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Motivational Monday…Are You the Remedy or the Problem?

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Motivational Monday…Are You the Remedy or the Problem?

 

It’s easy to point out who or what is to blame when something goes wrong.  We’ve all been in situations like this at work or in our personal lives. 

 

Don’t find fault, find a remedy; anybody can complain. 

Henry Ford

 

 

 

Turn on the news (if anyone still does) and you’ll see finger-pointing and blame being thrown out like confetti at a party. All this does is add to the existing problem. In the end, all of that confetti is swept up and thrown away. 

 

And what happens to the solution?  It’s swept to the side along with everything else. 

 

When I worked for a staffing company, there was a month when nothing seemed to go right. Our placements were leaving before the end of their guarantee period, our pipeline of new client companies seemed clogged, and our applicants were not getting hired. 

 

 

I wanted to pull my hair out during the meeting because everyone was speaking at once…sharing their thoughts on who was at fault. It was the economy; our guarantee was bad; our testing methods were bad. We should have….lots of that going around. 

 

Finally, when there was a break in the finger-pointing, the owner, who had been listening to all of this, held his hands up 

 

He spoke calmly and asked Ok, who has a solution? Only speak if you have one. 

 

You could have heard a pin drop.  Bupkes. 

It’s easy to share your opinion on what went wrong, isn’t it? Don’t get me wrong- at some point, we need to know this. However, some issues or situations need an immediate solution!



Solutions are not found by pointing fingers; they are reached by extending hands. 
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What if you don”t have an immediate answer for a solution? What can you do?

-Offer a suggestion, even if it is for a small part of the issue

-Ask how you can help

-Step back and try to see the whole picture from a different perspective.



Whatever the problem, be part of the solution. Don’t just sit around raising questions and pointing out obstacles.
Tina Fey

 

The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world's problems.
Mahatma Gandhi

 

So as we begin the week…what solutions will you be bringing to the table?

 

 

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Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308
Stake Your Land Realty, Inc. - Eustis, FL
Broker/Owner, SFR®, e-PRO®, GRI, AHWD, REALTOR®

Good morning Kathy Streib great post on remedy and problems. I know a person who doesn't get along with any of the family members, always looking for a fight. Hopefully the person one day, the lights turn on and realizes the problem is within.

Apr 13, 2026 04:39 AM
Kathy Streib

Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308 oh yes, I've known people like that.  They can spot what's wrong with others a mile off but never look inward.

Apr 13, 2026 05:22 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent message. When something goes wrong, my first thought is "ok, now what? How are we going to fix this?" - The cause of the problem is important in making sure whatever happened doesn't happen again. But that's it - then what?

Apr 13, 2026 04:47 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti I love that attitude!!!  It's very take charge instead of let's blame. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:25 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... when I managed large staffs in the corporate world, one inviolable rule I had was that they never come to me to discuss a problem without also having three potential solutions to discuss.

Apr 13, 2026 04:49 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker that made you an excellent manager!    My high school principal had a sign on his desk that said "I expect you to make good, not good excuses."

Apr 13, 2026 05:28 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib I like that expression. Wish I had it when I was in the corporate world.

Apr 14, 2026 05:11 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Kathy. Many of us are seeking solutions for the problems we face.

Apr 13, 2026 05:06 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley  we have to...we can't bury them or kick them down the road. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:30 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Henry Ford was a wise man.If you spend your time complaining you are wasting time that could be used to ponder potential solutions. Enjoy your day.

Apr 13, 2026 05:32 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin  I've always loved that quote from Henry Ford. Problem solvers are the ones who succeed. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:32 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

This is a great reminder to start the week with the right mindset. It’s easy to identify what went wrong, especially in a fast-paced business like real estate, but progress always comes from those willing to step forward with solutions. Shifting from reaction to action not only moves situations forward, it also builds trust and leadership with clients and colleagues.

The example you shared really brings it home. When conversations move from blame to solutions, everything changes. Even small suggestions or a willingness to help can redirect the outcome. In this business, being known as someone who brings clarity and direction, not more noise, is what sets professionals apart and keeps things moving toward a successful result.

Apr 13, 2026 05:45 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 I love how you put it.  People want to work with agents who are proactive when a situation or problem arises. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:35 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

The people who love to complain about things never seem to have a solution for anything, haha.

Apr 13, 2026 05:52 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England it often seems that way, doesn't it?  They complain then offer nothing to solve the problem. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:37 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kathy, Such a great reminder that real momentum comes from stepping up with answers, not dwelling on problems.

Apr 13, 2026 06:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I could not have said it better!!!

Apr 13, 2026 05:37 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

As a society we have truly limited ourselves to only those ideas we agree with. This is a sad way to never learn anything new.

Apr 13, 2026 06:44 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty   if all we do is complain and point fingers we learn nothing. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:38 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy the world would be a much better and quieter place if people would have to come up with a solution for every complaint they make.

Apr 13, 2026 08:28 AM
Kathy Streib

George Souto it should be a requirement!  I like what Nina Hollander, Broker required when she was a manager. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:40 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I prefer to be the remedy, but unfortunately I've had my share of being the problem.

 

Apr 13, 2026 12:34 PM
Kathy Streib

Sharon Tara We all have!!!! LOL   

Apr 13, 2026 05:40 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, there is a lot of blame being tossed around.  Best to keep the TV off, and you won't hear it.

Apr 13, 2026 12:43 PM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner you've got that right. And now some of the talking heads feel they have to scream into the cameras. 

Apr 13, 2026 05:41 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Solutions require thinking, critical skills while complaining is emotionally based. Thinking is hard and why so few do it to paraphrase Henry Ford.

Apr 13, 2026 07:36 PM