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It Should Have Been A Celebration

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

It Should Have Been a Celebration

Some homes close. And some homes… deserve a celebration. This was one of those homes. My sellers didn’t just live there. They nurtured and raised their family there.

There were pencil marks on the wall showing dates and heights, little moments captured year after year. Birthdays, holidays, memories, some joyful, some hard, but all part of a life fully lived inside those walls. And when it came time to sell, she didn’t just want to “move on.” She wanted to pass it forward.

She quietly chose a few pieces she thought the buyer loved… little gifts to stay behind. She had beautiful azaleas planted in the yard ahead of closing, her way of saying, " Welcome home. She was ready, with a full heart, to meet the new owner. To share a story or two. To say, “You’re going to love it here.” Because that’s what this business can be at its very best. A passing of the torch.

But sometimes… the moment gets missed. The keys get handed over. The papers get signed. And everyone moves on. Efficient. Proper. Done. But something is lost when there’s no room for the human part.

Here’s what I know after all these years. Buyers deserve more than a transaction. They deserve to feel the excitement of their new beginning. Sellers deserve more than a signature. They deserve to know their home is going to someone who will love and care for it. And sometimes, all it takes is a few minutes… a conversation… a moment of connection… to turn a closing into a memory.

We don’t always control how every closing goes. But we can always remember what matters. A home is never just a house. It’s a story. And when we take the time to honor that story, everyone wins.

To my seller, who rarely misses a show… your home was filled with love. And that love didn’t end at closing. It’s still there… in every room, in every memory, and yes… in those azaleas that will bloom. And someday, I believe the new owner will feel it too.

Closing should have been a celebration. But it was just a closing. Because houses sell houses… but it’s people who make them homes.

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Margaret Rome
HomeRome Realty
Broker/Owner/Realtor®

Baltimore, Maryland


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Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks Margaret for sharing!!!

Some homes close. And some homes… deserve a celebration. This was one of those homes. My sellers didn’t just live there. They nurtured and raised their family there.

Apr 14, 2026 04:43 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Tuesday morning, Margaret. Thank you very much for sharing your experience and advice.

Apr 14, 2026 05:08 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

thanks Roy.

Apr 15, 2026 07:04 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Margaret. Many times it is just a closing but sometimes there are stories that need be told and believed. You have the knack for knowing one form another. Enjoyyour day.

Apr 14, 2026 05:09 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good morning, Wayne Martin. Not all closings are alike!

Apr 15, 2026 07:06 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

My favorite transactions are the ones that are more than just a transaction.  I love seeing the true happiness from buyers, and the love of a home from a seller who wants someone else to enjoy the home as much as they did.

Apr 14, 2026 06:48 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brian England,

That is what we work for! Happiness for both!

Apr 15, 2026 07:08 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

So many closing agents today are all about efficiency, getting people in and out, no room for personal moments. Sorry your seller missed her opportunity to celebrate.

Apr 14, 2026 08:38 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

I completely agree. The personal touch is essential, and it’s a shame when those moments get overlooked in favor of efficiency.

Apr 15, 2026 07:14 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 - I have had two sellers in 23 years who went the distance to welcome the new owners to their new home.  It was a fun welcome and goodbye celebration appreciated by all. 

Apr 14, 2026 08:56 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.  I would love to hear more! Have you blogged this celebration>

Apr 15, 2026 07:18 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Hello Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 - much like me, my clients are private people - not ones to showcase their life on social media. 

Apr 15, 2026 08:25 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Closing where I am now typically do NOT occur with buyers and sellers in the same place. Sellers can sign ahead of time, via electronic methods and buyers often sign days later. It's unfortunate that those in person conversations don't happen.

Apr 14, 2026 09:04 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kat Palmiotti,

And I think both lose out without knowing anything about the other. I have used FaceTime to introduce the buyer and seller.

Apr 15, 2026 07:25 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret I guess I am lucky.  Every closing that I have been to have been a happy experience except one because the sale was because of a divorce. 

Apr 14, 2026 12:44 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

George Souto

That is quite the record. 

Apr 15, 2026 07:32 AM