As I continue easing back into my days after treatment, I’ve been reading the beautiful entries submitted for the Active Rain February Challenge, “Who We Appreciate.” The stories have been heartfelt, inspiring, and deeply personal. I’ve been working with limited bandwidth, but I was determined to add my own entry before the month comes to a close. Thank you, Lew Corcoran and Patricia Feager, for creating a space where gratitude takes center stage.
Today felt like a milestone. I walked .84 miles, not the two miles I was used to before cancer entered the picture, but progress, nonetheless. Healing is humbling. It teaches patience in ways we never sign up for. I also made meaningful progress this past weekend on organizing my taxes for my accountant, another small but significant victory in reclaiming normalcy. Today I was determined to make our Active Rain Zoom meeting and it was so good to see all the familiar faces!
Two weeks ago, I was at MD Anderson Hospital completing the final stretch of my treatment, 66 internal radiation treatments delivered hour by hour, around the clock. It was intense, exhausting, and something I could not have endured without my beautiful daughter Melissa by my side. She was my rock and tower of strength through every moment.
But today, my appreciation shines brightly for someone who may not fully realize the impact she has had on my journey, Kathy Streib.
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Kathy has faithfully checked in with me day after day. Not occasionally. Not when it was convenient. Daily. Through the hard days, the hopeful days, and the in-between days. She has given me space to vent, to celebrate small victories, to process fears, and to laugh. She always seems to know exactly what to say, whether it’s encouragement, perspective, wisdom, or simply, “I’m here.”
There have been handwritten cards tucked into my mailbox. Unexpected packages on my doorstep. Thoughtful gestures that arrived precisely when my spirit needed lifting. In the midst of her own full life, she has made time to show up for me in ways that have restored more than my energy, she has restored my sanity.
Cancer has a way of isolating you. Kathy has made sure I never felt alone.
Her consistency, grace, and genuine care have been a steady light during a season that felt uncertain and overwhelming. That kind of friendship is rare. That kind of heart is a gift.
Kathy, you have been a quiet warrior in my corner. You have given me strength when mine was thin. I am profoundly grateful for you and so blessed to call you my friend.
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