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I Wasn’t Supposed To Be There

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I Wasn’t Supposed To Be There

 

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400  wrote a post on Monday about homes and the stories they have. You can read it here.

It reminded me of the time we sold our home in Leesburg, VA.  

 

The potential buyers lived a few blocks from our home and wanted something larger. They wanted to take a second look and asked if they could bring their son, who was not happy about the move.

I did something I always told my staging clients NOT to do…I didn’t leave. 

 

It wasn’t that I didn’t want to leave—I couldn’t. I had already scheduled a contractor to handle a simple repair. The potential buyers were on a tight timeline as they were catching a plane for a family function that night. They were hoping to decide on the home before they left. 

I wasn’t supposed to be there.

My agent and I agreed that I would let them in, then go out to our deck while their agent accompanied them through the house.


Here’s what I didn’t expect…

 

The family’s son came out to the deck and was unhappy. He told me he didn’t want to move because he’d be leaving all of his friends. He wanted to stay where they were living. (only a few blocks away!) 

 

So, I asked him if he liked watching the fireworks from the nearby shopping area. Of course he did. I pointed and showed him that you could see the fireworks from the deck. And as if on cue, the deer in the woods behind the house started approaching our feeder. 

 

I also suggested that his friends would love watching the fireworks with him from the deck. 

 

I may have overstepped, but the sad little boy who stepped out on the deck went back inside and told his parents he was ready to move. 



And they did!!!



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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... what a sweet story... sometimes it does take a "third" party to change the perspective of a child or an adult.

Apr 14, 2026 05:05 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker it's hard for adults to move and can be harder on children.  It's funny because the family lived just a few blocks from us. 

Apr 14, 2026 01:25 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib when we moved to our current home, we just moved a couple of miles down the road... it was still a big deal. Of course, maybe that was also because we were downsizing from 6,000 sf to 3,300 sf.

Apr 14, 2026 02:17 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

How wonderful! You heard him and spoke his language. Great job.

Apr 14, 2026 05:14 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti andl...he came to the decision on his own...of course the deer helped.

Apr 14, 2026 01:26 PM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Kathy Streib - sometimes it takes a stranger to say the right words to a child that a parent couldn't. And that makes all the difference. 

Apr 14, 2026 05:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Patricia Feager children are notorious for not listening to their parents.  It's a given.

Apr 14, 2026 01:26 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Did they end up buying your home?  Or, did you just make their lives easier by convincing the boy that moving could be a good thing?

Apr 14, 2026 06:20 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England yes, they did buy the home! 

Apr 14, 2026 01:27 PM
Marie-Noelle Metseye
RE/MAX Northwest - Bothell, WA
Reward Trust with Excellence

Such a real moment, sometimes it’s not the perfect showing, it’s the human connection that makes the difference. You turned a tough situation into exactly what that family needed to say yes.

Apr 14, 2026 06:56 AM
Kathy Streib

Marie-Noelle Metseye we often forget that when buyers are looking, emotion plays a big part in their decision. 

Apr 14, 2026 01:29 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

That is a wonderful story Kathy Streib and well worth keeping in your heart forever.

Apr 14, 2026 07:34 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

I would never do it again Kathy Streib  but again maybe the problem is my osteoporosis. I have meet people who injured their shoulder (as I did) and it healed fine on it's own. I also have had people brag about the success of the replacement... I have to wonder if they are telling the truth.

Apr 14, 2026 01:33 PM
Kathy Streib

Bob "RealMan" Timm  I have never forgotten that story. BTW- I don't think I ever want my shoulder replaced after hearing your story.

Apr 14, 2026 01:30 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kathy, Sometimes a message lands more clearly when it comes from someone outside the family. And thank you for mentioning my story!

Apr 14, 2026 07:41 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 your story was what reminded me of this young boy. I loved it.

Apr 14, 2026 01:30 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

What a memorable story, and such a great reminder of how emotional real estate decisions can be. You handled that moment with care and turned a concern into something the buyer’s family could connect with. It is not always about features; sometimes it is about helping someone see themselves in the home. The fireworks and wildlife painted a picture that clearly resonated. A wonderful example of how small, genuine interactions can make a lasting impact.

Apr 14, 2026 08:14 AM
Kathy Streib

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518   Thank you.   This was one of those unplanned moments that even if you could, you could never plan.   I told him about the things I loved about the property. 

Apr 14, 2026 01:36 PM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

You were meant to be there—it was destiny!

Apr 14, 2026 08:20 AM
Kathy Streib

Kelly McGovern Might have been!   When I consulted with the sellers, I was adamant that they not be home when buyers came to the house. 

Apr 14, 2026 01:37 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

In England, sellers show their own homes and they often share the things that make a house a home, or their favourite restaurants nearby, these are all the intangibles that as a listing agent it is easy to miss.

Apr 14, 2026 08:51 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543    I like that idea. Did the sellers ever accidentally say things they shouldn't???

Apr 14, 2026 01:38 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, that was great you WERE there, and changed that little boy's mind on moving!

Apr 14, 2026 09:04 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner  thank you. I'm sure the little boy would have come around but with a changed mind, it made things easier for the parents. 

Apr 14, 2026 01:39 PM
Lauren Williams, CPO,CVOP
Casual Uncluttering LLC - Woodinville, WA
Professional Organizer: Puget Sound

Kathy Streib OMMIMULTIVERSE that was so kind of you. Lauren

Apr 14, 2026 11:36 AM
Kathy Streib

HI Lauren Williams, CPO,CVOP   Whatever verse, I'm happy I was able to set his mind at ease. 

Apr 14, 2026 01:41 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy nothing wrong in pointing out to Buyers and their family the beneficial qualities of a house.

Apr 14, 2026 12:58 PM
Kathy Streib

George Souto Current owners can offer that extra layer of what's good about the home. 

Apr 14, 2026 01:42 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

How sweet Kathy!  You were supposed to be there!  It was fate for the little boy!

Apr 15, 2026 11:17 AM
Candy Stevens, EA
Number Cruncher LLC - Overton, NV
Helping Clients Resolve IRS Problems

I believe you were right where you needed to be!

I had a client this week accidently text me a personal situation that their family is dealing with.  She was very embarrassed. I learned about her family dirt. But I was able to look at the situation and give her some advice from an outsider's point of view, for which she was grateful.   I care about my clients and have become very close with many of them.  This client especially. 

Apr 18, 2026 06:59 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Consoling an unhappy boy with an open and loving heart - God always has a plan, and you were there to meet the need Kathy Streib 

Apr 18, 2026 12:48 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

That is so sweet! We are working through this right now with our son. I pray someone like you comes along to share some wonderful advice with him.

Apr 18, 2026 02:44 PM
John Henry, Florida Architect
John Henry Masterworks Design International, Inc. - Orlando, FL
Residential Architect, Luxury Custom Home Design

Hi, Kathy Streib Great story, nice photos.  You never know how things will turn out.  Is it serendipity?  Ask Michael Jacobs 

Why on earth didn't the parents realize the son's reservations? Ha

Apr 19, 2026 12:16 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Kathy Streib   This story was sweet, but part where the deer shows up is a bit questionable as that same scene was used by Chevy Chase in a movie, 'Cue the deer', and it appeared

Apr 19, 2026 12:27 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

It was meant to be Kathy Streib  Sometimes things just fall together as they should! SOunds like Kismet to me! 

Apr 21, 2026 12:21 AM