Motivational Monday…Nurture and Treasure Them
Many friends will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends leave footprints in your heart.
Eleanor Roosevelt
When I read that today is Best Friends Day, I thought about the many friends I’ve had through the years. I also thought about how true it is that as we get older, that number diminishes.
My best friend is someone I’ve known for 40+ years. I placed her in three jobs and, in doing so, also introduced her to her husband. We see this wonderful couple at least every week now, but sadly, my dear friend has Alzheimer's.
We are still the best of friends, but those memories are locked in her special place. I made a book of pictures to help her as the disease progresses.
Friendships matter throughout our lives, but they become especially important as we grow older.
Life changes such as career moves, divorce, the loss of loved ones, raising children, and simply following different paths can all affect our relationships.
Sometimes, however, friendships fade for a much simpler reason: they are neglected and left untended.
Friendships have to be nurtured. Let me tell you about a group of childhood friends who have kept their special bond together for over 65 years.
Six ladies I knew in grade school called themselves “The Sisters.” In high school, they had dinner once a week in one of the sisters’ homes. They maintained their friendship through college, marriages, and children. They continued taking annual Sisters trips, and their friendship is strong to this day.
It’s not too late to make new friends.
What about the people you meet when you pursue your interests or hobbies?
The people we meet could be future friends, or at the very least acquaintances. Let it bloom naturally. You never know!
Friendships come in all shapes and sizes…and VIRTUALLY! Think about the people we’ve met here…most virtually and some in person! Now, thanks to FaceTime and Zoom, we can have friendships throughout the country.
If you have a chance, how about calling your best friend today?!
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