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Remembering Laurie Manny - A Dear Blogging Friend

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

Today I read the post by Patricia Feager about the 2 challenges she is hosting with Lew Corcoran for March. It was a good reminder about a post I wanted to write, but had not yet done so, about a powerhouse AR Member who left us years ago.

 

I’ll never forget the night I received the call from long-time Activerain and blogging friend, Mary Pope-Handy, letting me know that Laurie Manny had left us. I was at the airport to pick up my wife when I got the call. It was such a shock but I so appreciated getting a phone call from a friend letting me know the news rather than reading something on Facebook.

 

I wrote a tribute to Laurie and shared it on AR the next morning, August 26, 2010, but wanted to reflect a little more on her passing over 15 years ago, and all that she contributed to the blogging world during its infancy, and to the ActiveRain community during her 4 years as a member, having joined AR in 2006. It’s hard to believe that it’s been 15+ years since her death.

 

Laurie left us far too soon, and I can’t help but wonder what all she might have accomplished, and what we in the blogging community could have learned from her if she was still around. I suspect some who might read this may not even know who she was in the AR Community and the influence that she had. Indeed, she was referred to by Inman and others as the Blogging Queen!

 

Laurie was a pioneer in the early years of the blogosphere, and a staunch proponent of the power of blogging and driving online traffic to our websites. Indeed, Laurie had strong opinions and did not shy away from expressing them publicly in her writings. But she was right about so many things in the early years of social media and SEO, and it’s hard to argue about the results she achieved.

 

Laurie practiced what she preached in her writing and had the results to prove her beliefs, and while she listened to opposing viewpoints, she did not hesitate to point out when she felt others were wrong in their thinking and practices and why. Laurie loved sharing her knowledge and helping others learn about the value of blogging, and how to be effective in the on-line world in her writing and public speaking.

 

I still remember meeting her in person and so many other Rainers at the 1st blogging conference in Long Beach CA in 2007, and the ActiveRain 1-year Birthday Party in Long Beach also in 2007. There were other meet-ups as well. Here's a photo from another meet-up with Laurie and another past AR member, Irina Netchaev . That's a glimpse of Jeff Turner on the left!

 

past members Irina Netchaev and Lauri Manny

 

She was a friend and mentor to many of the early members, and I miss her deeply, but feel blessed for having known her for 4 years and for all that I learned from her. She is sadly missed but certainly not forgotten.

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Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Jeff Dowler, CRS - I wish I could have been on AR before I began in the Fall of October 2010. I would have loved to learn from some of the greatest people I never knew like Laurie Manny, Irina Netchaev, and Jeff Turner. But I feel blessed to have met you and Debe Maxwell, CRS several years ago. 

Laurie sounded like a powerhouse and a professional debater who could take on anyone, anywhere when she was right and could prove her point because she knew how to hold her ground. I learn best from people who speak the truth and not just someone who has lots of opinions. To listen to someone who can harness effective communication is a gift to the whole community.

Thank you, Jeff for your continued support and membership on ActiveRain. Also, thank you for also mentioning and sharing a photo of both Laurie and Irina who are both lost souls who had a profound effect and influence on others striving to be the best they could be for the benefit of the greater good in the real estate industry. I'd also like you to know, I listened to the video made in Jeff Turner for CRS. That was incredible!

WOW! This blog post is self-evident that those who came later on AR are standing on the shoulders of many great and wonderful people who had a major influence in becoming ActiveRainer Professionals who led the way to becoming successful and unforgettable.

Thank you.

Mar 28, 2026 06:23 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi Patricia Feager 

Thank you for such a thoughtful comment. Laurie brought so much to the AR community during her 4 years when AR was just getting started. We all have benefitted over the years from bloggers like her who shared, and continue to share, their wisdom so we can all learn.

Jeff

Mar 28, 2026 08:01 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Jeff- I didn't know Laurie Manny but your post inspires me to find her older posts and read them to get to know who she was. As Patricia Feager pointed out, many created and built this platform. 

Mar 28, 2026 07:19 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi Kathy Streib  Thank you - I think you would enjoy and learn from them. But I believe her profile has been deleted from so google is the likely resource.

Jeff

Mar 28, 2026 07:58 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I joined ActiveRain after Laurie had passed, so unfortunately never got to meet her. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute.

Mar 29, 2026 05:06 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi Kat Palmiotti  Thanks for stopping by.

I'm sorry you never got to know Laurie...she brought so much to the community and the blogging world.

Jeff

Mar 29, 2026 11:14 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Jeff... a lovely tribute to your friend, Laurie. I joined Active Rain in 2011, so I never knew her and had not read your original tribute until this morning. Thank you for introducing Laurie to me... I wish I had had the privilege of knowing her the way you did.

Mar 29, 2026 05:13 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you for the kind words Nina Hollander, Broker  It WAS a privilege to have gotten to be friends with Laurie and to learn from her!

Jeff

Mar 29, 2026 11:15 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Jeff. Never knew Laurie as I joined the Rain in 2008 but the next time I checked in ws 2011. So many early Rainers have left us and Laurie is one I wish I had interacted with. Thanks for the introduction to one of the pioneers here I the Rain. Enjoy your day.

Mar 29, 2026 05:41 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi Wayne Martin  I'm sorry that you never got to know Laurie and unfortunately her profile was deleted so we can't read her writings except for finding things on Google, perhaps. She was a huge part of the AR community in the early years.

Jeff

Mar 29, 2026 11:40 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Laurie sounds like an amazing woman!  It saddens me that I never got the chance to know her.

Mar 29, 2026 06:19 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

She was a wonderful blogger and intuitively understood how SEO and the web worked, Brian England  Such a huge loss for the blogging world.

Jeff

Mar 29, 2026 11:42 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

A well written tribute to Laurie, Jeff, but I am working my mind to try and remember her as it was so long ago.

Mar 29, 2026 07:07 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi @Ed

It WAS a while ago and I suspect most people reading this will not know her unless they were around in the early days of AR. She left us far too soon and contributed so much to the blogging world and education while she was part of the community.

Jeff

Mar 29, 2026 03:49 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a heartfelt tribute to Laurie Manny, Jeff Dowler, CRS. Your memories paint such a vivid picture, and the way you honored her impact hits home. Thanks for sharing this piece of history with all of us, it really stays with you :)

Mar 29, 2026 10:28 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you for such a nice compliment Lew Corcoran . It was fun to reflect on my memories of Laurie and all that she contributed to AR.

Jeff

Mar 29, 2026 03:51 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Jeff even though Laurie joined AR the same year as the two of us, I do not recall her, which means I missed out on someone special.

Mar 29, 2026 12:35 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi George Souto  She WAS someone very special in blogging's infancy and ActiveRain. I'm so glad I got to know her pretty well and to learn from her.

Jeff

Mar 29, 2026 03:53 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Jeff, this brought back SO many memories—what a powerful reflection on Laurie and the impact she had on all of us in those early days. She was TRULY a force, and you captured both her brilliance and her generosity in sharing it so well. We were lucky to have learned from her—and even luckier to have known her. I know you knew her even better than I did and I'm so sorry you lost such a dear friend.

BTW, I looked at your photos first and said, "OH, that's Jeff Turner!" and then I saw I nailed that profile! ;-) 

Mar 29, 2026 08:50 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Jeff Dowler, CRS,

I never knew Laurie and I started in October of 2008. It sounds like she contributed so much to the blogging world and education while she was part of the community. I have a feeling I'd enjoy reading her posts. Thanks for posting about her..lovely tribute!

Apr 06, 2026 06:40 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you for the kind words Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Yes, you would have liked Laurie and what she had to say about blogging and how to be successful - which you are!

Jeff

Apr 07, 2026 11:29 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

As I joined Active Rain in 2018, I did not have the pleasure of knowing this lady. From your heartfelt words, she was indeed special. 

Apr 08, 2026 08:23 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you, Leanne Smith  I'm sorry you did not have the opportunity to learn from her...but there are certainly plenty of great bloggers here in the Rain to learn from.

Jeff

Apr 08, 2026 11:37 AM