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Great book to read - Unreasonable Hospitality

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I know Roy Kelley  reads a lot of fiction books and I know I cannot keep up reading at the rate he does with all those amazing book recommendations. I tried keeping a list for a while, but it just kept getting longer and longer on top of the writers I liked reading myself.

Anyway, I am not sure where I heard about this book Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara. I think it was on a podcast or webinar, but I know I wrote it down and then requested it from my local library. Will, the author, is a restauranter who ran Eleven Madison Park the chef Daniel Humm  has been there for 20 years now and the restaurant was originally part of the Danny Meyer empire Union Square Hospitality Group in New York city, that included Grammercy Tavern, The Modern and a host of others and he even founded Shake Shack. Will the author helped manage the restaurant alongside Daniel Humm the chef both of whom had been brought in to raise the standards. 

The book is about what they did to achieve that and the challenges they faced like the 2008 crash for example and how they achieved four stars from the New York Times. It is an easy read, but the ideas can be applied to real estate, he even mentions how some of these ideas apply to real estate and other businesses as well in the book.

I think it is a good read and worthwhile to see how you can bring something into your dealing with clients that will blow them away and make them remember, refer and come back to you.

The book is filled with stories and examples including how to manage and hire people. Take for example how they made a new hire in charge of beer service, purchase and storage in the restaurant and how he shaped that stepping up to the responsibility even though the restaurant still had him as a runner to tables. Quite fascinating.

Give it a read and see what you can take away from it. If you have read it, comment below on any ideas it gave you and how it changed what you do.

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Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

That does sound like a really good book, especially since customer service and hospitality have kind of gone by the wayside for the most part these days, haha.

Feb 12, 2026 04:50 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

That does sound like a useful read - I happen to love hearing about chefs so might just have to check this one out. Thanks for the suggestion.

Feb 12, 2026 04:56 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Nick. This sounds like an interesting book. I vaguely remember hearing about it but didn't really focus on it until I read your post.

Feb 12, 2026 05:19 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Nick. Thanks for the recommendation. Will add it to my list along with those by Roy. Must say I currently am backed up with books I already have and will be donating a couple of boxes of already ready selections to make room for new ones. Enjoy your day.

Feb 12, 2026 05:20 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Nick,

I always appreciate it when a book from outside our industry allows us to relate it to what we do.

“Unreasonable Hospitality” is a reminder that excellence is rarely about the transaction itself. It is about the experience surrounding it.

 

Feb 12, 2026 05:54 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

I could say it sounds like something I would read, but then something else pops up and it is forgotten, or lately where I wrote it down

Feb 12, 2026 06:03 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Brian England I think you will like it as it is really thinking outside the box on how to provide service to your clients.

Kat Palmiotti Will is not the chef, the book is really the story of how they made Eleven Madison Park the Best Restaurant in the World through not just the food, but also the service provided front of house in the dining room.

Nina Hollander, Broker it is well worth a read, I think you will like it with your knowledge of New York.

Wayne Martin I know, I cannot read fast enough to keep up with Roy and his recommendations.

Carol Williams it is really good and he gives several real estate examples as he is now a speaker and has spoken to different real estate companies.

Feb 12, 2026 06:06 AM
Kat Palmiotti

That still sounds interesting Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 

Feb 12, 2026 06:10 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543

Kat it is, well worth a read, I think you will enjoy it. He is very honest about the mistakes and missteps they made as well.

Feb 12, 2026 06:25 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 I have to write everything down or it just slides out of the memory drawer.

Feb 12, 2026 06:07 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Thursday morning, Nick. Thank you very much for telling us about this book.

Feb 12, 2026 06:32 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Thank you Roy Kelley for all your book recommendations.

Feb 12, 2026 06:41 AM
Roy Kelley

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543  

I scheduled a reblog of your post for this afternoon. I added the Goodreads review.

Feb 12, 2026 07:51 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543

Thank you Roy, I appreciate it.

Feb 13, 2026 05:52 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Nick, sounds like an interesting read, but right now don't have time to sit and read, sadly.

Feb 12, 2026 02:32 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Nick -I love reading books like Unreasonable Hospitality. It reminds me of Minding the Store by Stanley Marcus (Neiman-Marcus).  I'm going to look for this one. 

Feb 12, 2026 05:32 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner I can understand that, lots to do to get ready.

Kathy Streib I think you will enjoy it very much.

Feb 13, 2026 05:53 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Nick. Have a very special day and an outstanding holiday weekend.

 

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Feb 14, 2026 06:47 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543

Thank you Roy, the same to you and Dolores.

Feb 14, 2026 06:57 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh my, what an interesting read, Nick! I love reading about chefs and restaurateurs. Their lives are very challenging and to make unreasonable hospitality a priority in the madness that is there lives, is exemplary. I am definitely adding this one to my list!

Feb 16, 2026 03:36 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Debe Maxwell, CRS it was a very easy read, lots of good ideas.

Feb 17, 2026 07:19 AM