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Discovering the Silver Lining in the Clouds of Our Lives

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Real Estate Agent with Dirt Road Real Estate SA676002000

Some may remember the movie Pollyanna with Haley Mills who portrayed a child who appeared never to be unhappy and she inspired a town. The author was Elanor H. Porter who wrote these words in the actual novel

“There is something about everything to be glad about, if you keep hunting long enough to find it.”

Of course sometimes, as in the movie,  in our lives there is difficulty to keep hunting for that gladness, that joy, that inspiration.

Here is where our own attitudes must persevere.   

“You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change that than allowing it to master you.”

Brian Tracy

Courage is an attitude to keep going

when the going gets tough.

John Wayne is quoted as saying:

“Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway.”

One of the words we often fail to embrace or remember is this one word “Resolve.”  This word has several definitions. As a verb resolve means to solve or decide.  Then as a noun resolve is a firmness or purpose, a steadfast unwavering determination.

Returning to the novel Pollyanna, her firmness or purpose, her resolve rested in her attitude toward life, to be glad even when it was difficult. This was especially tested when her Aunt faced criticism from the town's people.

Often, we have heard this quote:

"That every cloud has a silver lining."

Of course, finding that silver lining takes sometimes both courage and resolve because often the silver lining is not evident at first, second or even at the fifth glance.

We all have the capacity to discover what Porter wrote years ago. Discovering joy in the little things in life when we face difficult times is possible with our courage and resolve.

Posted by

Leanne M. Smith, MS, GRI, rCRMS

2018 KGVAR Rookie Realtor of the Year-55+
219.508.2859 MST
Life Begins Where the Pavement Ends
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hello, Leanne... maybe it's my personality... but I've never had a problem finding a silver lining... and maybe because there always seems to be one.

May 11, 2026 08:11 AM
Leanne Smith

Actually I am not surprised. I believe many of those here in Active Rain find the silver lining. Hopefully this post will encourage just one other person to discover the silver lining. 

May 11, 2026 08:14 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Leanne, I think for almost every situation there is a silver lining, you just have to look harder.

May 11, 2026 08:31 AM
Leanne Smith

No disagreement and yes we have to indeed look harder. Thank you and good afternoon. 

May 11, 2026 02:48 PM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

great information to share with us here on the Rain. We can always learn from great blogs here. Bill

Bill Salvatore / Arizona Elite Properties #AZVHV

May 11, 2026 11:28 AM
Leanne Smith

Thank you for stopping by. Make it an exceptional week.

May 11, 2026 12:09 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Leanne Smith ,

I tend to find silver linings surround me. Today My HVAC went out and I thought it was my thermostat. I had my HVAC serviced on March 30 and it was just the drain line getting clogged again. There is a safety featured so water can't back up in your attic and flow down into the house and that was what was shutting my unit off. Since I just had my unit serviced..no charge and I learned something! My credit card got hacked today and they called me right away and a new one is on the way! Can't beat getting it in two days! There is a silver lining when you look at most things!

May 11, 2026 06:07 PM
Leanne Smith

Well sometimes we hear "when it rains it pours."  You seemed to have definitely found the silver lining. 

May 12, 2026 06:27 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Leanne- I remember when I was maybe 10 or so and my uncle told me the glass half full or half empty story. I prefer to find the positives in a situation. 

May 11, 2026 07:45 PM
Leanne Smith

Yes I also remember hearing that as a child.  Thank you and good morning. 

May 12, 2026 06:23 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It seems that we are always going to be down from time to time, and some are really good at hiding it, haha.

May 12, 2026 06:10 AM
Leanne Smith

That is true and understanding those lows helps us to discover the silver lining. 

May 12, 2026 06:16 AM