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Handicapped Accessible Parking Isn’t About Convenience--It’s About Necessity

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Real Estate Agent with Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 228209

Handicapped Accessible Parking Isn’t About Convenience--It’s About Necessity

 

Having a disability license plate or parking pass displayed on a vehicle doesn’t always mean a disability is visible. That is the ONLY part of a post I saw this week that I fully agree with. The post went on to list dozens of “invisible illnesses” that supposedly entitle someone to use handicapped parking spaces. And honestly, that’s where I struggle.

Here is the list that was proposed to be "hidden illnesses" that necessitate handicapped parking spaces:

Ehlers Danlos Syndrome (EDS), IBS, Crohn's, PTSD, Anxiety, Arthritis, Cancer, Heart Disease, Bipolar, Depression, Diabetes, Lupus, Fibromyalgia, MS, AS, ME, Epilepsy, hereditary angioedema, Migraines, Hashimotos, AUTISM, Borderline personality disorder, MD, DDD, CFS, Histiocytosis, O.D.D, A.D.H.D, RSD, RA (rheumatoid arthritis ) PBC,RLS, COPD, Sarcoidosis, traumatic brain injury(stroke victim), Hydrocephalus....

 

If every condition listed automatically meant someone needed accessible parking, we’d have nothing but handicapped spaces left. The purpose of these spots is accessibility — providing extra space and proximity for people whose mobility or safety truly depends on it.

 

For perspective, I personally live with three diagnoses that were on that list. Our vehicle even carries a handicapped license plate—but, that plate is for my husband, who is a C-6 quadriplegic. Yet when he is not with me, I do not use those spaces. I simply would not feel right taking a spot that someone with serious mobility challenges might need at that moment.

 

In fact, movement and walking actually help my own rheumatoid arthritis symptoms. MOST conditions benefit from staying active, when at all possible. Parking 5-10 spaces past the handicapped spaces can actually help those who live a sedentary lifestyle. For me, parking in the back of the lot gives me a few extra steps in my day, helping my arthritic joints.

 

The larger issue is respect and awareness. Please don’t assume every disability is visible; as well, please don’t stretch the definition simply for convenience. Accessible parking exists so those who truly need it can safely enter and exit their vehicles and reach their destination.

 

And one more important reminder: never park in the striped access area adjacent to the handicapped spaces. That striped zone is where ramps and lifts deploy so wheelchair users can get in and out of their vehicles. Blocking that space can leave someone completely stranded.

 

 


In closing, don’t believe everything you read online and please be thoughtful about how and when accessible parking is used. Someone else may need that space far more than you realize.

 

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GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Thanks for sharing, make it a great Sunday and enjoy your weekend! Bill

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Feb 22, 2026 11:08 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Thank you and you as well, GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore.

Feb 22, 2026 11:18 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Sunday afternoon, Debe. This is good information to share. 

Feb 22, 2026 01:14 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Thank you so much, Roy Kelley.

Feb 22, 2026 06:28 PM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

Debe, I am glad you wrote this post - a lot of people are not even aware how hard it may be to move in a wheelchair, the maneuvers, getting the wheelchair off the car, getting to the ramp. 

Feb 22, 2026 01:18 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Exactly, Steffy Hristova! It is so frustrating that they thoughtlessly take someone’s spot who is unable to exit their car without using a handicapped spot. We have parked at the back of a parking lot before so we could take up 2 spaces to let the ramp down, only to watch someone jaunt out of the store or restaurant to their car in a handicapped space. Ray has actually said something to people before. Most act like they had no clue! Perhaps the DMV needs to hold a class on the use of these spaces! 

Feb 22, 2026 06:30 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

This is a subject that drives me crazy too Debe Maxwell, CRS I have a HC permit due to my sever osteoporosis and you are right, people don't see it but my Dr wants me to take as few steps as possible to help avoid a fall. Now on the other hand it bothers me that those who have permits DON"T use them, as parking is at a premium downtown and most often the HC spots sit empty???

Feb 22, 2026 02:59 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Oh how I wish we had lots of empty hdcp spaces here, Bob "RealMan" Timm! They are at a premium here. Perhaps that’s why the FB post frustrated me SO much!! 

Feb 22, 2026 06:32 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

So appreciate your post.  It's so frustrating seeing people park where they aren't qualified to park.  I had a temporary handicapped plackared when I had extensive leg and knee surgery.  It was a blessing, but yeah, I ran into those parking there who were fully agile with no handicapped plate.  GRRRR!  And good for you for parking elsewhere to get some extra steps in to help your condition.  I get it.  Well deserved featured post!

Feb 22, 2026 04:39 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Aww, thank you so much, Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ! I recently had an appointment with my rheumatologist who encouraged me not only to get more steps in but, to use a weighted vest. I’m not only law-abiding but, I follow doctor’s orders to a ’t!’ LOL

Feb 22, 2026 06:33 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Debe here in Middletown, CT if someone without a handicap plate or tag parks in a handicap space they get $250 fine, and it double each time after that.  Also I agree handicap plate or tags are given way to easily.

Feb 22, 2026 05:26 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

OH my gosh, I just had this conversation with Ray’s doctor, George Souto! Many people get them after joint replacement surgery and they continue to ‘need’ to renew them. In those temporary situations, they should be given to the patients with a 90-day limit and should NOT be renewable!! 

Feb 22, 2026 06:35 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

People are all about what is convenient for themselves and far too many feel they are just too good to be denied. Selfish and inconsiderate is rampant

Feb 22, 2026 06:36 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Sadly, you’re right, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754. Before I met Ray it was a pet-peeve, now it’s not only a pet-peeve but, something that makes me more angry than most things in life! You’re SO right - it’s selfish and inconsiderate and far too widespread. 

Feb 22, 2026 06:52 PM
Ken Semler
ImpresaModular.com - Martinsburg, WV
Nationwide Custom Modular Home Builder

Debe,

This can't be stressed enough. Before my mother passed, my father was her caregiver. To take her and enjoy much of anything was a challenge. I was with them when there were times someone was in the handicapped spot, and there was not an HC tag or placard on or in the vehicle. It always frustrated me as they were too lazy to walk a few extra feet, when, for my mother, it was the difference between being able to do something or having to skip it altogether because she couldn't access it.

I also know people who get it temporarily and then use it all the time, past the time they actually need it, blocking out people who truly do need it. In that case, it almost makes them worse offenders. They know the difference it made for them when they needed it, and then they use the spot and deprive someone who really does need it. 

Thanks for the post!

Feb 23, 2026 04:19 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Oh, Ken Semler, that is SO true - all of it! You are so right about it putting those out who really need the spots. Sadly, those who abuse the placard they got for temporary use, never get caught. As you pointed out, they should totally get the frustrations of truly handicapped individuals. Shame on them!

Mar 01, 2026 09:02 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It makes me really mad to see people park in the handicapped spaces when they don't need them.  My parents have a handicapped pass, but will rarely use it because they feel that there are likely others who might need it more than they do.  They will use it if there are no other parking spaces available, though.

Feb 23, 2026 05:00 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Same, Brian England! It’s one of those things that can truly drive my blood pressure up and there aren’t many of those things!! I do have one too but, never use it if Ray is not with me. I know the inconvenience it can cause if someone who needs it, has no place to park. 

Mar 01, 2026 09:06 AM
Brian England

It's so much better for our own health to walk a bit more as well Debe Maxwell, CRS!  Duke and Arizona #1 and #2, might we meet in the finals?  Red Snapper and I would be enemies for that day, haha.

Mar 01, 2026 10:15 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent overview of what those spots are for and what the nearby striped space is for. To be blunt, some people are idiots but that doesn't entitle them to use the spot.

Feb 23, 2026 05:22 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

LOL I love your bluntness, Kat Palmiotti and I couldn’t agree more!!

Mar 01, 2026 09:07 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Debe, I know you speak from experience on this topic. And your point that not all handicap situations are visible is spot on. When I first lost my lung, my ability to walk very far was limited until I was able to build up my stamina. Many people would stare at me if I parked in the handicapped spot, even though I had a temporary tag from my doctor. Trust me, I only used it when I absolutely needed to. Thankfully, today, I don't need to use it as there are so many who need these spots on a daily basis.

Feb 23, 2026 10:56 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Oh, that is so frustrating when folks don’t think you’re handicapped when you definitely have a life-changing diagnosis, Dr. Paula McDonald. I wish the cards were renewable only annually. I think that would stop a lot of the abuse. 

Mar 01, 2026 09:12 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Debe- I'm so glad you wrote this. I remember at one time (years ago) Houston was cracking down on those who had temporary HC permits that had expired and were still using them. And thank you for pointing out the striped area and why people need to leave it free. 

And yes about the list. Larry has one that is on the list (hydrocephalus) and we do not have or need an HC sticker. In fact, his neurosurgeon wants him to walk a minimum of 1 mile straight each day. He does that and jogs as well. 

I've seen overweight people pull up to the spot, get out for a walk. If they're there to walk, then why do they need the HC sticker. 

Feb 23, 2026 08:23 PM
Leanne Smith

Yes it seems some overweight people are that way because they are just plain lazy. 

Feb 25, 2026 05:48 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Debe - So many people are just plain lazy. My husband is also disabled due to his heart condition and can only walk so far. When I drive his truck with the Veteran Disabled plates, I always park in regular spaces even tho I could park in the disabled space.  Your posting is a great reminder of why respecting those disabled spaces is so important. 

Feb 25, 2026 05:48 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Oh, Leanne Smith, I am the same way! We have the handicapped plates but, if Ray is not with me, why do I need to park there?! 

Mar 01, 2026 09:33 AM
Candy Stevens, EA
Number Cruncher LLC - Overton, NV
Helping Clients Resolve IRS Problems

Before I went on all the medicine that has helped me be able to be active again, I had ot use a handicap placard.  I didn't have enough energy to walk to the store and/or walk around the store.  I also had to use one of the motorized carts.  I was so embarrassed, but it was the only way I could shop and be able to get back to my car.  The handicap parking also helped me not waste precious energy walking to and from my car.  It was hard because from the outside, I didn't look like I needed to use a handicap parking space. I never parked in those areas before, and I definitely don't park in them now.  

Thank you for writing this post. 

Feb 25, 2026 11:32 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Oh, Candy Stevens, EA, I can’t imagine what you went through and I would have been the same way. You know most of the abusers had family who needed the space and after their passing, the family keeps the placards. It’s maddening to me!!

Mar 01, 2026 09:37 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Debe Maxwell, CRS ,

It is infuriating to me too when I see people nab a handicap parking and have no business parking there. I remember with Gene and getting his wheel chair out of the car and getting him into it..it was difficult and to see how lazy people can be is infuriating!

Feb 25, 2026 03:39 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

And most of them are morbidly obese too, Dorie Dillard Austin TX and my comment is always, “Another lazy _ _ _!” 

Mar 01, 2026 09:42 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.WarrenCountyOhioRealEstate.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Some people fail to understand their part in the social contract.  Reserve the spaces for those who need them.  End of story.   And yet...

Feb 26, 2026 01:16 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

And yet, the world idiot population continues to increase, Liz and Bill Spear!

Mar 01, 2026 09:44 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Feb 28, 2026 06:26 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Oh, thank you so much, Kathy Streib! I am honored. 😘

Mar 01, 2026 09:46 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Debe:

So glad you write this post that addresses such an important issue for many. Handicapped spaces are so limited and it's so frustrating, and downright annoying when people abuse them. I've had plenty of first hand experience with this these last 2 month with my wife needing a wheelchair to get around at all due to her back pain. The temporary handicapped placard has been a blessing when we are able to use it. We only use it when she is getting out of the car not just along for a ride with me on an errand, and I certainly don't use it when by myself.

Jeff 

Mar 01, 2026 06:08 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Same with me, Jeff Dowler, CRS! Ray tells me to use a spot sometimes (really, rarely) and I always say I need the exercise!! 

Mar 02, 2026 06:54 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Debe Maxwell, CRS  I know so many people who have handicapped parking that do not need them - shame on them 

Mar 05, 2026 11:03 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I could not agree more, Hannah Williams! And, thank you so very much for following Ray’s hospitalization. It was so scary and you always put a smile on my face & heart. I appreciate you! 😘

Mar 08, 2026 02:39 PM