This can work against you & you won't even know that it is & I am taking about bad breath, which may not make itself known or is good breath to you, but others don't get it & will react to it in different ways too. Their facial expression indicate something is not right, they step back, cover their mouths, or if you are lucky, they may offer you a mint & at the very least, tell you to your face: YOUR BREATH STINKS. If they do, thank them profusely
WORTHY NOTE: I have seen the post points in kids, teens, young adults & mature people plus elderly making a poor first & last impression. (reasons for this differ)
HE DID NOT KNOW BUT I DID
I ENJOY THIS PERSON
He is readable, you can see right through him (transparent), interesting to talk to & claims I remind him of past life episodes all good & pleasant. I used the facial expression technique form of communication to convey his bad breath. I wasn't aware of it from a distance, but when he moved in, whew, it begged an audience
WORTHY NOTE: A true friend or human being, who after gets a whiff of your bad breath, would say something knowing it is a takeaway & harmful to your journey
PRESENTATION
Where you go, you go too. Imagine a full day of bad-breath, leave behind memory of you in other people's psyche & that is a lasting impression too. Anny & all good takes a back seat to Darth Breath. At some point you wonder why people are acting strange around you assuming they don't tell you, which is way common
WHILE WE ARE ON THE SUBJECT
There is no excuse for the following list of living decay, neglect & lack of self-love
1. Have you checked your elbows lately? I run into people who have dark, rough & even unwashed scale type skin that screams: wash me please.
2. This one hides literally i.e. behind the ears cleaning. Check yours first by running your finger behind your ear & then whiffing it. Yikes! Get to scrubbing!
3. In Hawaii, Polynesia & Tahiti of times ago past, often the natives appeared healthy, clean & friendly but with rotted teeth. Their lifestyle said: swim is enough
4. When eating, food on chin, lips or mouth is savage. Even worse? Chewing with your mouth full, & worse than that, showing people you chew with mouth open
5. Stains on shirt, pants & shoes are no different than the above only on clothing revealing quite a bit while taking a lot away from you as a person
6. Fingernails bitten done to stubs, filthy & too long to be useful.
7. Facial hair running its course as if you were Robinson Crusoe on an island. Okay if you make it appear on purpose & not just weeds growing on face
8. When we get up in the morning, our hair assumes the position you pillow made of it. Leaving the house unkempt says something about your standard of care
9. Having ill-manners or none, lacking courtesy & respect, reveals UR dysfunction
10. The majority of us sweat i.e. perspire giving our body odor a chance to come out. Tarzan called it spoors where every animal leaves a scent. Don't B an animal
THE TIME TO CATCH IT ALL
Is in your up-bringing, your formative years, under caring & loving supervision & high standards administered to you by parents, authority figures & peers, btw are unrelenting in making & poking fun at you as children do this. Learn from it
IF NOT CAUGHT
It is never too late to bring oneself up to conforming standards. Even your own common sense will help you here providing you are not argumentative, combative or indifferent. You reap what you sow is no myth. At some point, hopefully sooner rather than later, "aha" will visit & your personal stock increases
WHAT'S THIS ALL ABOUT?
You don't get a second chance to make a first impression. Life is not a recording where you play it back after editing. It is a live, step by step broadcast of your travels & experiences. This is it! No rehearsals! Give what you got!
YOU SAY: Not my problem. May I remind you; it is what others say
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