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International Being You Day: Why Be Uniquely You In Life And At Home

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Celebrate International Being You Day – Because There's Only One You

“You’re born an original—don’t die a copy.”

... John Mason

 

June 22: A Day To Celebrate Being Uniquely Yourself

Every year on June 22, International Being You Day encourages us to do something that can be surprisingly difficult: simply be ourselves.

In a world filled with social media filters, endless comparisons, and pressure to fit in, it's easy to forget that our greatest strength isn't trying to be like someone else. It's embracing who we already are.

International Being You Day on June 22 is a reminder that the best things in life—including your home—should reflect who you truly are.

 

“Find out who you are and do it on purpose.”

... Dolly Parton

Why Be Yourself

Each of us brings something unique to the table. Our personalities, experiences, talents, perspectives, and even our quirks help shape the lives of the people around us. The qualities that make you different are often the very things that make you memorable.

 

“Always be a first-rate version of yourself and not a second-rate version of someone else.”

... Judy Garland

 

Being Uniquely You MattersI've always liked to say, "Be yourself, everyone else is taken." It's a simple reminder that there's no benefit in trying to live someone else's life when the world already needs the person only you can be.

 

Being yourself doesn't mean being perfect. It doesn't mean having all the answers or never making mistakes. It means living authentically, staying true to your values, and allowing your personality to shine instead of trying to meet someone else's expectations.

 

Celebrate What Makes You Unique

International Being You Day is the perfect opportunity for you to appreciate everything that makes you who you are. Maybe it's your sense of humor, your creativity, your kindness, your determination, or your ability to make others smile. Those qualities don't need to be compared with anyone else's—they're yours alone.

 

Instead of worrying about fitting in, celebrate what sets you apart. Authenticity builds stronger relationships, inspires confidence, and reminds us that our differences make our communities richer and more interesting.

 

After all, there's only one you—and that's exactly who the world needs.

 

"Your only obligation in any lifetime is to be true to yourself."

... Richard Bach

 

There's No One Right Home—Only The Right Home For You

That philosophy applies to every part of life—including buying or selling a home. The "perfect" house looks different for everyone. Some people dream of a quiet cul-de-sac with a spacious backyard. Others want the energy of an Uptown condo, a historic neighborhood, a golf course community, or a waterfront retreat. There is no one-size-fits-all answer because there is no one-size-fits-all homeowner.

 

There is no one size fits all homeoner

 

"No matter the size or style of home you live in, what's most important is how you feel when you're there. Home is where you are free to be your most authentic self."

... Barbara Bellesi Zito

 

One of the things I've enjoyed most throughout my real estate career is helping people discover the homes and communities that truly fits their lifestyles rather than following the latest trend. A home should reflect the people who live there, not someone else's idea of what it should be.

 

Thinking About Finding A Greater Charlotte Home That Fits You?

 

"Home is a refuge from the world, a place where we can be ourselves." 

... Unknown

 

Helping Charlotte Home Buyers Find A Home That Is A True Reflection Of Them

 

Whether you're searching for your first home, moving to a neighborhood that better matches your lifestyle, or preparing to sell and begin your next chapter, I'm here to help. Since 1999, I've been helping Greater Charlotte buyers and sellers find homes that truly fit the people who live in them—not just what's trending.

 

Every client has different priorities and every move begins with understanding the person—not just the property. When you're ready to make your next move, I'd love to help you find a place where you can simply be yourself. Whenever you're ready  reach out to Nina Hollander with Coldwell Banker Realty. I'm never more than a call, text or email away!

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 Nina Hollander, RE/MAX Broker, Realtor

 

 

 

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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Nina. Have a great day and an outstanding week.

Jun 22, 2026 04:52 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Thank you, Roy, and wishing you and Dolores the same!

Jun 22, 2026 05:13 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Good morning, Nina.
I discovered that life gets a lot less stressful when I stopped worrying about meeting other people's expectations and simply became comfortable in my own skin. Our quirks, experiences, strengths, and even our imperfections are what make us uniquely us. Authenticity is far less exhausting than pretending to be something we're not. The older I get, the more I appreciate being comfortable with who I am... flaws and all. 

Jun 22, 2026 05:14 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Carol Williams good morning again, Carol. This is one of the great advantage of growing older... we don't need to keep up with the Jones's... personally, professionally, financially, where we live, etc. I always think of Popeye... "I yam what I yam." 

Jun 22, 2026 05:18 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Nina, this is a wonderful and incredibly uplifting post! You are so right—the pressure to fit into a certain mold can be exhausting, and your reminder that authenticity is our greatest strength is so timely.

I love how beautifully you tied this philosophy into real estate. A home shouldn't be about chasing cookie-cutter design trends or satisfying someone else's expectations; it really is a sanctuary where you should feel entirely free to be yourself. Your clients are incredibly lucky to have a partner who focuses on finding a space that truly matches their unique lifestyle and story!

Jun 22, 2026 05:31 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 thanks, Gwen. Once I knew about the day I also knew I had to weave in a bit of a call to action on real estate in my post. I'm delighted that you think I did it well! Happy Monday! Happy new week!

Jun 22, 2026 06:26 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I didn't know that such a day existed, but I think that everyone should feel comfortable enough being themselves every day, haha.

Jun 22, 2026 05:34 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Brian England hi Brian... I'm sure you know that many people, especially when they are younger, are not themselves... they are still "putting on an act" for the rest of the world. We see it in social media every day all day long!

Jun 22, 2026 06:27 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Each day I try hard (truly it is not that hard) to always be myself. I do not care one bit about fitting in to what any one or any group requires for entrance. 

Jun 22, 2026 05:53 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty good morning, Jeff. If I've learned anything it's that this is much easier to do as we get older.

Jun 22, 2026 06:28 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Nina, it isn't hard being ourselves..... I would think trying to be someone else would be hard.  Too much work I think!

Jun 22, 2026 05:55 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner hi Joan... you say that with the advantage of age and maturity... when we are young we spend a lot of time trying to fit in.

Jun 22, 2026 06:28 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Nina. Aa a sales manager I was a proponent of the proposition of " the only thing your competition can't duplicate is you". Those who understood did well naturally. Those that did not struggled. You can't please everyone so you have to please yourself. Enjoy your day your way. 

Jun 22, 2026 05:56 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Wayne Martin hi Wayne... I totally plan to do that (today and all the days to come). That's one thing about getting older... you don't make excuses for being you.

Jun 22, 2026 06:29 AM
Jeff Sorg
Palm Springs, CA
A Timeless Perspective for the Modern Market

Nina, you anchored this beautifully. So many good quotes to ponder, but I think that Judy Garland quote hits it for me!

Jun 22, 2026 05:59 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Jeff Sorg thanks, Jeff... I loved that Judy Garland quote, as well. But I also liked the one by Dolly Parton. 

Jun 22, 2026 06:30 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Yeah Nina, just be yourself. Life’s simpler when you quit worrying about what others think and do things your own way. Have a Happy Being You Day! (which I am sure you always are!)

Jun 22, 2026 06:02 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 hi Sheila... as I've gotten older I've cared less and less about what people think of me... I'm just me and you either like me or you don't.

Jun 22, 2026 06:31 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Nina the world should be grateful there is only one me to deal with ..... LOL

Jun 22, 2026 07:17 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

George Souto 😂🤣😂

Jun 22, 2026 07:28 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

When I read this it reminded me of a sign I saw several years ago now it was a marketing piece in a window and it said

"You are You for a reason"

So often we try to be something we are not to fit in to keep the peace when it is better to just be ourselves and live authentically.

Jun 22, 2026 07:58 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 hi Nick... I like that saying "you are you for a reason." It's just so true.

Jun 22, 2026 08:02 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

This is a fun post Nina Hollander, Broker and I want to go into a deep philosophical dive BUT just let me say "I'm glad there is only one of me or I'd have to double my prayer time in asking for forgiveness". 🙏

Jun 22, 2026 08:06 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Let me know if he ever decides to give you up Doll. Nina Hollander, Broker 

Jun 22, 2026 08:20 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Bob "RealMan" Timm 😂HI Bob... can't say I ever thought of it in those terms... I've always felt one of me was enough in general but not in terms of praying for forgiveness.

Jun 22, 2026 08:11 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Nina Hollander, Broker if cloning was a thing I'd order a dozen of YOU. 😍

Jun 22, 2026 08:14 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Bob "RealMan" Timm be careful of what you wish for, Bob. My husband would be the first to say just one of me is enough for a lifetime!

Jun 22, 2026 08:16 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Bob "RealMan" Timm somehow, I don't think that's happening, Bob... his biggest fear is that I die before he does. Then again, you never know.

Jun 22, 2026 08:22 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

So true. If more people understood their purpose, I believe the world would be a better place. Thought it does take a while to discover one's purpose.

Jun 22, 2026 08:13 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Leanne Smith hi Leanne... I've long believed my purpose is simply to be myself and to be a good person. Everything flows from that.

Jun 22, 2026 08:14 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Nina and a great blog to start this week out with.  You always have interesting blogs to share with us here in the Rain.

 

Jun 22, 2026 08:20 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Will Hamm oh gosh, thanks, Will. And thanks for popping by today. Wishing you a great week ahead.

Jun 22, 2026 08:21 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Nina- I love this day!   Being who we are is a lot easier than trying to be who you aren't!  Who can remember how to be someone else when being who you are comes naturally?   I love the Judy Garland quote.

Jun 22, 2026 07:26 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib no argument from me on this, but I'm sure we all know people who are never authentically themselves while they try to keep up with the Jones's.

Jun 23, 2026 03:38 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

We are the best at being our true selves,  especially at home, Nina! Can't imagine trying to emulate anyone else!

Jun 23, 2026 06:23 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! for sure, Wanda. But we know this to be true due to maturity and experience. Younger people might understand this somewhat less.

Jun 24, 2026 05:25 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

What a great message! I love the quotes!

Jun 24, 2026 08:52 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Sharon Tara thank you, Sharon!

Jun 24, 2026 09:07 AM