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Cleaning Up Another Person's Mess

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Beam & Branch Realty TREC #547752

I recently read a story about Japanese soccer fans who stayed after a World Cup match to clean the stadium—not because they made the mess, but because they believed leaving a place better than they found it was simply the right thing to do. This has become the norm for these fans.

I was so impressed by this and thought about how real estate can be much the same. There are times when we step into transactions where communication has broken down, expectations weren't set, details were missed, or problems have been ignored. While it may not be our mess, it becomes our responsibility to help find solutions.

A competent agent doesn't waste time assigning blame to others. Instead, they roll up their sleeves, solve the problems, restore confidence, and keep moving the transaction forward. The goal has not changed, and that is to perform according to the contract and get it to a successful closing.

Professionalism isn't measured by how we handle the easy deals. And, as we all know in this business, most deals are challenging at best. The so-called "easy" deals are far and few between. 

How we respond when we're asked to clean up someone else's mess directly impacts the success of a transaction. Many times, we assume the role that another agent "should" be doing. Rather than becoming negative, we can simply take a deep breath, remember the goal, and get the job done.

My grandmother taught me a lesson early on in life that has followed me. That lesson was to leave something better than when we found it. Therefore, in real estate, leave a property, transaction, and the people better than you found them. When we do this, everyone wins.

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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

This is funny. I was have a discussion about the folks from Japan who cleaned up the stadium with a patron at Starbucks this morning. He made an interesting point...he said if people cleaned up, fewer workers would need to be hired and jobs would be lost. I told him it was a cynical way to look at life...but in the end his words do have some truth in them. HMMMMM

Jun 15, 2026 06:27 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

This story really made an impact on me. If we all pitched in to do some "clean up" even when we didn't create the mess, what a better place it would be.

Jun 15, 2026 06:35 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Paula... it's important to never take our eyes off the prize, so to speak. This means doing what we need to do to get our clients to a successful closing... even if it means cleaning up someone else's mess.

Jun 15, 2026 06:51 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

So true, Nina. As women, I believe we resonate with this sentiment a lot.

Jun 15, 2026 06:54 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Paula, so true, and cleaning up messes does relate to real estate.   My clients always said they knew I would get them to the closing table.  One way or another, and you don't have to say anything, your clients KNOW.

Jun 15, 2026 08:57 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

True statement, Joan. And, we do it because it is the right thing to do.

Jun 15, 2026 01:15 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dr. Paula McDonald the goal is to have a successful transaction.  So even when it is "Not Our Job" it becomes our job to make sure that happens.  

Jun 15, 2026 09:56 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Absolutely, George. It really is our job to step up whenever it is needed.

Jun 15, 2026 01:15 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Paula= I saw that story and it was a feel good story and at the same time one where I wanted to ask "what's wrong with us that we leave such a mess?"   There is a time to point fingers but the first thing to do is roll up our sleeves and fix it. 

Jun 15, 2026 07:14 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Yes, when we all roll up our sleeves, it makes a great difference.

Jun 16, 2026 07:47 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Paula. While I likely would not go as far as the Japanese soccer fans I have been guilty of cleaning a listing or paying to have a house cleaned. Many fellow agents thought I was nuts but they never saw the smile on my face taking the commission check to the bank for deposit. Enjoy your day.

Jun 16, 2026 05:07 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Good point, Wayne. Paydays are always a good thing.

Jun 16, 2026 07:47 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I saw that story as well, and it warmed my heart.  They appeared to be having fun while doing it as well.  I can tell that they are definitely good people!!!  Cleaning up after others never seems to be fun, which makes their story even more amazing.

Jun 16, 2026 05:58 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

It was such a heart-warming story. I love this tradition they started.

Jun 16, 2026 07:47 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Your grandmother was a wise woman. I too have had to clean up messes left by potential buyers and real estate agents. 

Jun 17, 2026 08:13 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Dr. Paula McDonald I think this sentence sums it up very well. "A competent agent doesn't waste time assigning blame to others." Thank you for saying it.

Jun 17, 2026 12:00 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Love this! I recently saw a listing online that was absolutely unbelievable...the pictures were more likely to scare people away. I don't understand any real estate agent sharing those pictures. They could really use someone to come in and clean up THAT mess!

Jun 18, 2026 08:55 AM
Jeff Sorg
Palm Springs, CA
A Timeless Perspective for the Modern Market

 I so agree with this post, Dr. Paula McDonald True professionalism isn't measured when everything is running smoothly; it's measured when things fall apart and someone has to step up and be the adult in the room.

We've all been there stepping in to do the job the agent on the other side "should" be doing just to protect the transaction. Just do it!

Here's to "Grandma Wisdom!"

Jun 18, 2026 04:50 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Jun 20, 2026 06:56 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

The story about the Japanese impressed me too - mostly because I thought "What is wrong with Americans that we can make a mess and walk away?"  Or worse - tear things up and make a mess deliberately. 

Meanwhile - you are so right. Instead of saying "That's not my job" agents need to dig in and straighten out the messes. Over the years working in a small town (where everybody knows everybody's business) I saw plenty of transactions fail because no one was willing to do the work. they thought someone else should be doing. 

Jun 21, 2026 11:25 AM