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Motivational Monday…Seal Your Ship



Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water that gets in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down. 

Unknown

 

With all of the words and name-calling being shouted at each other, it’s hard to keep from wanting to dig a big hole and crawl into it. 

 

And it’s not just the in-person vitriol we hear but the harsh and unkind words we read on social media. 

Turn on a “news” show, and the talking heads don’t speak anymore. They shout at each other and into the screen. 

 

The above quote says it all. 

 

Many no longer watch mainstream news. Sadly, families and friendships have been tarnished or even dissolved because we’ve allowed all of the antagonism to seep into our space. 

 

However, we have choices. Even though some of the negativity is unavoidable, it’s up to us to fill the holes or weigh the anchor for calmer waters. 

 

If you’re beginning to feel overwhelmed or inundated by the yahoos (not the email) and other talking heads around you…pull up your anchor and surround yourself with all the things and people who lift you up!


Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.
Oprah Winfrey 

 

Negative people need drama like oxygen. Stay positive; it will take their breath away. Anonymous 

 

Stay away from negative people. They have a problem for every solution.
Albert Einstein 

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. While Albert Einstein was a gifted scientist, he was also a gifted philosopher. Stay away from negative people. They have. problem for every solution. These days we must separate opinion from fact on the news no matter what channel you choose. And when we do not our thinking becomes clouded. Sad but true. Sometimes nobody has enough facts to form a solid opinion which makes the chaos worse. Enjoy your day. 

Jun 01, 2026 04:39 AM
Kathy Streib

So true Wayne Martin It's a shame when you read or hear something and the first thing you do is research to see if what was said was the truth. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:19 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Kathy, This is one of the biggest challenges today.  People must keep an open mind, gather as much reliable information and don't listen to all the noise.

Jun 01, 2026 04:46 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 so true. You don't want to close yourself totally from what is going on but you have to have a good filter around you. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:19 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Kathy, this is a timely reminder. We cannot always control the noise, negativity, or challenges around us, but we can control what we allow to occupy our minds and hearts. Choosing positive influences, meaningful relationships, and activities that bring peace can make all the difference. Thank you for sharing an encouraging message to start the week on a stronger and more optimistic note.

Jun 01, 2026 04:56 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518  I agree, the best thing anyone can do is place yourself in a positive atmosphere and surrounded by positive people. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:21 PM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks Kathy for sharing a great motivational quote to begin the new month!!!

Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water that gets in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down. 

Unknown

 

Jun 01, 2026 05:17 AM
Kathy Streib

HI Sham Reddy CRS Thank you!  Focus on what's positive. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:22 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
I've always loved that analogy. I am one of those people who seriously limit the time I spend watching the news. I hesitate to even call it "news" because every outlet has its spin. It's hard to know what the truth really is anymore. I try to surround myself with uplifting people, and I try to be one. I do NOT post anything political on any social media platform. 

Jun 01, 2026 05:21 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams   I'm with you on the news. And, it's a shame when you have to fact-check everything you read online.  You read something on social media, then you have to scroll through the comments to see if anyone mentions it being fake news. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:34 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... a terrific analogy. I learned a long time ago to avoid people who would drag me down. I also try to live my own life with positivity... for myself and those around me.

Jun 01, 2026 05:32 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker It's refreshing when people around you are positive...you feel uplifted. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:35 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Kathy. This is good advice for all of us.

Have an outstanding week.

Jun 01, 2026 06:35 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Roy Kelley Hello to Chef Dolores. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:35 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I just feel like this affliction we now have can be traced back to the advent of the Internet. You can now search out those who agree with you (and those same folks will agree that anyone who does not agree with them is an idiot). 

Jun 01, 2026 07:05 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty you may be right. Soon,  if you use any social media, you'll find the algorithms are serving you only posts that agree with the posts you tend to read...so you're getting just one side of any story. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:37 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Great Einstein quote, thank you for sharing. 

Jun 01, 2026 07:25 AM
Kathy Streib

Leanne Smith you've gotta love Einstein. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:37 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Great post on the realities of what can tarnish a day. The talking heads are annoying and at times they are yelling yet not saying anything.  When the volume of a conversation increases, I tend to just smile and walk away.

Jun 01, 2026 07:42 AM
Kathy Streib

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 that's the smartest thing to do!!! Wise man. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:38 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Great quotes, and a good reminder. It is always good to aim to lift up rather than tear down. To step up rather than ignore. We all can do something to help each other even if it is only giving a smile of encouragement - You can do this!

Jun 01, 2026 07:42 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 I couldn't agree more!  Eavh person has it in them to lift one person up...to make someone's day!

Jun 01, 2026 12:39 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent quotes (all of them!) Yes, surrounding yourself with positivity makes life so much better!

Jun 01, 2026 08:05 AM
Kathy Streib

Thanks Kat Palmiotti   We learn as we get older that we can walk away from negative people. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:41 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy even the Bible warns us about the power of the tongue.

Jun 01, 2026 08:34 AM
Kathy Streib

George Souto true.  Actions aren't the only thing that can hurt people. Our words are just as sharp. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:42 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, you are so right, politics have broken families and friendships.  I cut my news watching in half, it was all so negative.

Jun 01, 2026 11:05 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner It's rare when I meet someone who still watches traditional news programs. 

Jun 01, 2026 12:43 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Kathy Streib,

It does take a village and I love how strong your family rallies around each other! Love the graduation celebration for Luke !! How wonderful!! Congratulations Luke!!!

Jun 02, 2026 06:23 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Amen to surrounding yourself with those who lift you up! Run from those who want to sink you.

Jun 09, 2026 01:10 PM