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Friendly Friday - Updates on March Challenges

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Real Estate Agent with Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX 0506509

Journal Entry for 3/13/2026

 

My feature photo is a bluebird taken less than a mile from where I live in Flower Mound, Texas. It was the joy of the song that caught my attention. Bluebirds symbolize happiness and joy, inspiring many poets and authors to capture their essence in beautiful quotes.

  1. Charles Bukowski"There's bluebird in my heart that wants to get out." This metaphor
    expresses the longing for freedom and the emotional expression, using the bluebird as
    a symbol of inner feelings.

 

The ActiveRain 2026 March Challenges announced two challenges. For more information about participating, here are the two links. Please include in your post which challenge your writing about and include both Hosts. Link your entries to the host's original post. This helps to get points and credit for your participation.  

The Charm of the Uncharted Writing Challenge
Hosted by Lew Corcoran with co-host Patricia Feager.

March 2026 Challenge #2 - Celebrating AR Lives Lost
Hosted by Patricia Feager with co-host Lew Corcoran.


Here is a summary of entries for "The Charm of the Uncharted Writing Challenge," Challenge #1

Lake Drummond — Heart of the Great Dismal Swamp

🙏God is Good!!!

From here to there! Camino de Santiago

One River, Two Stories

Peaches to the Beaches Yard Sale Stop: Discover McRae G

The Windy Road That Led to Sunday Memories

Real or Imagined???

A Rewrite - The Charm of the Uncharted (Challenge 1)

fried or cracked egg Luray caverns

 

  1. Henry David Thoreau"The bluebird carries the sky on his back." This quote reflects the beauty and freedom associated with bluebirds, symbolizing connection to nature. So far, each entry for "The Charm of the Uncharted (Challenge 1) has a special connection to nature. 

 

Here is a summary of entries so far for March 2026, Challenge #2: Celebrating AR Lives Lost:

Remembering Grant Schneider

Lessons Learned from Lou Ludwig: "Will This Matter in a

Remembering Lottie Kendall – A Lasting Influence

😢Noah Was a Good Man

Ahoy, Myrl: A Pirate’s Spirit and a Heart That Touched

Remembering Carole Provenzale –Feng Shui

Full of Laughter…Remembering Donald Urschalitz

Remembering Joe Petrowsky: Celebrating AR Lives Lost

March Challenge #2: Celebrating a Member That Cared

Celebration of Life for Susan Haughton

Remembering Desert Sun Home Inspections - Clint McKie

 

  1. Irving Berlin"Blue skies Smiling at me, Nothing but blue skies Do see.
    Bluebirds Singing a song. Nothing but bluebirds All day long." This quote
    celebrates the joy and positivity that bluebirds represent. From entries for Celebrating Lives Lost, you will notice a common thread. Each AR Member who was remembered, had a positive attitude. On the day I heard the bluebird in the tree, I was alone, sitting on a park bench. When the bluebird started singing, I looked up to see the blue sky. As I lowered my eyes to
    survey the scene to see if I could see the bird, the bluebird was there, perched on the tree that has yet to bloom. This was the inspiration I needed to write about Susan Haughton.

 

Special thanks to all who have submitted heartwarming entries so far. Your entries are greatly appreciated. These entries are yours to read and remember that we are not just bloggers, we are authors who write from the heart stories that inspire. Let's stay positive as we reflect on "The Charm of the Uncharted," and "Celebration of AR Members We Lost." May they never be forgotten. 

If you plan to participate, it's okay if you choose to write about someone who has already been listed. Remember: Our words, deeds, meet-ups, and conversations reveal a new way of understanding how each person lives.

 

 

  1. Paul McCartney"Late at night when the wind is still, I'll come flying through your door,
    And you'll know what love is for. I am a bluebird, I'm a bluebird..." This lyric captures the essence of love and connection associating it with the imagery of a bluebird. 

Comments(17)

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Patricia... I love that Irving Berlin song. Then again, I love all of Irving Berlin's songs. I've done my submission for March on Lives Lost... not likely I'll be doing a second submission, but we'll see.

Mar 13, 2026 04:23 AM
Patricia Feager

Nina Hollander, Broker - I really liked your entry for the March Challenge: Lives Lost on AR, especially the FEATURE photo you created with such exceptional attention to details on Joe. He was an incredible man who made outstanding contributions to all members of  ActiveRain. 

Irving Berlin was a gifted lyricist that wrote American Songs that were simple to read, understand, and listen to when he wrote a song. White Christmas is one of those songs he wrote that touched hearts all around the world, during war and peace. 

Thank you for your participation to honor an AR Member who we lost. Your entry touched on my heart too. 

 

Mar 13, 2026 08:58 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Patricia Feager 🥰

Mar 13, 2026 01:18 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Friday morning, Patricia. Thank you very much for hosting this Challenge.

Have a great day.

Mar 13, 2026 05:14 AM
Patricia Feager

Roy Kelley - it was an honor for me and Lew Corcoran to host double March Challenges. You were the first one, right out of the gate with your amazing trip to Lake Drummond in the Great Dismal Swamp. As a Boy Scout that had to be one of the most memorable adventures you went on with your Scout Troop Leader. Yours was about a place and a story I never would have known about, if it wasn't for your memory to vividly write with visual imagery about a real event that became a part of U.S. History!

Thank you for gifting us on AR with your many talents. 

Mar 13, 2026 09:05 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. I am grateful for the efforts of you and Lew hosting the monthly challenges. Thank you. Enjoy your day.

Mar 13, 2026 05:17 AM
Patricia Feager

Wayne Martin 

I am the lucky one to be included in the Membership of ActiveRain. I enjoy participating and hosting challenges. I am very grateful to you and members who become interactive and appreciate each other. Lew Corcoran and I work well together hosting challenges like this because we respect each other and understand how important all members, living and deceased are to each other. 

I hope this upcoming week which includes St. Patrick's Day brings you and your family the luck of the Irish. 

Mar 13, 2026 09:14 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

These challenge updates are a great reminder of how community keeps people engaged and inspired. Writing with a purpose, whether exploring new places or honoring those who made an impact, adds depth to everyday blogging.

I like how themes tied to nature and shared memories create emotional connection. Posts like these help readers slow down, reflect, and feel part of something larger than transactions or market stats.

Highlighting participation also encourages others to join in. When agents see real examples and feel welcomed into the process, they are more likely to contribute their own stories and perspectives.

Consistent challenges like this build momentum, strengthen relationships, and keep creativity flowing across the platform.

Mar 13, 2026 05:58 AM
Patricia Feager

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 - ActiveRain has evolved into a high-performance environment in which our focus is clear to the real estate community. Whether our work is in the past or the present, real estate is a challenging profession. Although we all have to be in compliance (state specific), we also have guidelines set up from the founders of ActiveRain. Members are people and People like to be appreciated and remembered. Something very unique are the resources that become available to other members by staying committed to values and up-to-date in current affairs. Whether it's sharing our methods, stories, new technology, such as AI we are always learning here on AR. Joining AR was the first big step and participation flows thereafter. When people are willing to help and support one another, we become a community family. For me personally, blogging is more like journaling. We are all writing our own stories. Receiving positive comments improves the environment. Trust isn't make-believe. Trust is real because it does "build momentum, strengthen relationships, and keeps creativity flowing across the platform."

Honoring one another via support, in memory, or including participation in monthly challenges fosters synergy and valuable contributions with opportunities that goes beyond the license and personal growth. 

Your membership Gwen encourages the spirit in which the purpose of ActiveRain was created. You have that natural gift of appreciation, and you have the discipline to refrain from judgment and criticism of others. Throughout your tenure on AR you don't chase people away, you bring people closer together. 

Thank you, Gwen. You truly are amazing.  

Mar 13, 2026 09:37 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

I just found my photos for the Challenge 1 and should get that up this week,. I already did the Challenge 2 and you commented on it, but didn't show it here.

Mar 13, 2026 06:14 AM
Patricia Feager

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I just updated the list to include your excellent entry in remembrance for Joe Petrowsky.

I look forward to reading your entry for Challenge 1 soon.

With sincere appreciation, thank you for your participation.  

Mar 13, 2026 08:38 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

So many great entries have already been made, and I am looking forward to reading the rest that come in!

Mar 13, 2026 06:44 AM
Patricia Feager

Brian England - Reading and writing, including positive comments creates a life-long learning environment. Yes! It's great to read more about people from so many different states with different backgrounds. I've learned so much from AR Members!

We are the lucky ones who know how to communicate with respect for one another. 

Mar 13, 2026 09:42 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

So many lost from AR over the years, glad they are getting honored.

Mar 13, 2026 07:16 AM
Patricia Feager

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - Each person played a major role in committing to ActiveRain. I am also thankful those we lost are finally getting honored as a group effort. Their spirits live on. I find it interesting that when driving and I see a license plate from another state, a name of someone living or deceased from AR pops into my mind. 

Vicariously, we are all living through other people!

Mar 13, 2026 09:46 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Patricia Feager my 99 year old uncle Herb is well know for his "Blue Bird" toasts. I believe he has been raising his glass in the name of the Blue Bird all of his life. The last one I heard was at my daughters wedding. I told Tina she must ask Herb for a Blue Bird toast and he did not let her down... it was a wonderful occassion.

Because Herb has been know for his toasts his beautiful 3 story home in NJ is FULL of Blue Birds. The tributes to Herb's toasts are overwhelming.

Mar 13, 2026 07:47 AM
Patricia Feager

Bob "RealMan" Timm - First of all, you are so lucky to have a member from your family who is already 99 years old! I never had a family member or relative live that long. He shows wisdom through his Blue Bird toasts! Your daughter and her accomplishments and wedding must have been one of the most special moments in a father's life. To be toasted by your Uncle Herb about Blue Birds, was a gift that keeps on giving! 

May the Blue Bird of Happiness stay with you and all members of your family, now and forever.

Cheers!!!

Mar 13, 2026 09:50 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Patricia Feager 

A great recap as we are close to the middle of march on the challenges. Thank you for hosting and I'm enjoying reading the entries!

Mar 13, 2026 08:31 AM
Patricia Feager

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - Even though March has 31 days; it does go by fast. We have great writers on ActiveRain. Your stories were extra special. They were both written with meaning and intention to celebrate and honor; remember and share important aspects of life. 

I wish you good health and may you always be showered with the love of family. 

Mar 13, 2026 09:54 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Patricia, Like seeing the community come together on this. It makes blogging feel even more special.

Mar 13, 2026 08:36 AM
Patricia Feager

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 - your summary is PERFECT! These blog posts reflect the human connection outside of the silo of being in a residential or commercial business box. 

Thank you!!! 

Mar 13, 2026 09:57 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia good idea in providing a list of the blogs posted so we can quickly pull up any we did not read.

Mar 13, 2026 11:08 AM
Patricia Feager

Hi George Souto - It's just as good to read one of the posts for the Challenges when it was posted, as it is to re-read it a second time. I always find a pearl or two I missed when I go back to re-read something meaningful and important. 

Thanks for your feedback!

Mar 13, 2026 11:29 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Patricia, hope I will be able to participate this month, so much going on.  I have less than 2 months to finish selling all my stuff, my house and probably move into a short term rental for a bit.

Mar 13, 2026 05:38 PM
Patricia Feager

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner - When you're pressed for time, you have to keep going till you done. I understand. You will be missed. 

Mar 13, 2026 06:03 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Patricia- I recognized the bluebird. What a great shot!!!   We are having an issue with English sparrows attempting to enter the nest and take one of the chicks. 

Mar 13, 2026 07:47 PM
Patricia Feager

Kathy Streib - I was so happy to hear, see, and get a few good photographs of the Bluebird before it flew away. I think it helped that I was the only one there at the time. I was careful not to distract the Bluebird while admiring it. 

I am sorry to learn you're having issues with the English sparrows who want to trespass and steel one of the chicks. I've never heard of anything like that before. I wonder what would cause that bad bird behavior?

Mar 14, 2026 03:18 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Patricia,
Thanks for the roundup of entries so far. Now I don't have to go back and scroll through the entries. 

Enjoy your weekend. 

Mar 14, 2026 06:45 AM
Patricia Feager

Carol Williams - It takes time to roundup the entries. This was my second post rounding up entries. I'll make a point to do this 3 more times before the 31st of March. Members seem to enjoy getting the information and I am happy to provide the entries. 

 

Mar 14, 2026 03:22 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a bright lift this post brings, Patricia Feager. The way you tied those bluebird moments to the heart of both challenges felt so natural, and it gave the whole update a little spark that stays with you. Thanks for sharing all this good info and keeping the spirit of these entries alive.

Mar 14, 2026 12:12 PM
Patricia Feager

Lew Corcoran - I do my best to be creative when writing blog posts. This time, the inspiration came directly from the Bluebird in the tree where I was sitting on a park bench early in the morning. Yes! It was the Bluebird that was my inspiration :)

Mar 14, 2026 03:24 PM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

it seems that time hascaused many to forget about Irving Berlin....I still appreciate his work...now morethan ever

Mar 14, 2026 04:10 PM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Hi Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD - I will never forget Iving Berlin or the lyrics to so many songs he wrote! 

Mar 14, 2026 06:35 PM