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The Company We Keep Changes Everything

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899

I recently came across a piece by Topher Kearby that truly resonated with me, especially in the chaotic world we’re navigating right now.

He wrote:

“Surround yourself by good people. The kind who see the best in others even when life is tough. Who go out of their way to help because they understand the power of kindness. Who love with their whole hearts not because it is easy, but because they believe life is better when we all feel understood.
They make the hard days easier. They steady you when things feel heavy. They show up in small ways that matter more than they know. They remind you that none of us are meant to carry everything alone.”

There is something so grounding about that message.

The people we choose to surround ourselves with shape more than our calendar, they shape our mindset, our resilience, and even our sense of hope. In a world that often feels loud, divided, and fast-paced, the steady presence of kind, generous-hearted people become an anchor.

These are the friends who celebrate your wins without comparison.
The family members who check in “just because.”
The colleagues who offer encouragement when the road feels long.
The neighbors who wave, who listen, who show up.

They don’t always fix the problem, but they make sure you don’t face it alone.

When life feels heavy, it’s the quiet strength of good people that steadies us. When doubt creeps in, they remind us who we are. When we’re tempted to grow weary, they model grace, patience, and perspective.

And here’s the beautiful part: surrounding ourselves with good people doesn’t just change us, it invites us to become that kind of person for someone else.

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Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

What a beautiful and grounding message, Dorie. You are so right—the people we surround ourselves with truly act as an anchor when things feel heavy. This was exactly the reminder I needed for a Motivational Monday. Thanks for sharing!

Mar 03, 2026 04:16 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Dorie. 100%! Actually 1,000%! We totally become who we associate with.

Mar 03, 2026 04:27 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Dorie, for this special message.

Have a great day and an outstanding week.

Mar 03, 2026 04:30 AM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

 Topher Kearby is a good reminder to be surrounded by good people and to keep good thoughts about others. What he wrote reminded me a lot of the speech Steve Jobs gave that also resonated strongly with so many other people. 

Thanks for sharing the messages that needs to be embraced with follow-through.

Mar 03, 2026 05:19 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Sad thing to me is I hear so much that is negative today. I often work at Starbucks. So many people bitching about anything and everything. 

Mar 03, 2026 05:27 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh my gosh, it's so true that the people around us have a big impact. On us and on others. 

Mar 03, 2026 06:20 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi  Dorie,

The older I get, the more I realize that the quality of our lives is reflected in the quality of the people we choose to walk beside us. Good people do not remove the storms, but they stand with us during them, and that makes all the difference.

I especially love your closing thought. When we surround ourselves with kindness and steadiness, it raises our own standard.

 

Mar 03, 2026 06:21 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

These words are so true!  Surrounding ourselves with positive and happy people will certainly make our lives better!

Mar 03, 2026 06:36 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Yes Dorie, and that’s why choosing positive influences matters so much.

Mar 03, 2026 10:01 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Dorie- I love this post!!!!   We are influenced, buoyed, encouraged, and motivated by the company we keep. By the same token, we can be lead down a path of negativity as well.  As I grew older, I distanced myself from those who would only bring me down. 

Mar 03, 2026 10:09 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dorie that is so true, and we realize just how valued and needed those people are in lives, especially when we are going through a tough challenging time in our lives.

Mar 03, 2026 04:04 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Mar 07, 2026 06:10 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Dorie. Topher nailed it. And, sometimes good people today are not good people tomorrow and vice versa. Know when change is necessary. Enjoy your day.

Mar 08, 2026 05:36 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Thank you Kathy Streib for including my post in your Sunday Series.

Mar 08, 2026 07:17 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

This was a great motivational post Dorie, glad that Kathy featured it as I missed it last week.

Mar 09, 2026 06:04 AM
Candy Stevens, EA
Number Cruncher LLC - Overton, NV
Helping Clients Resolve IRS Problems

This is soooooo true.  I recently had to end a friendship when I realized that it was sucking the life out of me.

Mar 09, 2026 10:22 AM
AZ / FL Mortgage Broker: Michael George
Mortgage Broker - Phoenix, AZ
Providing low rates on purchase & refinance loans.

Good morning Dorie, I really liked this one. We really do become better when we stay close to kind, steady people. Thanks for the reminder and I hope you're feeling good!

Mar 10, 2026 10:11 AM