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Listing 101: The 3 BIG Mistakes That Cost Me

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Listing 101: The 3 BIG Mistakes That Cost Me

 

Early in my career, I made some mistakes with listings that taught more than any coaching or mentor ever could, actual life experience. New to the industry, not knowing what to expect and wanting the business so badly that I sometimes remained quiet. Hoping for the best. To my detriment. The result? Wasted time, lost money and listings that went nowhere.


Here’s 3 examples of my early experiences:

 

Early in my career, a couple played me perfectly. They wanted a 30-day listing and promised I’d be their lifelong agent for multiple future deals and got me to slash my commission. Yes, I was a hungry newbie! The home was overpriced by at least $75K. I poured time and money into open houses while they remained in the house, chatting up every visitor. They rejected a fair offer. I refused to renew the contract. Avoid selling yourself short, never take on a 30-day listing or allow wishful thinking to replace market reality.

 

 

One home seller was dead set on top-dollar pricing but completely oblivious to the following problems: Mystery stains on threadbare carpets, dings and gouges in walls, grimy, unkempt, circa mid 90's appliances. I remained quiet. Went with his price. Big mistake. I should have relayed that people could turn away once inside, based on condition, that he should fix the cosmetic issues, replace appliances or price it as-is. It ended up expiring. Sellers may not like it up front but straight talk beats silence, every single time.

 

 

Some sellers will badmouth agents. It's very telling how they speak about fellow professionals at the listing appointment. They might also interview new agents while still under contract, waste your marketing dollars and attempt to trash your reputation when things don’t go their way. I admit to ignoring the flashing red, neon lights warning, “Don’t take the listing!” I sincerely thought they wouldn’t do that to me. Surprise!!! Your time, energy and resources belong with people who value the work and it’s okay to say no. 

 


At the end of every listing appointment, I always ask, “Do you have any questions or concerns about working with me?” Their answer tells me everything I need to know, then I can decide to take the listing if offered or respectfully decline. Getting a home sold is the goal but only with realistic expectations and mutual respect. 

 

Have any early listing experiences you'd like to share?

 

 

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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

I wish you the very best in getting that land sold in a timely manner, Kay Van Kampen!

Jun 09, 2026 06:03 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

People make decisions every day that adversely affect others, Brian England. I try to leave the day better than I found it!

Jun 09, 2026 06:04 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Moving confidently ahead after a mistake, means it was a learning experience never to be repeated, Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty!

Jun 09, 2026 06:31 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Learned some hard lessons early and was happy to keep looking forward, George Souto!

Jun 09, 2026 06:32 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

It really is OK to say no, Carol Williams. It has served me well ever since learning that!

Jun 09, 2026 06:34 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Absolutely, Dr. Paula McDonald!

Jun 09, 2026 06:34 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Not one to just throw away money but sometimes a poor decision deems that, Hannah Williams. Glad to have made it past the newbie stage into an experienced agent!

Jun 09, 2026 06:35 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Having a voice, means using it for the better good of clients and business, Marte Cliff. Glad to have learned that early on!

Jun 09, 2026 06:36 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

The feeling of being used was enough for me to say NO MORE! Some people do not respect our industry, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543, it shows up in many ways!

Jun 09, 2026 06:38 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Lessons learned early, clear the way for smoother sailing, Anna "Banana" Kruchten. Of course, we need to be the dutiful captain of our own ship as well!

Jun 09, 2026 06:40 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Diana, what a profound and beautifully written perspective. The distinction between success and significance is a powerful reminder for all of us in real estate. It really is the lives we touch and the lasting relationships we build that make this business truly rewarding. Congratulations on a well-deserved feature!

Jun 10, 2026 05:14 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thanks, Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518, I appreciate the support!

Jun 10, 2026 05:52 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a ride this was, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! Your stories hit with that perfect mix of truth, grit, and a little sting that every agent learns the hard way, and I couldn’t help nodding along with a grin. Thanks for laying it all out there, because posts like this save the rest of us a few gray hairs.

Jun 10, 2026 09:13 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Some lessons learn us while others durn us, Lew Corcoran. Glad to still be here!

Jun 10, 2026 01:17 PM
Gary J. Muccio, Associate Broker
Keller Williams of Central PA - Camp Hill, PA
Exceptional Customer Service!

Excellent post, Wanda! And, the longer you're in the business the easier it is to implement step 3 - knowing when to walk away. Your time and energy are valuable and only worth spending on those who will work collaboratively with you. Continued success to you!

Jun 11, 2026 02:21 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Qualifying is so important before proceeding, Gary J. Muccio, Associate Broker. I am a conservationist at heart, especially when it comes to saving my time, energy and resources!

Jun 11, 2026 08:51 AM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

A partner of mine in a Venture Capital firm once told me.."Paddy, it's not the deals you make that make you successful, it is the deals you walk away  from"

Jun 12, 2026 12:26 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

That is a very smart business strategy, Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD, one that has served him well, I imagine. The Kenny Rogers song comes to mind, "You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, know when to run...!"

Jun 12, 2026 06:35 AM
Dinah Stallworth-Lewis
Priority Real Estate LLC - 318.332.8281 - Natchitoches, LA
NATCHITOCHES, LA HOMES FOR SALE

Wanda,

What an amazing post and illustrations.  Congratulations on the feature!   You articulated some hard truths that I have also had to learn the hard way.   Yes,  it needed to be said and I'm glad you posted it.   In the past, some of my clients and the issues surrounding those properties were "red flags"  right from the start.  But, I  would push and manuever to try and make it work.   When many times, I should have pushed pause and  just walked away.  Thanks for sharing.     

Jun 12, 2026 08:14 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Our collective experiences enable us to be better professionals for client's sake, Dinah Stallworth-Lewis. Glad to have longevity in an industry that I truly enjoy!

Jun 13, 2026 07:52 AM