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Journal Entry for July 4, 2026

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Real Estate Agent with Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX 0506509

Journal Entry for July 4, 2026 
(My nephew is the one wearing eyeglasses in the FEATURE PHOTO)

 

ActiveRain July 2026 Challenge: Celebrating America’s 250th Birthday! 

I have lived through so many changes. My earliest recollections of celebrating the 4th of July Independence Day were with my family at Grandma and Grandpa's house. On that special day in history, he wore his World War 1 Army Uniform. I bowed my head and said my prayers the last time I saw him at his funeral. In the coffin he rested, in peace, wearing his WW1 Army uniform. I was in sixth grade at that time.


GOD BLESS AMERICA, LAND THAT I LOVE

 

Through my parents and their parents, I learned about how important it is to embrace family unity. So, every Sunday, after church, we gathered for supper with everyone from my mother's big side of the family for dinner, giving thanks. We were thankful for our dinner. These are the things I remember about why we were thankful:  

  • My parents’ parents, Grandma and Grandpa, immigrated to America - the legal process to get to America and stay in this country was a reason to be thankful.

  • As children, we were taught how lucky we were to eat what Grandma cooked and not have to stand in soup lines in Chicago for a meal. 

  • I learned how important it is to read, write, and learn English correctly. The English language was a gift we are given in the schools we attended and were expected to graduate.
  • We learned to never make fun of other people who did not dress like us, speak correct English, and we learned to help one another.

After my family came home, we changed our clothes then waited until dark. My family, the people who rented downstairs from us, and the neighborhood kids gathered on our front porch. My father gave each of us punks and sparklers to celebrate the 4th of July. The older boys from the neighborhood threw Cherry Bombs into the sky where there were no trees. Then, all the kids including myself, set off snakes that burned black trails on the sidewalk before going home to sleep. Those were the days I learned to be thankful. 

I am proud to be an American because I was born and raised in Chicago. In school I learned the Pledge of Allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America, including many patriotic songs. As a result of living in America, and attending schools, I learned about common courtesy and obedience to my parents, teachers, and authorities. In addition, throughout my life, I practiced truth, honesty, integrity, and understood, stealing, cheating, and lying are wrong. Finally, from an early age, I learned there are other countries where people are not free.

For those reasons, I am proud my mother's father served in the Army, joining in 1917 in World War 1. That's how he earned his right to U. S. Citizenship and why my other grandparents had to apply for U.S. Citizenship, going through the legal process. 

Other Family Service Records: 

My father served in World War 11 in the Navy. I became pen pals with an Army fellow I met after his one year of duty in Korea. We met during his 30-day leave before serving in Vietnam and married within months after his Honorable Discharge. I have nephews who served in the Iraq and Afghanistan War in the Marines, Navy, and as a Medic. I also have a niece who served as a Prison Guard. I am proud of the fact that all my relatives who served became respectable citizens and parents. From each and every one who served, I learned about courage, strength, family unity, and how to live the American Way with pride and dignity. 

In sum, legally immigrant children of ancestors who were part of the first wave of legal immigration prior to 1900, like my grandparents, were proud to be Americans. It gave us rights to pursue educational goals, and to participate in civic duties. I grew up with a strong attachment to American values and ideals, such as freedom with a fair chance to succeed in home ownership and because family members of own, and others paid dearly to safeguard American Freedom. 

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Patricia... a true American "immigrant" story if I ever heard one. Loved it and I could see all this unfolding in my mind's eye. I've long said that the most patriotic Americans are immigrants and your post just proved me right. Happy July 4th!

Jul 04, 2026 05:46 AM
Patricia Feager

Nina Hollander, Broker 

Awe, thank you! What a great comment. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

I've missed being on AR a lot.

I have the rest of July to complete Tax Protests unless they need me for special circumstances. Otherwise, I will get here as often as I can.

Jul 04, 2026 06:19 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Patricia Feager I've missed seeing you... and will look forward to seeing you again soon.

Jul 04, 2026 06:21 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Patricia. Thanks for sharing some of your family history and special memories.

Enjoy the holiday weekend and treasure your fond memories.

Jul 04, 2026 05:53 AM
Patricia Feager

Roy Kelley - I'm glad to know you read my family military history and what I learned.

I have a lot of catching up to do at home. I shall be thinking about this day all day and remembering how thankful I am. 

Jul 04, 2026 06:20 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. Although we grew up in different neighborhoods of Chicago, your story is a reminder of how, at a point in time, the stores were so similar. Thank you to the contributions your family made to preserve the freedom we enjoy today. Enjoy your day. 

Jul 04, 2026 06:17 AM
Patricia Feager

Wayne Martin - knowing about each other's stories and finding common ground is how relationships begin. I'm glad we both share our Chicago connections - so similar but different backgrounds. I always look forward to hearing more stories about you and your family contributions too! 

Jul 04, 2026 07:22 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP
Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 - San Diego, CA
Coastal San Diego, Veteran's & Retirees Services

I always enjoy my friends' origin stories, you painted a familiar scene with a unique tale of the immigrant experience and growing up in an America that seems long gone. 
My family emigrated from Italy, Ireland, France and Austria, landing primarily in Chicago, Cheyenne and San Francisco. So I really enjoyed your tribute to your family's journey and 4th of July traditions. Independence Day was always a special day of neighbors gathering to celebrate, BBQ and share there firework displays on our neighborhood street. Your story brought me back to my own childhood and "origin story". Thank you for sharing and Happy Independence Day 250!

Jul 04, 2026 06:59 AM
Patricia Feager

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP - what a lovely comment. I appreciate it very much. 

We have something in common. My father's mother and father came from Austria to America together at the same time. All four of my grandparents settled in Chicago. They were so young. I loved that both sets of my grandparents stayed together through sickness and in health until death did they part. That's the same reason I stayed with my spouse too. 

European/Immigrant stories are very touching - tugging from the heart. These are the roots that grow deep. 

Jul 04, 2026 07:27 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Being born in Chicago and having my mother's parents live in Chicago along with my father's oldest brother, his wife and my father's sister and her husband, it is amazing to read how Chicago is home at one time to so many. Immigrant stories such as yours with the emphasis on those who served in the military is so worthwhile. Thank you for sharing and take care, good to see you back on AR even just for a day or so.

Jul 04, 2026 08:56 AM
Patricia Feager

Good day, Leanne Smith - I got up around 4 a.m. and posted this entry around 5 a.m. July 4th, Memorial Day, and Veterans Day are very important dates in my family history. Learning about the history of America was taken very seriously. 

I agree, being born in Chicago with a family background of relatives living in Chicago is something we share from the heart. My parents lived in the same house from the day they were married until they both passed away, both in Chicago, same neighborhood where I grew up. 

I appreciate you thanking me for sharing and seeing me on AR today. Also, I appreciate your candor and presence on ActiveRain too. 

 

Jul 04, 2026 01:16 PM
Leanne Smith

I too am usually up between 4 and 5am depending upon what the dogs hear outside. My parents initially rented an apartment near Wrigley Field, my grandparents lived on N Spaulding and my Aunts and Uncles lived to the west of what was the Swedish community on the northside.

Jul 06, 2026 07:46 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello Patricia Feager - thank you for sharing your family story and participating in the AR July challenge. 

I believe immigrants and children of immigrants, as well as military families, have a different view and appreciation for America.  

Jul 04, 2026 09:36 AM
Patricia Feager

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

Jul 04, 2026 01:19 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia Happy 4th of July and I hope it is a very special 250th birthday today!!!

Jul 04, 2026 09:51 AM
Patricia Feager

George Souto - thank you! 

I pray it will be a very special 250th birthday for all. 

Jul 04, 2026 01:09 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Happy Independence Day Patricia Feager ,

I miss your posts but grateful for when you have time to post and share your stories.

Jul 04, 2026 02:13 PM
Patricia Feager

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - I miss writing regularly and I am so grateful for the appointment I was given from the Comptroller. I've learned so much and miss being involved in this great network of friends, such as yourself!

I wish you joy and a good health. 

Jul 04, 2026 11:26 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Patricia= I loved reading your family's history. You've been missed here. 

Jul 04, 2026 07:59 PM
Patricia Feager

Kathy Streib - you have made me so, very happy! I missed you and others too!

Thank you. 

Jul 04, 2026 11:24 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Hello Patricia Feager  I knew you would have a beautiful post to share with us. You have an amazing way to express yourself. I admire your writing skill! I hope you had a good day today and all is well with you and yours! 

Jul 05, 2026 12:43 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good morning! Your parents and grandparents provided a great foundation for family unity and love of tradition and country. I hope you were able to enjoy your 4th of July, and thank you for your excellent post!

Jul 05, 2026 04:55 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Family unity is one of the greatest things in the world, and I love the sound of your family suppers after church on Sundays!

Jul 05, 2026 05:38 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Patricia Feager Oh, I loved the part about pledging allegiance to the flag. That is something I always love to do. We do that here at our community 

Jul 09, 2026 02:51 PM