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Lessons Learned from Lou Ludwig: "Will This Matter in a Year?"

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

 Lessons Learned from Lou Ludwig: "Will This Matter in a Year?" 

 

 

My heart plummeted as I saw the paragraph on Facebook that our much respected colleague and mentor, Lou Ludwig was no longer with us. A favorite 'achieve and succeed' member of mine here in the Rain. I read his posts almost every day since joining in 2008.

 

••• We are unable to predict the future and can

only make decisions based on the here and now. ••• 

 

Lou managed to touch many people's hearts, minds and souls. His contributions here, there and everywhere continues on well after his final graduation, there will never be another like him. Carol Williams still honors him in her weekly series, Second Chance Saturday blog.

 

After calling his phone number, his wife answered, gave me the news without relaying how and I didn't push. I told her that he was a positive, uplifting person with a huge following on ActiveRain, that Lou was an icon for encouragement, positive growth and looking ahead for success.

 

She thanked me and we rang off.

 

Lou Ludwig had a way with words, possessing the ability to grab and hold everyone's attention akin to a sports coach, while sending out motivational messages meant to impact the reader. He succeeded for many years here. Hard to believe that next year he will be gone for 10 years.

 

 ••• Learn to work -and- live in real time.

Five minutes ago matters little in life. ••• 

 

Lou taught me about letting go of things that no longer serve a purpose and to hand back contrived drama-driven situations created by others . Often, I ask myself, "Will this matter a year from now?" and if the answer is no, I gladly let it go. No reason to hold what is not meant!

 

 

This in an entry to March 2026's Challenge - Celebrating AR Lives Lost Many thinks to Patricia Feager and Lew Corcoran for hosting March 2026 Challenges.

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Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! A life that continues to influence others years later is a life well lived. 💛

Mar 02, 2026 02:15 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! 

Isn't it something how one person can touch your heart and soul and their memory never goes away. It's as if a piece of Lou's heart lives on vicariously through others. He was a good man, respectable of others, and very wise. When it came to guidance, Lou was a Master of Wisdom - never condescending or judgmental. He was always kind. 

Thank you, Wanda for this very special Tribute to man we all loved and appreciated. 

Mar 02, 2026 04:14 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Lou was always willing to share his ideas through inspiration and for that, I thank him, Dorie Dillard Austin TX. He was a very special ActiveRain member!

Mar 02, 2026 05:34 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

You're welcome, Bill, wishing you the same!

Mar 02, 2026 05:34 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

His presence is still here, Carla Freund, despite passing away in 2017. I enjoy going back and reading his blog, it's always inspiring!

Mar 02, 2026 05:36 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

That is why it's best to hand back contrived, drama-driven situations created by others, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543. We are not meant to carry them!

Mar 02, 2026 05:37 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Am glad to have met him here in the Rain, Lew Corcoran. He made a positive impact on me and so many other members, am grateful for that!

Mar 02, 2026 05:40 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Advice like, "Focus on your priorities and your high value targets." made so much sense, Nina Hollander, Broker. He made success sound easy or maybe I was an attentive student in his master-class posts!

Mar 02, 2026 05:45 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

He talked a lot about focus and purpose in the journey, George Souto. I appreciated his advice!

Mar 02, 2026 05:47 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Absolutely, Lise Howe. Remembering him fondly. Lou wore many titles and did it well, Sales and Management Consultant, Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author.

Mar 02, 2026 05:50 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

His advice was always spot on and useful. I think that too - will this matter in a year or two? If not, why stress? 

Mar 03, 2026 05:27 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I loved reading the posts from Lou Ludwig and really enjoyed his comments on my posts as well.  It would have been so nice to meet him in person, but it never happened.

Mar 03, 2026 06:26 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Wanda,
Lou's advice was always timeless! I don't know if you have noticed, but the posts I feature each week are all from exactly 10 years ago. That's how timeless all of his posts are. 

Mar 03, 2026 07:36 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Have learned a lot and met (virtually for the most part) the tops of the industry here, Kat Palmiotti and that keeps me logging in!

Mar 03, 2026 06:20 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Would have enjoyed going to the big ActiveRain MeetUps but it never seemed like a good time, Brian England. At least, I've met a few wonderful members through the years!

Mar 03, 2026 06:22 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Lou was an exceptional person who shared and by doing that, inspired us all, Carol Williams. Thanks for the conversation today. 

Mar 03, 2026 06:23 PM
Carol Williams

It's always fun to talk to you, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! 
I hope your trip to Washington goes well. 

Mar 04, 2026 06:47 AM
Lynnea Miller
Bend Premier Real Estate - Bend, OR
Premier Real Estate Service in Central Oregon

What a wonderful testimonial to Lou. I can tell he meant a lot to you and gave some very sound advice.

Mar 04, 2026 02:01 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Wanda. Lou was a special person. He taught classes for the National Association of Home Builders. All in attendance could instantly feel his commitment to the industry and helping others succeed. Enjoy your day. 

Mar 07, 2026 05:51 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Everyone who knew him, could count on Lou to give sage advice on success, Lynnea Miller. I was a lucky and willing student!

Mar 07, 2026 08:27 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

In my employment, then at the start of my real estate career, I worked for a homebuilder, Wayne Martin and was President of the Southern Utah Advertising & Marketing Council, working closely with NAHB and Southern Utah Homebuilder's Association. I traveled the U.S. accepting awards on the builder's behalf.

Lou was my inspirational coach, whether he realized it or not!

Miss him.

Mar 07, 2026 08:31 AM