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What Are Comments That Make Home Stagers Pause?

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What Are Comments That Make Home Stagers Pause?

 

Where would we be without clients?  When I was a home stager, I was blessed to work with some of the sweetest homeowners and agents. I loved helping alleviate some of the stress sellers felt as they placed the For Sale sign in their yard. 

 

However, there were times when I had to stop and say nothing and move on. You know what I’m talking about…some of the comments that made you think that this job may be harder than you thought. 

 

 This...........................or.............this???   

                                                        

Here are a few comments that often made me wince and wonder why I was even there.

 

-I had a professional designer when I moved in, so it doesn’t need staging. It may have been beautifully designed, but interior design is for the owner's specific taste or preferences. Staging hopes to appeal to a broader base of buyers. 

 

-I want to wait and see what happens. If it doesn’t sell in a month, then I’ll consider staging it.   Wasted time on the market, and you would have lost some of the real buyers. 

 

-We thought we could cover up the chipped and cracked tile with little rugs. This then begs the question…What else is the seller covering up???

-Why should we paint? The new owners will want to choose their own color.  This is last century thinking. Bold colors may make buyers scroll past your listing without giving it a second look. Some buyers may not have the extra time or budget to paint after they move in. 

 

-We just painted the walls, so please don’t hang any art or mirrors.

This is easy to understand. A seller I worked with would not allow us to hang anything on the walls because he had just had them painted.

Leaving out well-placed artwork or mirrors on the walls is like offering a cake with no frosting. 

 

-I’m not spending another dime on this house. Understandably, a seller wants to invest in their new home and not in a home they’re leaving; however, this can work against them. 

However, you have to look at it as maximizing the investment you already have in the home. 

 

-If a buyer doesn’t like what they see, they don’t have to buy the house.     Even large companies are constantly adjusting their marketing, making their products more appealing to the public.

 

-I’ll just put what we edit in the garage or spare room.  Buyers need to see your space. A room or garage full of boxes, bags, and extra furniture can distract the buyer. 

 

-We’ll light candles when the home is being shown. No one will know we have dogs.    Ask any agent…any odor other than CLEAN is bad.  Candles present a safety hazard. And…buyers and their agents are aware of candles and baked cookies used to “sweeten the deal.”

 

I loved working with sellers as they prepared their homes for sale. 

These comments weren’t roadblocks, just cautionary signs. 





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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Have heard all the objections. And, explaining "livability" versus "staging for sale" to someone who has already made up their mind is definitely a challenge. Try as I did, not all sellers needed my services. So "good lick, I'll pass" was a script I had to use occasionally. Enjoy your day. 

May 28, 2026 05:27 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin in 2007-08 when I started staging, it was like pulling teeth to get sellers (and some agents) on board. It wasn't about anything other than presenting their home in the best light.

May 28, 2026 02:40 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Over the years I have heard everyone of these excuses. I overcome most, but if I determine the sellers are not committed to selling unless they get a dream deal, I move on.

May 28, 2026 05:45 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty The commitment has to be there.  Otherwise, it can be a waste of everyone's time. 

May 28, 2026 04:36 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent list of things stagers (and agents) don't want to hear! I love this "Leaving out well-placed artwork or mirrors on the walls is like offering a cake with no frosting. " Great analogy!

May 28, 2026 05:47 AM
Kathy Streib

Thanks Kat Palmiotti I staged a vacant property and the seller would not allow anything to be hung. When the agent saw it, she said exactly what I thought...it was ok but lacked something, Then she realized there was nothing on the walls. 

May 28, 2026 04:40 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It's so nice to work with people who appreciate the assistance we give, which ultimately leads to better things for them!

May 28, 2026 06:26 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England   In 2007-08 when I started, the concept was new. It was hard to get sellers to buy into it. 

May 28, 2026 04:41 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I think all sellers go to the same school before they talk with an agent or a stager.

May 28, 2026 07:20 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 LOL   Do you remember the staging shows that used to be on HGTV?  There was a mother-daughter staging team and they were kind of rude. I walked into a consultation and the couple were scared to death of me because of the show. 

May 28, 2026 04:42 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I can see why those would be concerning, especially the third one.

May 28, 2026 08:47 AM
Kathy Streib

George Souto I had a client who was really a sweet man. However, he had small throw rugs covering chipped tiles in his kitchen. These were more distracting than the chipped tiles. 

May 28, 2026 04:44 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Kathy, Some of the things we've heard and seen throughout the years have made us paused more than once!

May 28, 2026 10:16 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I'll bet. The last thing you want to do is waste time when the seller isn"t committed to selling their home. 

May 28, 2026 04:45 PM
Jeff Sorg
Palm Springs, CA
A Timeless Perspective for the Modern Market

Hi Kathy,

Congratulations on the Featured Post!

This one made me laugh: “If a buyer doesn’t like what they see, they don’t have to buy the house”. I heard that so many times. Honestly, it is the peak of seller hubris.

Sellers who dig their heels in like that at the start are difficult, for sure. They completely forget that they aren't just selling a house; they are competing for a buyer's attention, and that buyer is trying to visualize their next home.

The sad reality of this statement is sometimes brutal: buyers won't buy it. They will just quietly walk away, take their money and buy the house down the block that made them feel welcome and comfortable.

Sellers who adopt the "take it or leave it" strategy usually end up doing exactly that—leaving it on the market.

Terrific piece!

May 28, 2026 11:21 AM
Kathy Streib

Thanks Jeff Sorg I appreciate your comment.  Often the "take it or leave it" attitude comes with other roadblocks.   One of my clients had a beautiful contemporary home that had been professionally decorated. She refused to move the life-sized lady sculpture that sat at her bar or the ten-feet- tall sculpture that was in your face when you entered the home. 

May 28, 2026 04:52 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kathy Streib Thankfully, experience lets you know when to walk away and not waste your valuable time 

May 28, 2026 12:28 PM
Kathy Streib

Hannah Williams  that's the ah-ha moment for agents when they realize it's ok to walk away.

May 28, 2026 05:03 PM
Matthew Klinowski, PA
Downing Frye Realty - Naples, FL
Naples Golf Guy | Find Your Dream Lifestyle

Hi Kathy, I'm fairly certain you could write a book about all of your experiences! Matt

 

May 28, 2026 01:50 PM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Matthew Klinowski, PA   I may have to.

May 28, 2026 05:04 PM
John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Hello Kathy Streib these are important list of comments home sellers need to avoid.

May 28, 2026 02:40 PM
Kathy Streib

John Pusa    I've been lucky because most of my clients were sweethearts to work with. 

May 28, 2026 05:05 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

I've heard many of these excuses. The best one is that they had it decorated by a professional many years before. Oh my - 30-years ago and boy does it show!

May 28, 2026 03:17 PM
Kathy Streib

Dr. Paula McDonald  oh my gosh. You reminded me of a time when I waited until the end of an open house to introduce myself to the agents. The home was lovely but looked just as you said, as if it had been professionally decorated decades earlier. The seller didn't want a thing changed.

May 28, 2026 05:08 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Kathy,

OMG I know I've heard all of these in my real estate career. You can't fix stupid! I'm a firm believer in staging as you know and am seeing many sellers are seeing it now if they want their home sold they need to please the buyer and make every effort to attract their attention!

May 28, 2026 04:24 PM
AZ Mortgage Broker: Michael George

Agreed: Stupid!

May 30, 2026 11:20 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX your stager is the best!!! I love everything he's done. 

May 28, 2026 05:08 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Nina Hollander, Broker it may be up to the agent, but in my mind, it also can be up to me to explain things as a stager— in a way that has universal appeal. You know?

May 28, 2026 04:37 PM
Kathy Streib

Laura Cerrano   I agree. If you understand what the seller is feeling, you can show them what's in it for them. 

May 28, 2026 06:42 PM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

Can you do a mini-stage for $1K?   Ha ha.  It is $5K now.

We do have those with a camera and family has a furniture will do stage and photography much lower. 

May 28, 2026 05:58 PM
Kathy Streib

Sam Shueh  If I had a client whose home was vacant and they had a limited budget, I'd recommend Virtual staging. 

May 28, 2026 06:43 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Feature worthy! 

Yes, I have had each one of these said to me more than once and only just a few times was I not able to convince them otherwise. It can be frustrating, but very satisfying when they do come around!

May 29, 2026 10:33 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kathy:

I think I have heard most of these, if not all, and well as other excuses for not making changes that will make the home more marketable and appealing to buyers. Then there are those sellers who want to do what's right, and take the time and money to do so, without hesitation.

Jeff

May 29, 2026 05:14 PM
AZ Mortgage Broker: Michael George
Mortgage Broker - Phoenix, AZ
Providing low rates on purchase & refinance loans.

Kathy! How could people NOT know some of these things. I don't understand the concept of hiring a professional- someone with years of experience- and then giving your own uneducated opinion. That is....silly. "I had a professional designer do this whole place" (it was my niece, who is in art school), and "we were told that blue shag carpet was back in style!!

May 30, 2026 11:20 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

That post hit home in the best way, Kathy Streib, and it gave me a good laugh along with a few nods of recognition. Thanks for laying it all out with such clarity because it’s a reminder of what we navigate every day. Always helps to know we’re not the only ones hearing these gems :)

May 31, 2026 01:56 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Of course, nothing in our business or any business, is always easy. You learn to smile and explain and then see which way the wind blows.

Jun 01, 2026 07:49 PM