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ActiveRain Turned Out to Be More Than I Expected

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ActiveRain Turned Out to Be More Than I Expected

As an agent working to get business back in 2007, each time the phone rang, I answered it, unless I was with a client already.  It's called courtesy, but that's another story.  It was from a loan officer that was also responsible for his company's marketing.

He spoke of this web site that is just real estate agents and professionals blogging about the business.  Just the word blog in 2007 carried a curiosity as it was not very common.  People went about a different tact to get business, but still this had enough difference to garner a look.

At that time, blogging was not very common, and as was the case for many, we read others and with some timidness an occasional comment. While we may have had a confidence with selling real estate, writing about it was a different story.

There were community managers that were there to help, but it was still a while before the confidence to post took over, and for most it was members only as who wanted their clients to know how lacking in confidence we were.

It would be almost 2 years before I posted my first blog, and it may have taken me almost as long to write it.

I may not have been unique, as the powers that be, started their RainCamps to teach people to blog. It was these camps and the challenges that followed that allowed the platform to begin its upward trend.

As with any social media site, interaction generates kinship and the more exposure the wider that kinship grows.

That is certainly the case with ActiveRain. I met people within my own state that I most likely would have never interacted with and still feel like they are friends today.

Across the country, I have met many an ActiveRain member and as happens, there is no hesitancy in the interaction, and if anything, there is a stronger bond created.

 

My presence on ActiveRain started on February 19, 2026. I had no clue what it would be when I started, but for sure, the family I enjoy today through the interaction is the best part of what I took from the platform.

ActiveRain Turned Out to Be More Than I Expected

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Edward (Ed) Silva

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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

What a wonderful post about the people who make AR what it is. 

Feb 23, 2026 05:40 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kat Palmiotti  this has been an adventure and you and I both know that we would have never met at Dagny's if this platform had not encouraged gatherings

Feb 23, 2026 05:54 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - so true!

This ActiveRain thank you has been featured in BananaTUDES!

Feb 23, 2026 05:58 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Ed. Thanks for sharing some of your positive experience as a member of ActiveRain.

Feb 23, 2026 05:41 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Thanks for stopping, Roy

Feb 23, 2026 05:54 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Ed. We were never fortunate to have that level of Rain Camps and meet-ups in the Charlotte area as you were in New England. I attended one Rain Camp and it was total chaos. Not sure if it ever returned to Charlotte, but clearly I did not make any effort to attend after the first one. I learned what I did by attending Bob Stuarts webinars here in the Rain.

Feb 23, 2026 05:42 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Nina Hollander, Broker  we had no RainCamps in CT, so I went to New York, Boston, Philadelphia, Atlantic City and Washington DC

Some of it to learn and a lot of it was the interaction

Feb 23, 2026 05:56 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

So true Ed!!! This AR family is full of givers!!!

I met people within my own state that I most likely would have never interacted with and still feel like they are friends today.

Feb 23, 2026 06:11 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Sham Reddy CRS   I am at the point when I hear a place mentioned, I think of AR members that might be there as well.

Feb 23, 2026 06:25 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Ed,
I think most of us who are active can certainly say AR turned out to be more than we expected. It certainly has for me. 

Feb 23, 2026 06:32 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Carol Williams  it has allowed you to be a trans-continental good will ambassadresses

Feb 23, 2026 06:41 AM
Carol Williams

Yes, it has Ed Silva, 203-206-0754, and my life is better for it!

Feb 23, 2026 07:07 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - is this your last entry for the February 2026 - AR Member Appreciation Month ?

It was a great entry!

Feb 23, 2026 06:53 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Patricia Feager   I didn't have one planned, but the I saw that I was  celebrating a milestone and here it is.

Feb 23, 2026 07:00 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - You're an excellent member of ActiveRain who is greatly appreciate. I enjoyed your surprise telephones calls and all your blog posts too!

Feb 23, 2026 06:56 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Patricia Feager   one reaches a point where we try and keep our toes in the water, hoping it isn't too cold or too deep

Feb 23, 2026 07:01 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

I enjoyed reading this Ed. It’s great to see someone speak so positively about their experience and what they’ve gained from it.

Feb 23, 2026 07:06 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400  it is fact, however. George Souto is less than 30 miles away, but in real estate geography, that may as well be another world

Feb 23, 2026 07:18 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Ed I did not know anything about blogging, and had no idea what AR was or what to expect.  All I knew was that the top producer for the lender I was with was advising me to join.  I did and was surprised what I had become a part of.

Feb 23, 2026 10:40 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Sooooooooo, George Souto does that mean you have regrets, because for me it has been a fun trip

Feb 23, 2026 12:55 PM
George Souto

No regrets Ed, it has been positive

Feb 24, 2026 12:36 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 Congratulations on your ActiveRain anniversary! 🎉 It’s inspiring to hear how something that started with curiosity turned into meaningful connections and lasting friendships.

Feb 23, 2026 01:02 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Lise Howe   Thank you. For those that have been through the multiple owners and the fall off of posts, it has proven to be a true matter of rewards that continue to flourish

Feb 23, 2026 01:09 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Ed, those early years were my favorite, and I joined in 2007, so a few years ago.   Rain Camps were a hoot, and you learned a lot.

Feb 23, 2026 05:57 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner   Rain Camps are what started the socializing as we met so many bloggers face to face.

Mar 01, 2026 04:57 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Ed- Congratulations on your anniversary. The one RainCamp I'd planned on attending (in Miami) was cancelled. You are so right when you said that ActiveRain turned out to be more than any one of us could have expected. Who could imagine that we'd still be here so many years later!!!

Feb 23, 2026 05:58 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kathy Streib   We have a few within close driving range, so I took the initiative and made a lot of friends as well.

Mar 01, 2026 04:59 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Hmm, I think that it was a lender who also got me signed up in the Rain, but I don't think that he is still around, and I don't recall seeing him very active in here, haha.

Feb 24, 2026 06:00 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Brian England  the loan officer that got me started took a job as marketing manager for a plumbing supply company.

Mar 01, 2026 04:59 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt walk through those early days and how this place slowly turned into a real community, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754. Your story hits home, and it’s a great reminder of how much connection can grow when people show up and keep at it. Thanks for sharing this slice of your journey, it truly adds something special to the conversation.

Feb 25, 2026 04:54 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Lew Corcoran  those early days were a challenge, but we all learned, and it is what made the platform so attractive to others

Mar 01, 2026 05:00 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Like you, Ed, it took me a bit to start posting after signing up. I read the rules, other people's posts, filled in my profile and then lurked in the shadows to get some ideas on how to go about it.

ActiveRain is definitely more than I ever thought, the people deifinitely make it worthwhile!

Feb 26, 2026 04:50 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! there were many lurkers early on and we were all in awe of those that wrote often

Mar 01, 2026 05:02 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Feb 28, 2026 06:27 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Thank you for the recognition Kathy Streib 

Mar 01, 2026 05:02 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Ed:

How did I miss this before?! What a wonderful testimonial and look back at your time in the AR community. Congratulations on your recent anniversary!

Jeff

Mar 01, 2026 05:50 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

This is so cool to learn about your AR journey. It took me several years of regular posting to feel like I had this down. And, I am still learning.

Mar 01, 2026 06:05 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Ed I so agree.....who knew being part of the AR community would be so enlightening - and fun!  What a ride it's been since 2006!

Mar 02, 2026 09:34 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Ed. I think I was invited to join in 2008 and posted my first blog in 2011. Meeting some Rainers early definitely propelled my career. Meet-ups continued that. And even today I meet people over the phone or even in continuous text exchanges. Definitely waking in the Rain. Enjoy your day. 

Mar 10, 2026 04:34 AM