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Memorial Day: Remember Those That Gave It All

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Memorial Day: Remember Those That Gave It All

If only there could be a scenario where young children, ask their parents why we celebrate Memorial Day as we have had enduring peace for years.

Standing on the side of a road, watching a parade march by and flags waving and bands sounding out the marching songs hundreds once strutted to in perfect cadence and order. If only.

No one makes the commitment to enlist, without the single thought as to what they are going to do, and the true commitment they are making.

Whether it was as a response to aggression back 250 years ago, or even in 1914 when the Kaiser was overly active and again in 1941, all knew it could be a one-way travel.

It is the way it has been forever, and the dream of lasting peace still remains.

 

We are experiencing heavy rains, and it has caused many events and parades to be canceled.

I went to the cemeteries Friday, in the sun, to place new flags at the graves of our family members and friends.

No fanfare, no bands, just a moment to say a prayer and maybe get a little weepy for those that have gone.

I remember a sign I read along the highway near a military base:

All Who Served Gave Some,

Some Who Served, Gave All

On this Memorial Day weekend, when the picnics and barbeques are stunted, don't forget the reasoning for the day and if you should see a person in uniform thank them for their service.

Memorial Day: Remember Those That Gave It All

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Cara Marcelle Mancuso
Golden Girls with SW Desert Homes - Tucson, AZ
Call a Marana neighbor, I'm THERE!

Inspirational post, thank you Ed.  It is a good reminder to put our thanks where they belong, and not just at the picnic table. 

 

May 24, 2026 07:02 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Agreed Cara Marcelle Mancuso  Thanks for taking a few minutes.

May 24, 2026 07:24 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 hi Ed... love your message. It's one more people have to hear. Too many have forgotten the real meaning of Memorial Day and why we have this weekend and holiday. 

May 24, 2026 07:37 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Nina Hollander, Broker  it hit me hard as I walked through the cemetery this past week and saw the flags on the stones. 

May 24, 2026 07:44 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Ed, Memorial Day is more than a long weekend. It’s a time to remember and honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country. 

May 24, 2026 07:43 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Yes it is, Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400  and as I become more of a grown up, it gets a stronger meaning to me.

May 24, 2026 07:55 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Memorial Day really is a time to pause and remember the true reason behind the holiday. While many families gather for cookouts, travel, and time together, the day exists because so many men and women made the ultimate sacrifice in service to the country. The quiet moments at cemeteries and memorials often say more than the parades and ceremonies ever could.

The phrase “All gave some, some gave all” continues to capture the meaning of Memorial Day so powerfully. Thank you for sharing this thoughtful reminder to honor and remember those who never made it home and the families who continue to carry those memories forward. Memorial Day is not a holiday, but a day of remembrance and reverence for those who protected this nation but did not come home to their family.

May 24, 2026 07:46 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518  serving one's country is noble and deserves respect especially when some gave more than others

May 24, 2026 07:57 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Ed and you are so right about Freedom.  Funny more parades back east compare to the Denver area.  Hope your golf game is doing good.

 

May 24, 2026 08:23 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Will Hamm   It is to be cherished and protected. Too may try to reach our shores to be free, must be for a reason.

May 25, 2026 05:44 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Sunday morning, Ed. Have a great day and a very special Memorial Day.

May 24, 2026 08:24 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Thanks for stopping, Roy

May 25, 2026 05:44 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Ed,

Sorry to hear many of your events are getting rained out. We were suppose to get rain today and so far nothing but sunshine so the events have not been cancelled. Happy Memorial weekend and thank you for your inspirational post!

May 24, 2026 08:36 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Dorie Dillard Austin TX   We are almost at the stage where lumber yards are starting to offer specials on Ark materials. 4 days of rain with at least  2 more to come.

May 25, 2026 05:46 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Ed, we cannot forget those who fought for their families, and we did not greet them in a coming home party.    They are the heroes.

May 24, 2026 10:22 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner  on the PBS Memorial Day concert last night, there was a veteran that had no legs onstage, offering his reasoning for giving a Desert Storm comfort

May 25, 2026 05:48 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Thanks for sharing, make it a great Sunday and enjoy your long Holiday weekend! Let's give thought on this Weekend, as we should never forget their sacrifices. Bill 

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

May 24, 2026 10:38 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Thanks for stopping, Bill

May 25, 2026 05:48 AM
John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Hello Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 thank you, Happy Memorial Day to you, to everyone, and to gave it all.

May 24, 2026 11:09 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Hi, John Pusa  Enjoy your day

May 25, 2026 05:50 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Afternoon Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 

The lead-in graphic says it all. Freedom IS NOT Free! In fact, with freedom comes a huge responsibility. Just because we may be free to do and say what we want doesn't mean it should be uttered or acted on. 

May 24, 2026 11:33 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Doug Dawes  The one thing we cannot replace is a human life, and the cost of freedom takes many a life, and those that take it for granted cannot see that.

May 25, 2026 05:51 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
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What a moving reminder of what this day truly asks of us, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754, and your words hit with a quiet strength that lingers. The way you framed those small moments, from the rain to the flags to the quiet visits, brings the meaning of Memorial Day right back into focus. Thanks for sharing something that nudges the heart a bit and makes us pause.

May 24, 2026 12:35 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Lew Corcoran you make my thoughts sound so profund

May 25, 2026 05:52 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Ed- Memorial Day is a special day. It's up to us to continue to educate our young people about the sacrifices that were made.  I was in college during Vietnam and lost high school friends. 

May 24, 2026 05:15 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kathy Streib  IN my senior year of high school, 1966, we received notice of a graduate from the previous year had been killed in Vietnam. It brought it very close to home.

Today, kids are far too self-centered and addicted to their electronics, and the shock of being drafted would be too much for them

May 25, 2026 05:58 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Freedom is a funny thing at times, but it seems that we truly have more freedom than most other places do.

May 25, 2026 06:31 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Even in the rain, we must not forget or we may lose our liberty. Thank you for your simple yet inspiring post. 

May 25, 2026 07:39 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Ed this is a National Day that is well deserved.  However, we should remember and honor those who gave their lives for the freedom we have everyday.

May 25, 2026 04:44 PM