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February 2026 AR Challenge

If Not For Them. . .

 

 

I read as well as re-read the February 2026 ActiveRain challenge announcement, guidelines and requirements. Forgetting to mention, unintentionally ignoring or purposefully passing over members who have left an impression on me in this community seemed like a possibility - maybe an inevitability.

 

 

 

 

Hence, this sole entry is submitted as the last day of the month becomes closer to reality. While it may veer from that introductory post, I believe the intent shared by Challenge co-hosts Patricia Feager and Lew Corcoran remains relevant in this post. At least for me.

 

 

 

 

In my opinion, welcoming members who decide to enter the blogosphere is a kind act. I admit my own AR history reveals reading, acknowledging or commenting on first-time blog posts has not consistently been a part of time spent on this site.

 

I am well aware the infrastructure, influence and impact in this community is different than in its earliest days. And as I have often repeated - adjustment and adaptation are parts of everyday life.

 

Putting our personal foundation in order may reinforce kindness as a strength. Building on it can expand possibilities exponentially - far beyond the boundaries of this community.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I remember my experience as a newly arrived blogger when it made me wonder - is anyone reading. I recall members, including many no longer active, reaching out to me in various ways even as I did not recognize the act in those early days on this site.

 

Newby members may not immediately inspire, add meaningful volume to the blogroll, share something that grabs our attention or provide evidence of real-life existence. It can be a new experience to put yourself "out there" in a new place.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I believe membership and participation can have simply complicated aspects.

 

 

Because of that, kindness continues to matter. And that's a point that can mean a lot as we continue to grow. If not for new members - I wonder, where would be as a community. The same might be said of those returning after not checking in for a while or those who may not interact with us. Yes, it's a diverse community. While my participation in the Rain may be pitter-pattering to a pittance - I still wonder about many sorts of stuff.

 

As a reminder: First Blog Posts

 

Images in this post are from canstockphoto.com as well as this site.

 

 

If Not For Them. . .

Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

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P. O. Box 587

Pasadena, CA 91102

Call/Text:  818.516.4393

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Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Not much to ponder here, as we were all new at some point.

There are numerous ways to acknowledge new members and I am also guilty of not going there as often

Feb 25, 2026 04:08 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

No argument from me on this score, Michael. That being said, I will read and comment on new members' posts (and even follow some of them) up to a point. When they just accept the follows and comments and never reciprocate with a comment of acknowledgment of a comment, I do "abandon" them. This still remains a platform of reciprocity.

Feb 25, 2026 04:14 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

God morning Michael Jacobs ,

Yes new members are the life blood of our site and any group. I remember my first post back in Oct. 2008 and it was daunting to put myself out there! I try to comment on new members posts and need to get in the habit of doing it more. Carol Williams  does a great job of highlighting new members in her Saturday Serie.

Feb 25, 2026 04:32 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I like that there is a push to reach out to newbies in the Rain!  I think that I would have gotten involved sooner than I did if people had interacted with me early on like that.

Feb 25, 2026 04:37 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I do think reaching out to new members to welcome them is important. I have had periods of time where I didn't welcome anyone, but I'm trying to do it regularly again.

Feb 25, 2026 05:38 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Michael Jacobs 

Your right! But then again, I find that you are always right, for all the right reasons. Where would ActiveRain be, without New Members? Would this platform for the Real Estate Community continue to grow? ActiveRain was never intended to be an exclusive membership club for a small group of people. I can't help but wonder, just how many people have come and gone, participated, or not participated but still got their names on the AR Leaderboard??? Now that's something to ponder!

Thank you, Michael for continuing to challenge us, with or without an AR Monthly Challenge. Your inspiration, participation, and exploration on thoughts and ideas is greatly appreciated. 

Feb 25, 2026 06:01 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Michael, I remember from the very start. Your first posts always interested me. I love reading anything that makes me think (might I dare say...PONDER). 

Feb 25, 2026 06:51 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Michael,
We do have a lot of new members joining, but very few become active. Maybe they need time to ponder the benefits. We need new blood as those of us old-timers begin to age out. 

Feb 25, 2026 06:53 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Michael, I do welcome new members, but after a few attempts without any reciprocity, I move on.

Feb 25, 2026 07:13 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Wednesday morning, Michael. For years, I have made it a habit to follow 5 new members each day.

Feb 25, 2026 08:26 AM
Michael Jacobs

Roy Kelley - I have long admired your dedication to this community.  I have not followed your commitment to reblogs or following new members.  

Feb 25, 2026 10:37 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Michael- I love seeing one of your ponderific posts. And YES...we need new members, just as almost all organizations do. We can benefit from their point of  view and even any questions they ask. 

I have not been as consistent in reaching out to new members like I used to. With some, I left a welcome message and never received a return call. Perhaps they thought I was a solicitor. 

Feb 25, 2026 12:05 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a thoughtful piece, Michael Jacobs. The way you framed the quiet courage it takes for new voices to step in hit home, and the reminder about kindness felt spot on. Thanks for sharing this reflection, it gave me a lot to think about :)

Feb 25, 2026 05:08 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Michael, not sure how long I was on before I realized you need to reciprocate to get comments for the most part.   Like Nina, I will comment, and follow, but if nothing continues, I will abandon also.

Feb 28, 2026 03:13 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I'm no longer as active as I once was...reduced to my weekly Wordless Wednesday posts. But I do still enjoy checking in and seeing what everyone is up to. What a wonderful experience it has been...so many great friends (like you Michael) that I wouldn't have known otherwise.

Mar 03, 2026 11:50 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Michael Jacobs  I have always admired your wisdom. This post is no exception. I, like many others, will comment, but if relationships do not form, they are gone with the wind .  Have a beautiful day,😀 and spring will be here soon 

Mar 04, 2026 12:42 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, I so love this post and the well-deserved acknowledgement of newbies, Michael. We certainly don’t have the masses we had joining AR daily ‘back in the day.’ So, welcoming them and embracing them with open arms is something we should all be doing. 

Wonderful entry in February’s challenge. Thank you for participating! 

Mar 08, 2026 10:21 PM