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May 2026 ActiveRain Challenge | Women Who Shaped Us

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with KD Realty - 408.972.1822 CA DRE#01366594

May is here, and with it comes a meaningful opportunity to honor the women who have touched our lives in powerful ways.

With Mother’s Day on May 10, 2026, we are launching a special ActiveRain challenge… one that goes beyond just celebrating “mom” in the traditional sense.

Because the truth is, not everyone’s story looks the same.

Some of us were blessed with incredible mothers. 

Some of us lost our mothers early in life.

Some of us carry complicated or painful memories.

Many of us were shaped by other remarkable women who stepped into that role in their own way.

This month, we invite you to celebrate the women who helped shape who you are today.

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What Can You Write About?
You can take this in whatever direction feels right for you. 

If your mother was a positive influence:
Share a favorite memory, a life lesson she taught you, or how she continues to impact your life today.

If your mother is no longer with you:
Honor her memory. Reflect on her legacy, her strength, or the ways she still lives on in your heart.

If your relationship with your mother was complicated:
You are welcome to share your truth, your growth, or the lessons that came from that journey, or not at all.

If another woman shaped your life:
Celebrate a grandmother, aunt, sister, teacher, mentor, friend, or any woman who stepped in, stepped up, or stood beside you when it mattered most.

There is no “right” way to do this challenge. Make it your own.

Share a personal story
* Write a letter
* Post a poem
* Create a photo collage

Let’s fill May with heartfelt, honest, uniquely yours stories.

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Challenge Guidelines
Start Date: May 1, 2026
End Date: May 31, 2026, at 11:59 PM (PDT)

  • Include a Feature Photo (16:9 works best)
  • Minimum 300 words
  • No re-blog posts
  • Leave an active link to your post in the comments of this challenge post
  • Tag both co-hosts  

Bonus!
As always, we earn points for participating in challenges. In exchange for sharing your story and celebrating the women who shaped your life, participants will receive 1,500 ActiveRain points.

Let’s Celebrate Together!
Be sure to tag the co-hosts so we can follow along and celebrate with you.

We look forward to reading your stories. 

Carol Williams & Kathleen Daniels

 

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Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Hmm, of course, I have to write about my Mom, but I need to try and do so in a manner where it doesn't come off like an obituary since she is still going strong, haha.

May 01, 2026 05:23 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Friday morning, Kathleen. Thank you very much for telling us about the May Challenge.

We will have some interesting reading.

May 01, 2026 05:47 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Must say I will have to ponder this one, likely write a few drafts, and maybe choose one I am willing to share. Enjoy your day.

May 01, 2026 05:56 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

I am with you on the "willing to share" aspect of this Wayne Martin 

So much of what I love so deeply about my relationship with my mom is so personal - to remain between her and me.  

Happy Friday - may you enjoy your day as well. 

May 01, 2026 08:29 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Wayne Martin 
I'll be watching for your entry.

May 02, 2026 05:03 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Carol and Kathleen - congratulations on co-hosting this month's challenge.  May the submissions be bountiful with varied participation.  

May 01, 2026 06:31 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Hello Michael Jacobs, with this amazing AR community, bountiful and varied is likely on the menu.  Thank you for stopping by. 

May 01, 2026 08:30 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Michael Jacobs
Entries are always varied and bountiful so it will be fun to follow this challenge.

May 02, 2026 05:04 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

I'm in and on it Carol Williams and Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. 

May 01, 2026 06:37 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Awesome, Bob "RealMan" Timm, we look forward to reading your post.  

May 01, 2026 08:31 AM
Carol Williams

Excellent, Bob "RealMan" Timm 

May 02, 2026 05:04 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. ,

Thank you and Carol Williams for hosting such an appropriate challenge for the month of May! I'm anxious to read everyone's posts!

May 01, 2026 06:49 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Hello, Miss Dorie Dillard Austin TX As Michael stated, most likely we will see bountiful and varied entries. 

May 01, 2026 08:32 AM
Carol Williams

Good morning, Dorie Dillard Austin TX 
This will be a fun challenge to follow. I look forward to your entry.

May 02, 2026 05:06 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. and Carol Williams Thank you for this fantastic challenge, as my Mother was a very special woman and she lives within me every day of my life. It will be an honor to write about her - count me in 

May 01, 2026 08:43 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

I love that Miss Hannah Williams "she lives within me every day of my life."  I feel the same with my mom.  

 

May 01, 2026 09:15 AM
Hannah Williams

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. We are blessed 😂

May 01, 2026 10:20 AM
Carol Williams

Good morning, Hannah Williams 
I will look forward to learning about your mother. 

May 02, 2026 04:57 AM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

I love the theme of this month's challenge. Great idea, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. !

May 01, 2026 12:57 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Thank you, Steffy Hristova - we hope that you will join the celebration!

 

May 01, 2026 01:21 PM
Carol Williams

Hi Steffy Hristova 
I'll look forward to reading your entry. 

May 02, 2026 04:56 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

A most appropriate challenge for May

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.  have to get my photos collected

May 01, 2026 01:10 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Oh yes, get those photos collected Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 

May 01, 2026 01:22 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs., and Carol Williams 

Thank you both for hosting May's challenge celebrating Mothers and the important women in our lives, and looking forward to reading the entries!

May 01, 2026 02:47 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Hello, Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 I am as well. I'm betting some of them may cause my eyes to water. 

May 01, 2026 03:31 PM
Carol Williams

Hi Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 
You were jolly on the spot getting your entry in on the first day!

May 02, 2026 04:55 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. two women have had a major impact on my life and influenced who I am.

May 01, 2026 05:02 PM
Carol Williams

Hi George Souto 
I'll be watching for your entry. 😊

May 02, 2026 04:52 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

I look forward to reading about the two women, George Souto 

May 01, 2026 06:47 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I can’t wait to explore this with all of you. I’m already inspired and really excited for us to come for all of us!! This is amazing!!

May 01, 2026 07:58 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

 

Thanks, Carol Williams and Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.   Here's my entry:    my-mom--my-hero--my-inspiration

May 01, 2026 09:10 PM
Carol Williams

Thanks for your entry, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 
Your mother sounds extraordinary. 

May 02, 2026 04:53 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

What is your reason for not allowing reblogs of this important message?

May 02, 2026 06:24 AM
Carol Williams

Roy Kelley If you are referring to re-blogging someone else's post, you are certainly allowed to do that. You may also reblog THIS post to promote it further. 

The no reblog was referring to wanting each entry to be original content as a challenge entry.  

May 02, 2026 09:32 AM
Roy Kelley

Carol Williams 

This post does not allow a reblog.

May 02, 2026 09:48 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Roy Kelley 
Ok... I think that might be an oversight. I'll connect with Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.  about it. 

May 02, 2026 10:35 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

This is one of the easier challenges for me. I just need to make a copy of a photo in a frame. 

May 02, 2026 08:03 AM
Carol Williams

Excellent, Leanne Smith
We look forward to your entry. 

May 02, 2026 09:33 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

sounds like some great reading.

May 03, 2026 01:22 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Knowing me, Tammy Lankford, - some most likely will cause my eyes to water. 

May 03, 2026 01:53 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. and Carol Williams  

lessons learned from my mom Ada

May 04, 2026 06:23 PM
Carol Williams

Good morning, Hannah Williams 
Thanks for your entry. Your mother sounds like quite the dynamo. 

May 05, 2026 06:11 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Here's my entry! Mom said, "Everyone has one!"

Thanks for hosting, Carol Williams and Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs..

May 05, 2026 09:40 AM
Carol Williams

Thank you for your entry, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Your mother was very special and lives on through you. 

May 05, 2026 09:54 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Hello Miss Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! - I am heading over now to read your post.  Thank you for participating in the May Challenge 💙

May 05, 2026 11:05 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Beautiful ladies (that's you... Carol Williams and Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. ) here's my entry. May Challenge...the Women Who Shaped Me.

May 05, 2026 05:08 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Hello Kathy Streib - I am heading over now to read your entry. Thank you for participating. 

May 06, 2026 07:08 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Carol Williams and Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. - thanks for hosting the May Challenge. Here is my entry:

Reflections of my Mother - Where There's a Will There's

May 05, 2026 08:26 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Thank you for participating.  I'm heading over now to read. 

May 06, 2026 07:16 AM