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Real Estate Agent with Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.WarrenCountyOhioRealEstate.com SAL.2002007747

We've been in the Rain for almost 20 years.  A lot has changed in those years.  Maybe there's not as many people actively blogging and maybe comment counts are down, and maybe SEO isn't what it used to be, and it's probably been over a decade since the last time I saw a post hijacked.

But what hasn't changed is relationships that last decades can be formed here.  The early days of learning to blog, sharing the latest real estate tips, learning about each other on a personal basis, all that provided a solid foundation to develop both professional and personal bonds.  I've actually met a fair number of Rainers in person, and talked and emailed to many more.

The interactions may have moved outside of the Rain as people come and go.  Yesteryear's blog post comment chat morphs into today's texts and Facebook messages.

The people I'll refer don't have to be active in the Rain for me to put in a good word for them if another Rainer needs a recommendation.  Some of the people I respect most in this business haven't posted here in years and years, but the relationships started here.

Trust was formed.  Evidence of how they handle tough times and jackasses, and how they handle the good times too, all contribute to shaping a reputation that gives you confidence that you can trust your own reputation on their abilities.

So if you ask me for a recommendation, I'm not just thinking about who's still in the Rain, but also those that made the right impressions years ago.

It started here, but it doesn't have to end here.

Keeping this one short!
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Bill & Liz, aka BLiz

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Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear BLiz,

Now that I think about it, it has been a long time. Always enjoy your posts and those of others. Definitely a great starting point for giving out referrals.

Apr 28, 2026 05:06 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Dorte, I love that we get to see personalities, not just a directory list of achievements, designations and awards.

Apr 28, 2026 06:56 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Bill. I have made referrals too people here in the Rain when they were active and when they chose not to be active here. It all started here where our paths crossed. You nailed it. Enjoy our day.

Apr 28, 2026 05:35 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Wayne, a lot of my go to people aren't active here any longer, but I'd still trust them in a second with a referral.

Apr 28, 2026 07:01 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent point about also referring / keeping in touch with those who are no longer posting here on a regular basis!

By the way, AI says hijacking a post is poor etiquette. Haha.

Apr 28, 2026 05:46 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Kat, I know hijacking was common back in the day, and I'd be fine with it on a Rain facing post such as this, but if it was meant to be a consumer facing post, that would be a big nope for me.

Apr 28, 2026 07:02 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Bill (and Liz too) - short and sweet messages can be effective.  

Apr 28, 2026 06:20 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

It's rare for me, but I can keep it below 300 words when that's all the topic justifies :)

Apr 28, 2026 07:03 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Bill,

A great post this morning with a good topic. I've referred AE members and have to say I look in the Rain first! It's all about relationships!

Apr 28, 2026 06:23 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

It's my first stop, and if there's not a good fit then I'll go to my alternative sources.

Apr 28, 2026 07:03 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

The relationships built in the Rain are what I treasure the most.  Interaction leads to relationships being built, so that is what I look for more than anything these days.

Apr 28, 2026 06:24 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

There's enough interaction here that eventually everyone shows you who they are (and aren't).  Some relationships last 20+ years in the Rain, others dwindle for various reasons.

Apr 28, 2026 07:04 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

You are so correct that many who once were here on a regular basis are still around and doing well. One of my very best friends, I met here in the rain, but she and her husband no longer post here.

Apr 28, 2026 06:35 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

But we still know where to find those people when there's an opportunity to refer.

Apr 28, 2026 07:05 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

It will be interesting to see what happens over say the next 10 years. I seem to be reading less human written material. Is the dumbing down of the population by design?

Apr 28, 2026 07:39 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Between Facebook and even here, AI generated content has become more common, and some of the AI content is so off the mark it's scary.

Apr 28, 2026 07:06 PM
Marte Cliff

AI is a wonderful research/search tool. It is NOT a competent writing tool. 

Some tell me they use it for outlines, etc. and maybe that works. But I think I'll stick to writing my own words. 

Apr 29, 2026 03:19 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Bill there are good reasons why a member stops being active.  Depending on the reason would determine whether or not I would still consider referring them to my clients. 

By the way ActiveRain is 20 years old in May.

Apr 28, 2026 09:30 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

For the most part, the people I stay in touch with either stopped blogging entirely, or changed venues for their blogging.  

Apr 28, 2026 07:07 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Relationships built here have always been the real value, and that hasn’t changed. The platform may evolve, but the trust, consistency, and professionalism people show over time are what carry forward into referrals and real opportunities. Those early conversations and shared experiences create a foundation that lasts well beyond daily activity.

It is a good reminder that how we show up matters, whether we are posting every day or not. The impressions we leave stay with people, and that is what keeps connections working years later.

Apr 28, 2026 11:18 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Gwen, we've literally been here long enough to see babies and grandkids graduate college.  Amazing!

And I don't get out and about in the community as much as I used to, and my focus tends to be on people that spread a positive message and participate in earnest.  

Apr 28, 2026 07:09 PM
Buzz Mackintosh
Mackintosh REALTORS - Frederick, MD
“Experience, reliable, leadership”

It's always great to ask the AR community for input on a burning question and a great resource to place a referral. The relationships built by networking here over time are priceless.    

Apr 28, 2026 12:51 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

They are indeed.  Coast to coast, border to border, there's a good chance I know someone wherever there's a need for a referral.

And no matter the question asked, there's almost always someone who's been there, done that.

Apr 28, 2026 07:10 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hi Bill Liz and Bill Spear - I just spoke with Kathy Streib and we talked about the friendships we have made here in the Rain. There is a core group of "us" that has been here a long time. From what I see, new bloggers don't know what they are missing if they don't engage and connect with members. 

On a side note: Great observation you made on the Zoom call today!   

Apr 28, 2026 01:19 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

The "us" understands what this place is about and seek to keep the culture thriving. A lot of new people are strictly business for their blogging (and maybe comments turned off), so they're missing a chance to develop what this place does best.

And the zoom observation, it's a pet peeve of mine.  We should all know what the rules are by this point, and when agents break them, and their broker doesn't appear to care, it creates an unlevel playing field.

Apr 28, 2026 07:13 PM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

We have to keep planting those seeds and cultivating them..

 

 

Apr 28, 2026 01:24 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

And some seeds do better than others.  We used to have 100s of crocus (crocii, crocuses?), but the burrowing critters have eaten most of the bulbs.

Apr 28, 2026 07:13 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Have given and received referrals in the Rain, and like you, online behavior matters, Bliz. If people are argumentative, patronizing, ultra-egotistic and biting here, they are that way in-person as well. 

Apr 28, 2026 02:53 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Sooner or later, everyone shows you who they are, both good and bad.  One more reason I feel comfortable referring to people here (or choosing an alternative when they've checked off a few of the boxes you mention).

Apr 28, 2026 07:14 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

The blooming purple colors is really put it in perspective really nicely. May we all take a moment. :)

Apr 28, 2026 04:34 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Laura, I always love seeing crocus blooms early in Spring.  We'll have to plant some at our next home.

Apr 28, 2026 07:15 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

The old quote about "first impressions" still rings true. 

Apr 29, 2026 06:46 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Leanne, it's a fundamental.  First comment, first blog site, any form of first contact can get us off on the right foot, or put us out of contention.

Apr 30, 2026 05:59 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Bill! We were definitely blessed to have the luxury of meeting (and communicating with) so many agents across the nation in the beginning. We were able to spend more time here because social media demands (both creation and participation) were not a 'thing' back then! SO many great agents felt their own websites were important for them to focus. And, like you, I stayed in touch with many of them, and still do. 

And, thank you for joining us on the Zoom call yesterday--it's always great to see you! Appreciate your input and I know John can use that input in his own business, helping others build their online presence. 

Apr 29, 2026 07:19 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

There's definitely a lot of fragmentation, so many places to put our time and efforts, and depending on our target audience, blogging may not be the place to be.

Apr 30, 2026 06:00 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

One of the things I love is that many of my favorite bloggers have retired from real estate - and yet they're still here, keeping up with everyone. It's a community, for sure.

Apr 29, 2026 03:17 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

There's a friendship here among many that goes beyond just the needs of doing our job in real estate.

Apr 30, 2026 06:01 AM
Candy Stevens, EA
Number Cruncher LLC - Overton, NV
Helping Clients Resolve IRS Problems

I definitely keep the Rain in mind if I hear of people looking for a real estate agent.  Heck when I but a house I will be looking at the Rain first to see if there is an agent in the area I want to buy a house.

Apr 30, 2026 04:41 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Candy, I love the fact that over time, you get to see people's personality at work.  If someone is just putting on a facade, sooner or later that likely slips, so I can feel comfortable that who I think I know is really who they are.  And every meeting I've had with a Rainer in person, it has always been the case.

May 02, 2026 06:21 AM