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Motivational Monday…Sportsmanship

 

One of the many reasons I love sports is the life lessons they teach. That's also why I'm a strong believer that children benefit from spending at least some time participating in organized sports. 

 

Last week, I listened to Folarin Bolagun discuss his being given the Red Card in the US game against  Bosnia-Herzegovina. It meant that our best player would be unavailable in our game tonight against Belgium. *As it turns out, the ban was overturned Sunday afternoon.

 

I can’t pretend to understand soccer rules or why the ban was lifted. However, what struck me was what he said and did after receiving the red card. 

 

After the game, he walked up to the referee and shook his hand. It is a courtesy he affords every official after a game…win or lose. 

 

He also said: 

“There’s still lots of people we’re inspiring, little kids, boys and girls who are watching, and we have to show them the correct way to handle things, even when you think it’s unjust,”  

 

 

 

He showed composure…he demonstrated the importance of putting the team first… and he showed an awareness of the impact his actions had on others. 

 

 

We may not be soccer players or professional athletes, but we all face losses from time to time. 

 

How do we handle our losses? Do you take the high road when things don’t go your way?




Always take the high road. There is a lot less traffic up there.
Dr. Phil 

One man practicing sportsmanship is far better than a hundred teaching it.
Knute Rockne

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Learning to disagree without being disagreeable is beyond so many. Bolagun is a rare example of one who can do it with a high degree of class and character. A better example of being a great person than an athlete for taking the high road. He has my respect. Enjoy your day.

Jul 06, 2026 04:45 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin class all the way. This is what is taught in team sports and if not it should be.   And yes yes yes, learning to disagree without being disagreeable. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:03 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... I've always loved that quote from Dr. Phil. And how Bolagun handled himself was totally stellar.

Jul 06, 2026 04:55 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker I remember my Aunt Berda  saying to us when we were children..."Never stoop."

Jul 06, 2026 05:04 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

His actions reflect a good coach and great parents.  It takes a village to form an individual strong enough to lose with grace.

Jul 06, 2026 05:01 AM
Kathy Streib

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 I couldn't agree more. The word parent is also a verb and parents need to do more of that. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:05 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent quotes and display of sportsmanship. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:11 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti There are many sports figures who are always showing us what good sportmanship means. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:06 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Good thing that Trump stood up for the USA and the decision was reversed!  It's great to see justice actually happen!

Jul 06, 2026 05:28 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England  what he did was contact the officials and ask them to review the play. Thankfully they did ,

Jul 06, 2026 05:07 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

This is a tough one. I think we should always try to take the high road, but our opposition needs to know we will fight back against injustice. Otherwise we are all Nevil Chamberlain. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:57 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I don't disagree. But there are ways to let them know that. Speak softly and carry a HUGE stick (behind your back)

Jul 06, 2026 05:12 PM
Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Southampton, NY
"Deeply rooted in The Hamptons---local expertise"

Hi Kathy,

Great post--it looks like one that should get out there into the rest of the world--What would happen if all kids were taught the same things that organized sports teaches by its very nature. Team-up with the idea that if we lose we don't get mad, we become part of the celebration for those who did win...it may be our turn next time. Thanks for the important and team-spirited quotes!  

Jul 06, 2026 06:15 AM
Kathy Streib

Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA Thank you!  You see a lot of this when you watch the Little League World Series coming up.    I admit that I dislike losing more than I like winning but we have to be good sports. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:14 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Kathy. Have a great day and an outstanding week.

Jul 06, 2026 06:45 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley I wish you and Chef Dolores the same. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:14 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Children do learn from the actions of adults especially when those actions are consistent with their spoken or written words. I am not into sports any more, but I do believe playing in organized sports as a youth did develop certain attitudes. Respect is learned at home and demonstrated in public. 

Jul 06, 2026 07:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Leanne Smith our actions are a roar compared to our words. Parents, teachers, coaches are important factors in child rearing. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:19 PM
Leanne Smith

So true as we have yet to have the ability to read the mind's of others. 

Jul 08, 2026 09:55 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Kathy, Despite his disappointment, the way Balogun handled the red card showed professionalism that many others wouldn't have had the same reaction!

Jul 06, 2026 08:33 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400   I have so much respect for him. These are lessons that should be shared.

Jul 06, 2026 05:22 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy we may not always like what we are handed in life, but we do need to make the best of it, and move on.

Jul 06, 2026 11:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Absolutely George Souto   It's the mark of a person of character and grace. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:22 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kathy Streib  My kids and grandkids all played soccer, so I understand the rules. There are winners and losers, but it is not whether you win; it is how you played the game. That is good sportsmanship in any game and even in the game of life - I think they call it Karma  - Have a great day, Kathy 

Jul 06, 2026 01:52 PM
Kathy Streib

Hi Hannah Williams We didn't have soccer here when I was growing up. However the children play it now. Whatever the sport, good coaches teach good sportsmanship. 

Jul 06, 2026 05:24 PM