realty
Broker/Owner/Realtor®

Baltimore, Maryland


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Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Sham Reddy CRS 

Wayne Martin's Blog

Feb 10, 2026 05:53 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Margaret, you said it all. Commenting lets us know that someone took the time to read what you wrote and offer a comment. And YES to all of our ActiveRain gentlemen here!!!

Feb 10, 2026 07:25 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Me too Kathy Streib ?????

Feb 11, 2026 05:21 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good morning, Kathy Streib. Love that Brian chose you for his amazing person!

Feb 11, 2026 08:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 Sorry to be late to respong...I was washing my hair...OF COURSE YOU. 

Feb 11, 2026 07:47 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Kathy Streib   

And that comment may take a minute to write, but it can brighten someone’s entire day! 

Feb 10, 2026 07:34 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 - it's interesting in the real estate industry, one may think it's all about the numbers, statistics, negotiations, and competition to get the most sales. However, looking back at each individual's journey on ActiveRain, it's about the people who show up consistently, and continue to advocate for others that are the true treasures. Consistently showing up and providing feedback is paramount for mutual respect and building trust. 

Thank you for another entry. 

Feb 10, 2026 10:22 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

And thank you, Patricia Feager , for hosting such a positive February challenge!

Feb 11, 2026 08:05 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I always appreciate the people who show up as well, and those are the people whose posts I comment on daily, haha.  If people aren't commenting on my posts, I stop commenting on theirs because I figure that they don't want to interact and just want to blog.  I support those who support me, and that doesn't mean they have to comment on every single one of my posts, but like you have stated, they have to at least show up once in a while, haha.  If someone comments on at least one of my posts each week, that's enough for me to fully support their blog in return, haha.  Since we don't seem to get SEO from the Rain anymore, I am here to connect and get to know others, so if they aren't willing to take time, interact, and get to know me, I move on, haha.

Feb 11, 2026 04:40 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brian England

And thank you for being one of the guys who show up!!

Feb 11, 2026 08:09 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Good Morning Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400   sorry it took so long to respond, but I needed to get the night out of my eyes. Thank you for thinking of me with the rest of the 'guys'

I'm recalling the Rain Camp at Gallatin college in DC and your presence on the panel and a brief conversation I had with after

Feb 11, 2026 05:19 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

My goodness, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754, you have a fantastic memory.

Feb 11, 2026 08:10 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good morning! Great way to address this contest - you are correct! When people authentically support our posts, we notice!

Feb 11, 2026 05:25 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kat Palmiotti

With all the wonderful people on this platform, it is pretty impossible to choose just one!

Feb 11, 2026 08:12 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Thank you Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 always enjoy reading your posts, I just have to uncover them sometimes as I read most posts in the morning, and if there have been a lot of posts I miss many people I follow due to when they posted.

Feb 11, 2026 07:21 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Wednesday morning, Margaret. Thanks for including my name on your list.

I hope all is going well for you this week.

Feb 11, 2026 08:05 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good morning

Roy Kelley

Enjoy this "warm" Maryland day surrounded by snow-crete!

Feb 11, 2026 08:54 AM
Roy Kelley

Take care and be safe if you must be out and about.

Feb 11, 2026 09:10 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Margaret, thank you for including my name in the group of guy, I wonder if I would of made the list.  So Thank You!

Feb 11, 2026 08:07 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good morning, Will Hamm. No reason to wonder, I always appreciate you taking the time to comment on my posts!

Feb 11, 2026 08:50 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543

I am so pleased whenever you leave a comment, always kind, with a fun sense of humor. This is from the CIT.

Feb 11, 2026 08:14 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Hi Margaret. Me a Bright Light? Well, thank you but your light shines brighter... keep on posting in the Rain. Jeff 😊

Feb 11, 2026 09:02 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI

Yes, you are a bright light, and your comments and posts continue to shine. 

Feb 11, 2026 10:32 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a thoughtful post, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400. The way you highlighted the quiet consistency behind those daily comments really struck a chord, and it’s a great reminder of how much these small gestures lift the whole community. Thanks for sharing something that feels so genuine and keeps the spirit of this place alive.

Feb 11, 2026 11:09 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

And thank you, Lew Corcoran, for hosting this challenge and allowing highlights on many other ActiveRain members

 

Feb 11, 2026 11:16 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret thank you for including me in your list.  I comment on your blogs for a number of reasons, among which is you ALWAYS blog about something that is worth my time to read, so your blogs are valuable to me.  Second, I consider you a friend, and I always support my friends.  And third, but not least you are someone whose  knowledge, experience, professionalism, and opinion I value and respect.

Feb 11, 2026 01:27 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

George Souto, Thank you for everything, but most importantly, your friendship.

Feb 12, 2026 09:30 AM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

Your list of people is the same as the ones I consistently notice too. I enjoy reading comments, especially when they bring up a point I hadn’t considered or offer a valid extension of my topic. I’ve learned so much from everyone.

Feb 11, 2026 01:38 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kelly McGovern

Meaningful comments can and do enhance our blogs. Sometimes they are even better than the original article. They can take on a life of their own. Does anyone remember the fun we had hijacking posts?

Feb 12, 2026 09:33 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Margaret,
We have a lot of great guys on the platform. I appreciate them all as well. 

Feb 12, 2026 07:32 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

That's for sure Carol Williams 

Feb 12, 2026 09:34 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400  Commenting on each other's posts is how we communicate and form friendships with each others 

Feb 12, 2026 09:15 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

You are so right, Hannah Williams, and how we get to know each other!

Feb 12, 2026 09:35 AM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Douglas Elliman Las Olas - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

you manage to brighten the world because you are in it Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 

Feb 15, 2026 06:36 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Eileen Burns 954.483.3912

What lovely way to start a Sunday morning.

Feb 15, 2026 07:24 AM