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Tido used to be solid brown with no gray on his dome or muzzle, but he's a senior Chihuahua now.  He sees well, but I think he wonders why we keep moving our lips and not saying anything!

Tido aka Burrito Boy was our 2nd Chihuahua adoption.  We don't know his full history, but let's just say he wasn't overly trusting when he first joined our pack, especially of me   We assume some bad history with a male in his past, and that transferred to me.  While he never broke skin, I got a few nips until he learned that he could trust me.

Flash forward and Tido loves to have me pick him up and carry him around (so this is what it's like to be TALL??), and when it's bedtime he sprints down the hall to the bedroom and bolts into his furry dogloo.  He's the alpha male of the dog pack, no matter how many times El Jefe tries to challenge him.  Even then, we can trust Tido only uses as much force as necessary to flip the challenger and make it clear...today ain't yer day son, Tido is still in charge.

In some ways, Tido and potential real estate clients are similar.  They're looking for an agent they can trust.

If we're lucky, a past client is putting in the golden word for us and we get trust by proxy. IMO nothing tops the good word of a person the potential client trusts.  We can write 1000 blog posts, create 100s of IDX pages, but what matters most came out of someone's else's mouth.

But if we don't have someone speaking for us, how do we gain trust?  It starts with how we provide information.  Be in direct mail, videos, social media, blogging or IDX pages, do we prove expertise and that we're in it for them more than us?

Another IMO, but we're often being interviewed without us being there.  Someone is checking out our posts and deciding if they can trust us.

Obvious errors in our digital presence can put a stake in us before we get a chance to go further.

Expressing the "wrong" opinion about politics or the daily topic of choice can be poison.

If you clear the first hurdles, you've got a chance, but it's a chain of events to develop that trust.

Do you answer the phone?  Return the email?  Do what you promised?  And how long did it take you?

And now, if you stack everything up right, a buyer still has to trust you enough to be willing to sign a buyer's agency agreement, and who knows why the Tido types of clients don't trust a real estate agent, but they do.

So we strive for a digital presence that gives them a chance to bond, a chance to trust, and a chance to build a good working relationship.  And when it works as intended, it's a beautiful thing.

Woof!

Until next Tuesday, just Ask An Ambassador if you need help!
Bill & Liz aka BLiz

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Bill. Opinions are formed likely before personal contact is made especially in our current time of social media and direct mail. And if you are eliminated from consideration you will never know why. Be clear, consistent and knowledgeable so trust is built before contact is made and likely the reason why. Enjoy your day.

Apr 21, 2026 05:15 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Wayne, agreed, when we post online, especially strong divider type things (e.g. politics) potential clients can be diverted instantly, and we'll never be told that is why they went to another of the 1000s of agents in our market.

Apr 22, 2026 05:28 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I find it funny that El Jefe might be taking orders from Tido, haha.  I like the nickname of burrito boy since I do enjoy me a good burrito from time to time, haha.

Apr 21, 2026 06:06 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

El Jefe has a strong personality and has tried to be boss since he was a puppy (thus the name), but Tido isn't having it!

Apr 22, 2026 05:29 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Such an adorable analogy. I would want to carry that sweet Tido around as well.

Apr 21, 2026 07:25 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

His hearing fading is a challenge when I'm trying to bring them back in from a potty break, but despite his age he gets very excited about meals, or running down the hall to the bedroom!

Apr 22, 2026 05:30 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

The greatest compliment someone can give you is when they call you to sell the home they bought with you. They are telling you...we trust you!

Apr 21, 2026 09:03 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Definitely LOVE repeat business!

Apr 22, 2026 05:30 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Bill trust is HARD to get and VERY easy to lose, and once lost it is almost impossible to get back.

Apr 21, 2026 03:40 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

For sure, once it's gone, there's often no regaining it.  We lost trust in our builder and are ironing out the last details in separating so we can get back on track.

Apr 22, 2026 05:31 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Our pets usually always know something that others don’t almost every time, and they are really special to our everyday lives and ways that we can never imagine

Apr 21, 2026 11:43 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

They're good little detectives :)

Apr 22, 2026 05:32 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Trust is a hard thing to gain, especially since we are in the real estate profession which unfortunately gets a bad rap. One of my favorite transactions was a couple who unsuccessfully were trying to sell their home FSBO and someone they knew referred them to me. They were clear they had a very low opinion of real estate agents. At the end of their successful sale, we all hugged and they told me I had changed their opinion of real estate professionals. That's one the nicest things anyone ever said to me.

Apr 22, 2026 05:12 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you!

Apr 22, 2026 05:56 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Kat, I'm not surprised you were able to bring them around!  It's often an uphill battle to beat the industry rep.

Apr 22, 2026 05:32 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

As a broker I'm very involved with every transaction that happens in my office.  Recently we had Tito as buyers moving from southern California.  They had experienced a LOT of bad in their lives.  But during the transaction we won their trust.  They closed via mail while putting their house on the market there and arrived nearly a month later to pick up the keys.  They also trusted me to handle a post closing "issue" with a missing manufactured home title on a transaction they paid over $700k cash for in Georgia.  (had to get a bonded title because the sellers had never transferred it to their name with a purchase in the 90s).  I feel sure we'll be friends.   But it took the right touch to win them over.  

Apr 22, 2026 09:28 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Over the years we've run into people that distrusted a particular brand or agents in general.  Some can be won over, some it didn't get past the interview phase.  

Apr 24, 2026 06:09 AM
Tammy Lankford,

This was a particular agent.  Just a really bad experience with selling her late mom's house.  Some agents just can't/don't handle the very emotional part that seller's have sometimes and that was the jist of it. They wanted her to remodel before marketing and she wasn't ready to erase the house and wanted to leave it her mom's house and let the buyers do the remodel.  She felt bullied.  But as a buyer she began to understand why that some of it needed to be done.  But was still very emotional about it.  I spent a lot of time talking with the other agent (in another state) and we finally had a win win.

Apr 24, 2026 07:33 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

When trust is broken prior to your arrival, it's difficult to prove yourself but can be done, Bill. While on vacation, a tom cat killed an entire litter of kittens on our property, or so we thought, until the singular survivor showed himself. He was terrified but I dropped food a good distance away, then got closer every day until he finally realized I meant no harm. Stripes and I became very good friends eventually!

Apr 22, 2026 05:43 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Liz has always been able to bring the feral cats around over time, sometimes a LOT of time!

Apr 24, 2026 06:09 AM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

I'm inclined to agree with any positive analogy involving Burrito Boy.   He's just too irresistible!

Apr 22, 2026 08:57 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Burrito Boy definitely doesn't act his age :)

Apr 24, 2026 06:10 AM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

Great post that was entertaining and insightful … Burrito boy for Mayo

Apr 22, 2026 09:50 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

We have a whole hear of Chis, 9 total, each with their own personalities and ways of doing things.

Apr 24, 2026 06:10 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Trust really is everything in this business. Most clients are doing their homework long before we ever have a conversation, and those early impressions matter. Like Tido, once that trust is earned, it creates a strong and lasting relationship. Showing up consistently and doing what you say you will still goes a long way.

Apr 23, 2026 04:50 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Gwen, that's the baffling thing, just following through can be huge, doesn't cost anything but our time, so why not do what we say?

Apr 24, 2026 06:11 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Bless that little dog in all his beautiful glory. Love and light and all the very best to him and always believe!

Apr 23, 2026 09:17 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

The face and skull are almost solid gray now, and he started solid brown when we first got him.  He's doing well for his age.

Apr 24, 2026 06:12 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Bill,

Real Estate is a relationship business and founded on establishing trust. I feel strongly when we practice what we preach and do the right thing every time, even when no one is looking, its seen loud and clear!

Apr 23, 2026 10:54 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Dorie, taking care of everyone is critical, and I feel like over the years I've "unsold" more homes for my buyers than I ever sold.  They get the pros and cons so they can make the best decision for themselves, most appreciate that candidness.

Apr 24, 2026 06:13 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

It is all about TRUST, Bill!  Liz and Bill Spear 

I am proud to say that I hear that word all the time - "I trust you." 

 

Apr 23, 2026 12:02 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

It's a phrase that is earned and valued.

Apr 24, 2026 06:14 AM
John Henry, Florida Architect
John Henry Masterworks Design International, Inc. - Orlando, FL
Residential Architect, Luxury Custom Home Design

Yes, good advice.  I wonder if getting too chummy with a client is a good idea.  For example: shared interests and talking them up, etc.  What do you think? Thanks

Apr 23, 2026 02:00 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

John Henry, Florida Architect , I think it's good to establish some common ground.  When I first meet with potential clients I'm casually looking for common points that we can bond over.  Some clients do enter the friend zone, others are transactional.  It's a personal choice, and as an engineer adding to my friend count isn't high on my list of things to do :)

Apr 24, 2026 06:16 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Such a cute post. Learned from it also

Apr 24, 2026 11:15 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Tido is a cute dog, still lots of energy :)

Apr 27, 2026 06:06 AM
Steve Higgins
RE/MAX Kelowna - Kelowna, BC

Hi Liz and Bill Spear 

I have to say I enjoyed your post. Especially since my wife is big in rescuing dogs or any animal that is need. Good advice, we need trust to build any relationship. 

Apr 25, 2026 02:24 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Steve, our house is full (almost literally) of furry rescues of both canine and feline variety.

Apr 27, 2026 06:07 AM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Bill,  I saw that face and had to stop.  Trust is the most important.  I remember Lou Ludwig telling me years ago,, "if people like you and trust you, they'll do business with you."

I was recently searching for one of my posts to send to a buyer (easier to find these days than going through my blog) and came across an article written by Miami Living Magazine.  I'd never heard of them, never talked to them and was wondering what my name was doing with theirs.  I almost fell off my chair when I read the article.  I'm going to write a post about it (am woefully behind), but you can see it here.  

You and your pack are so right - trust is everything.

May 04, 2026 04:22 PM